Her Story (2024) Movie Script

Momo, come here.
Your signature, please.
Mom, are you having me
transferred into a key school?
What makes you think so?
Is that how you see me?
No. Renting a school-district apartment
doesn't help at all.
It's not even a school-district apartment anyway.
Key school...
That won't make a difference.
You, Momo,
you can make it anywhere.
It's okay. Let's go.
Are we broke?
Come On!
We're moving into a piece of history here,
over a hundred years in the making.
Not everyone gets to live somewhere like this.
Buildings like this are everywhere,
and this one doesn't even has an elevator.
I read in the New York Times that
Taylor Swift said her secret to having long,
straight legs
is never taking the elevator.
She takes the stairs instead.
- Really?
- Really?
You've seen her legs.
This is how she got them.
That's right.
This hallway is so messy.
This is the charm of real human touch!
Our last place was quite neat,
but it was so impersonal.
Look!
How cute is that cat.
Where?
Right there!
Is that the type of cat you always wanted?
I wanted a Chinchilla, not a cat.
Chinchillas are like mice.
I'm sure there are mice here, too.
They're not exactly mice.
You're being a pain.
Go check out your new room.
Come on.
Excuse me!
Over here.
Come over here.
What's your apartment number?
I'm visiting a friend.
521 again?
He gets many visitors?
Not too many.
All pretty girls.
Including me?
I don't
comment on women's looks.
Hold up.
You will need to sign in.
I'm not like the others.
I'm his mother.
Well, write down your son's name then.
I'm his stepmother.
- Momo.
- Dad.
Wang Tiemei.
Wang Tiemei.
Why didn't you tell me you were moving?
It feels like you're trying to avoid me.
I'm not bothering you, am I?
Perfect timing.
I just finished move in,
and look who shows up.
Momo tipped you off, didn't she?
Actually, I had something come up today.
Went to hospital.
Thought you should know.
Stay back. What happened?
I got a vasectomy, for your sake.
What?
We talked about this before.
Remember you mentioned the diaphragm
isn't safe for women? I thought...
For me? Seriously?
I'm not even sleeping with you.
Did I ever ask you to do that?
No, no, you didn't.
I just wanted to give you peace of mind.
Men can have babies at any age, but...
What's that supposed to mean to me?
I just want you to know.
Momo will always be my only child.
You'll be hitting menopause in a few years.
I figured I'd take care of things on my end too.
Once and for all.
Let me see
if they've done it right.
It was just a consultation today.
The actual surgery has a one-month waiting list.
Idiot.
Sorry.
I was caught up in the shower,
and missed your call.
Sorry about that.
I should've been downstairs to meet you.
You should have told me your name.
Didn't realize your building was Fort Knox.
I am really sorry about the hassle.
Security's tight these days.
They've had issues with break-ins.
Do I look like I am here to rob the place?
Kind of.
So, what treasures are you hiding then?
You'll just have to wait and see.
You look... different from your photos.
More... petite.
You are not that big yourself.
Sorry about that.
No worries.
Here we are.
Dad, look.
It's a nice drawing.
But you know,
It might be better on paper.
After all, you're no Michelangelo.
Shut up.
What I meant was,
a painting on paper is easier to keep.
You could even exhibit it one day.
Paint it on the wall,
and it belongs to the landlord.
I don't need these anymore.
Sell them online,
and send me the money.
Seriously?
I thought you landded a job.
Editor-in-Chief, wasn't it?
We don't have space here,
and it'd be a waste to throw them away.
Keep this one-
the birthday gift you gave me.
You love it,
insist on taking it.
I never even used it.
I'll sell it in a day or two.
I need to go.
I'll come back and sort this out tomorrow.
Momo,
dad's off.
Come here, give me a kiss?
No need.
After all, I'm no Michelangelo.
Bye, dad.
Don't bear grudges.
And don't get so close.
It's bad for your eyes.
Just go.
I'll come pick you up this weekend.
You paint better than Michelangelo.
Do you know him?
Are you waiting for me?
It's alright.
I just wanted to make him feel
what it's like to be followed.
I thought about this situation before,
and even looked up all sorts of advice,
but my mind went blank just now.
I kept trying to recall
what I was supposed to do,
but the more I thought, the more muddled I got.
And I just came from a guy's place...
he didn't even ask me to stay or walk me out.
Funny, I'm coming from seeing a guy too.
He fell asleep on me.
Feel any better?
Really?
Not really.
I can barely remember
what it's like to sleep next to someone.
Didn't feel any better.
That's oddly comforting.
Is this easy to ride?
Seems like a lot of work.
I'm not gonna let you ride it.
This is my last time on it.
I'm just running down the battery.
Exhaust this shit.
You live upstairs from me, right?
You head back first.
Let's go back together.
Really, there's no need to fuss.
Nice place you've got here.
It's not too crowded, pleasantly quiet.
Looks like it's perfect for warding off spirit.
It's a bit embarrassing, really.
I find myself missing our old office.
It had a better vibe, more bustling.
Remember the army of interns?
You're sounding like a nostalgic old timer.
It's hard to believe this is where we are now.
You know, my very first job at the newspaper
was working right under you as an intern.
I devoured every piece you wrote.
You always said you'd die a journalist.
It just goes to show, you should never
take a journalist at their word.
How the mighty have fallen.
And what's that supposed to mean?
Your WeChat Public account is alright, I guess.
Did you actually read any of it?
It's all sponsored content.
That's the game now, isn't it?
Gotta pay the bills somehow.
It's just... this isn't the journalism
you used to do.
Look, I really am thankful, okay?
Truly.
I've been on the job hunt for six months.
Your offer was a lifeline.
You didn't buy a property back in the day?
I'm kinda doubting your judgment a bit now.
My last two gigs went under.
You weren't aware?
I had no idea.
Seriously?
But don't worry.
Now I've seen the reality.
I won't dream anymore.
Really sure about that?
Here's our latest post:
"The Lifelong Love of Europe's National Treasure,
Sophia Loren."
Can we actually run stories like this
without getting sued?
Just read it.
Her lifelong love...
spaghetti?
It's the kind that can be eaten dry,
just like chips.
We avoid writing about domestic celebrities...
they'll sue us in a heartbeat.
We've already shelled out
hundreds of thousands in compensation.
But international stars are
safre to write about so far.
There's also our non-fiction account.
"Second shift of the Working Woman"
I wrote this one.
So, just the five of you
manage these two accounts?
Actually, three accounts.
But one got shut down.
And we also run a video channel.
I see.
You use the tabloid-style pieces
to fund the more serious, drier stuff.
How is it tabloid gossip?
Is it dry?
It's meaningful.
She put a lot of effort into that interview.
Actually,
I went to the same school as you.
What's this you're wearing?
Send me the purchase link.
We're facing
financial issues at the moment.
This type of article isn't generating income
or attracting more readers.
Should we just pack it in?
What's the source for this?
You only interviewed two people?
A story this deep really needs at least
five sources to give it weight.
Honestly, it's only because...
No money, no time.
Investigation and interviews cost money.
You need to allocate more funds here.
And pull the low-end ads from this account.
If you want to write serious pieces, do it right.
This piece here,
no new angle,
doesn't even take a stand.
If you're trying to tie in products,
why not blend the themes?
Did Sophia Loren do household chores?
You wrote here yourself
that she shopped discount aisle
at the supermarket,
and published a home-style cookbook.
Even movie stars tackle unpaid household labor.
Strike that.
Why?
I've come to realize I'm no genius,
I don't have any particular talent.
I'm not born from money
So, I don't dream any more.
There you are.
No rush, they haven't finished yet.
Take a break.
Mom.
Wang Molly,
sweetheart, I'm really impressed.
I didn't know you'd joined the school band.
What instrument are you playing?
Piano?
Are you conducting?
I just clap.
On the beat?
I'm in the audience.
I can't sing and I don't play an instrument.
Why does the audience need to rehearse?
Some government officials are coming to visit.
My teacher says I'm good at applauding.
So you did what you were told?
You know you could have said no.
I've been told many times
that I lack 'collective consciousness'
and I'm 'disengaged from the people'.
What nonsense.
I'll have a word with her.
Not this again?
Fine, I won't go.
Tiemei.
Tiemei.
Wang Tiemei.
Yes?
Can I use your bathroom?
Tiemei, you're a lifesaver.
Did you really learn how to do that?
Took a course in sewage
management back in college.
You're growing all these vegetables in here?
Do you cook?
Not really.
Interesting.
There's more inside.
Come take a look.
All this for just you?
Just me.
And you eat all these?
Just like to have them around.
You never know.
Feel free to grab some whenever.
I may use some vegetables.
Anytime.
So, is this your whole place?
There's a tiny room downstairs.
Both rooms together are smaller than my place.
And you're paying two thousand more a month?
You're getting ripped off.
No, you don't understand.
My landlord is really lovely.
They invited me over for dinner at New Year's
and gave me mooncakes at Mid-Autumn Festival.
Look.
Those little gestures
don't really cover the extra rent.
It's the thought that counts.
Anyway, I promised them
I'm not moving.
Must be nice for your landlord.
Gets to keep you happy with some cheap mooncakes.
And zongzi.
Oh, and ginseng wine.
Your landlord made this wine?
Yep.
Long-term relationship.
You really know this stuff.
Shouldn't you be the expert here?
I've never even tried one of these apps before.
I can set one up for you.
No thanks.
I should be looking up apps
for child's talent development instead.
Can't find anything like that.
Are you actually trying to look one up for me?
This him?
Kinda cute.
Can I get back to him?
Go ahead.
Really?
I barely know you,
and you're asking for my advice?
If he doesn't care
and you still want to see him,
Might as well.
Does doing this make me an embarrassment to women?
It does.
He's let me see his WeChat posts!
I gotta go.
Take it easy with the drinking
it can really sneak up on you.
Wait,
are you free tonight?
See any instruments you like up there?
Or do you just enjoy listening to me sing?
I like
being in the audience.
I saw you clapping.
You clapped the best out of everyone,
right on beat.
You really have a knack for it.
We were all moved, weren't we?
Absolutely, she's got real talent.
Isn't there a bathroom here?
Never mind.
Shall we go?
I'll call us a ride.
Unless you guys
want to stay for a drink?
I'm not going home tonight.
Even though we're not that close yet,
I love you.
Bye guys.
Bye!
Bye!
What's the band's name?
Unconditional Surrender.
The keyboard's a bit clich.
Half the kids in your class are learning piano.
Bass is too simple for you.
Guitar is somewhat interesting,
but even I can pick up a few chords.
What do you think?
Hmm.
Female drummers are rare,
and it's really cool when girls play the drums.
Plus, it's great exercise.
Being a drummer isn't something
just anyone can be good at.
You should try being a drummer.
How about it?
So you've written quite a few songs for her, huh?
Are you jealous?
Not at all.
Turning love into creation
is a blissful thing.
And they sound so good.
I'm glad I came today,
to see a different side of you.
It's quite...
dazzling.
Isn't dazzling bad for your eyes?
You really care about your eyes, don't you?
Everyone should take care of their eyes.
I don't take care of mine,
but my eyesight is perfect.
I can see things others can't.
Like what?
Good things.
Please sign in for your visit.
I live here.
Which apartment?
No, you don't live in 303.
Don't fool me.
I'm staying with Mrs. Li.
Even Mrs. Li.
This is a gift from my stepson.
Here you go.
Happy Mother's Day!
Don't run off,
come back.
Come back here!
Not you two.
I told him I'm your stepmom.
Alright, write down your names
and ID numbers here.
Thanks, stepmom.
Why don't you make them sign in?
They live here, do you?
I'm planning to run this topic
for Mother's Day.
What's this you're wearing today?
Want a purchase link?
No need.
The earrings are nice, though.
I've already sent you the details
for the person we're planning to interview.
I checked it last night.
Doesn't it feel a bit too grim?
And your angle... it's overly sympathetic,
pitying even.
Do all single mothers look so tragic to you?
It's too pathetic.
Why are you all looking at me like that?
But they do have it tough, you know.
Yes, they do.
But constantly repeating
these tragic female narratives
doesn't really help improve women's situations.
Who'd dare to be a single mom then,
right?
How about adding someone like Eileen Gu's mom?
That's just jumping from one extreme to another.
How many moms can actually do what she did?
Such motivation doesn't help much.
I'll look for something else then.
I have to go.
Brown sugar water won't cut it.
You need to take some pills.
Thanks, Tiemei.
On drums
Zhang Jiaxin.
Zhang Jiaxin.
I'm here.
What's going on?
You made it!
Have a drink.
Right now?
Let's celebrate Momo developing her talents!
This is Ma,
the drummer from our show the other night.
And this is my Tiemei.
Nice to meet you, drummer.
Hi.
He usually teaches kids drums
on Donghu Road.
He's a graduate of Shanghai Conservatory of Music,
Look at where he ended up,
brace yourself...
these talents don't usually pay off.
That's fine by me.
We're not learning it to make a living anyway.
He plays other instruments too.
If Momo wants to pick up more skills,
or even more than just pick up, he can help.
That's great!
So, we just head over to your
place on Donghu Road for classes?
No need to go there;
the classes there are a ripoff.
Just go to his drum studio,
or even my place would work, right?
Either works.
I'm not sure about that...
What's the problem?
Your Momo is also my Momo.
When did I miss this?
This is, uh,
my ex-husband.
And this is my neighbor, Ye.
And this is... this is her friend,
Momo's future music teacher.
Ma.
He's too handsome to be a teacher.
Got it from my mom. Not much I can do about that.
Really?
Okay, she's definitely good-looking.
Thanks.
Are you a mama's boy?
Watch your words.
Carrying a photo of his mom
doesn't make him a mama's boy...
he could just be a freak!
Remember the movie Psycho?
Or maybe his mom passed away.
Exactly. That's why you shouldn't judge people.
Now, apologize.
Sorry.
No worries.
You look pretty young.
I am young.
Just look our skin...
you're definitely older than me.
It's just my natural tan.
Natural tan?
More like a sunblock ban.
Dad, you're rhyming.
Right?
How about coming to my place for dinner?
I have some leftover rice,
and I can cook up some fresh dishes to go with it.
Sure, I love leftover rice.
Perfect.
Let's go.
I'll be there in a bit.
Don't bother. I'm not gonna cook yours.
I'm not gonna eat. Your cooking's too greasy.
I'm all about low-fat meals now.
Tiemei,
Could you use some of these?
Sure, just put them over there.
Have a seat...
make yourself at home.
What's going on there?
Sorry!
- Sorry.
- I'm so sorry.
No worries.
- I'm sorry.
- It's okay.
I've got it.
- Let me do it.
- I've got it, I've got it.
It's fine. I'll handle it.
So, Mr. Ma,
what instrument do you teach again?
It depends on what you want to learn.
I play quite a few.
Harp?
Sure,
I studied string instruments in college.
Is the harp the one angels play?
- Yep, that's the one.
- I don't want to learn that.
Saxophone?
No problem.
I played the clarinet as a kid.
Woodwinds are pretty similar.
Can you play the flute?
You're really interested, aren't you?
I can play the flute.
Want to learn?
Dinner's ready!
Time to eat.
Mr. Ma, are you expensive?
He's affordable.
Don't worry.
This way, you won't have to
just sit in the audience anymore...
you'll have a talent
and can perform on stage.
I like sitting in the audience.
But you love drums, don't you?
Remember what we talked about?
Girl drummers...
they're cool.
Yeah, and you get to sit while playing too.
Exactly.
I think being in the audience is just fine.
No way.
We're born to be stars, Momo.
Born this way.
Not me.
Maybe we should find another teacher.
You can learn whatever you want.
I don't want to learn anything.
You're all so annoying!
Hey! Come back here!
Whoa, hold on, don't push her.
I'm really sorry about this.
It's okay.
My mom used to push me to learn piano
when I was a kid too.
And now you play so many
instruments because of it.
Actually, no.
I only fell in love with music
after she passed away.
Honestly,
if Momo doesn't want to learn,
don't force her.
And I wouldn't want to teach someone
who's being pushed into it.
Now you're getting all serious on us.
He's a good teacher.
Sit down
and eat... leftover rice.
Is it okay if I sit here?
Don't worry about them.
Do you teach adults too?
I haven't yet.
Not that I'm looking to learn...
I actually know a bit myself.
Taylor Swift's concert is blowing up!
The number of sign-ups for her show in Singapore
is even higher than the
country's entire population!
She's bringing joy to a world
that desperately needs it.
I think being in the audience is great.
Honestly, I just want to be
an audience member for life...
watch movies, listen to music,
and enjoy the art that
already exists in this world.
There's more than enough
to keep us entertained forever.
Then why are you making me learn?
You used to say I didn't need any special skills,
that I should just grow up happy.
Well, are you happy?
I think the joy of creating is different
from the joy of just watching.
How so?
Just watching is fun at first,
but it gets boring over time.
Creating something, though... sure,
it can be tough,
but the joy you get from it
feels so much more rewarding.
Exactly.
It's like loving someone.
That's a whole different story...
if it feels like that, then there's
something wrong with the person you love.
Alright, Momo,
if you don't want to learn, then don't.
It's fine as long as you're happy,
okay?
I've got to get back to work soon,
so I need to leave.
Why don't you go to Wenwen's place later?
Zhang Jiaxin's mom said
she'll pick you up.
You two can go together.
I'm not going.
Sweetie, I'm going to be home late tonight.
You can't stay here alone.
Wouldn't it be nice to
hang out with Zhang Jiaxin?
I'm not going.
How about this...
I'm free tonight,
so I can have dinner with her.
No, really, you don't need to.
It's no trouble at all... I'm free.
It's not that,
I just worry you might not handle it well.
Huh?
As if you're so great at it.
Excuse me? And who exactly do
you think brought you up?
My dad did.
You were always working.
Oh, really? And where do you think the food,
clothes, and the house you live in come from?
He brought you up?
Did you come out of him?
Did he feed you?
Did you drain his breasts?
Who got you this family of alpacas?
And who bought those youtiao?
Alright, you should get going.
You don't understand.
I worry she's missing something emotionally,
so I keep buying her toys.
I'll keep you updated.
Little brat.
Listen to me:
Don't ever have kids.
They're all ungrateful and won't appreciate you.
Okay, okay, I won't!
Her dad did a lot
because he didn't want to go to work
and just stayed home.
But that doesn't mean I didn't care.
I've been there every day,
taking her to school every morning.
I'm exhausted.
I know you've done an amazing job.
She's just saying things out of anger.
And don't drink tonight,
- understand?
- I won't.
Keep that in mind.
I'll send you some
healthy delivery options later...
just order one for her.
Okay.
If I'm not back by nine,
- make sure she goes to bed.
- Got it.
Make sure she eats some fruit,
and don't forget to have
her brush her teeth afterward.
Keep the windows closed
so she doesn't catch a draft.
Got it.
No ice cream,
and stay in touch with me, okay?
Don't argue with her...
you won't win.
Got it, mom.
Tiemei,
she usually doesn't do interviews,
especially not with
niche online platforms like ours.
How do you know her?
We met during a past interview.
Oh.
Are you nervous?
Take a seat.
Not really...
It's just,
I've been thinking about it,
and the topic of single mothers
is definitely worth discussing.
Whether it's a single mom working as a janitor
or a celebrity,
it's important to showcase their stories.
But...
there are other, even harsher struggles out there,
ones that are often overlooked.
Who's going to write about those?
Is this about the story you sent me?
Yeah.
You should write it.
But isn't that just repeating
the same tragic narratives?
If these stories aren't even being noticed,
they can't be considered repetitive.
I'm afraid I won't do it justice.
I'll help you.
My last editor wouldn't even
let me contact her on weekends.
You can call me anytime.
Tiemei,
why did you give up journalism?
So many journalists quit
after having kids...
was that the reason for you too?
What do you think?
I don't think you're the type to do that.
I don't have the courage to
keep flighting the system.
That's why I quit.
Could you eat a bit less?
Come on, don't contribute to
women's body image anxieties.
The one with the meat floss is mine.
Oh,
I've got another one.
Here, you can have this.
All right.
Ah, Ms. Ge!
Stop eating, she's here!
- Oh, okay!
- Ms. Ge!
Thanks.
So, who's Zhang Jiaxin?
Nobody.
And who's the person you love?
Someboby.
I heard you don't dream anymore.
Who told you that?
My sources.
You know,
I've got eyes and ears everywhere...
even at your school.
You are just messing with me because I'm a kid.
Honestly, I think I'm more like a kid.
I'm this old, and I still daydream all the time.
Daydream about what?
Listen again.
It's like this...
W ater.
Nope.
Like this...
Washing machine.
Got it!
How about this?
Walking in fall.
Love that...
crunching leaves.
Now this one...
Five,
four,
three,
two...
Rocks?
Playing mahjong.
And this?
Heavy rain.
Tornado?
Not quite.
How about this?
Thunder.
A panda eating bamboo.
Farting.
Sawing wood.
A hippo
drinking water.
Now this one...
Drumming.
A buffalo
breathing.
A spaceship taking off.
A mudslide.
A dolphin jumping
in the ocean.
Lava.
Rain
in the desert.
skipping stones.
And this?
Excavator.
No need to thank me.
We had a blast.
She really likes me.
Who wouldn't like you?
You're amazing.
Am I? Really?
Are you sure?
You're going to see him again?
Why doesn't he come to see you?
I don't like people coming to my place...
except for you guys.
So, does he put on makeup too?
Does he actually get ready for you?
Oh yeah,
he makes sure he's all cleaned up.
Thank you!
Hey, beautiful,
let's just say you live here from now on.
You don't need to sign in anymore.
No, no, I should still sign in.
Don't worry.
No one else is coming to see him anymore.
Really?
I've got my eyes on it.
If anyone tries,
I'll tell her she's got the wrong building
and send her to Building Two.
I don't know...
She didn't do anything wrong.
She may just be in love.
It's not really her fault.
Oh, so it's my fault now.
The one getting in the way of love.
Hey!
Come over here!
Sign in first.
Are you free Friday night?
There's another show at that
same place we went to last time.
The singer's not as good as me,
but I still kind of like them.
Hmm.
You know, there's something
I need to make clear.
I don't want to lead you on.
You're married?
No,
I've been divorced for a while.
My ex-wife and son live abroad.
I'm single.
but I've got issues.
I'm not sure if it's just
my personality
or my mindset,
but I'm not really capable of
a serious relationship.
It's like I don't really need to be in love.
But I do like you.
If you're okay with it,
we can keep things the way they are,
but...
I don't want you to expect more.
I don't want to mess with your feelings.
I don't take my feelings lightly.
Of course.
And I do like being in a relationship, though.
Maybe I've just read too many
romance novels.
That's not your fault.
A lot of people get caught up in that.
You're a victim too.
You can't love.
That's right.
But I...
can't really...
have a relationship either.
Yeah.
Huh?
Because I'm already in one.
I have a husband and a kid.
Are you serious?
My kid's already nine.
I still have to take her to school every morning,
so I can't stay over at your place.
Wow...
I never would have guessed.
Yeah, I've been taking her to school every day
since she was little.
I mean, you're so young... and you've already...
I had her pretty early.
Oh.
So, when you're out like this...
doesn't your husband mind?
He's on a business trip right now.
My mom
is helping out with the kid at home.
Okay.
So,
Your kid must really love
and look up to you.
She probably thinks you're the coolest mom ever.
Not really.
Nine-year-olds are the worst...
rebellious and ungrateful.
I'm exhausted.
That sounds tough. Really tough.
So really, I'm the one who
should be more scared than you.
Hmm.
So, when you're not busy,
we can still...
As long as you don't mind.
Of course not.
I'm proud of you.
No need for that.
It's nothing to be proud of, really.
Oh, right.
I just meant...
we really do make a good pair.
I've got to go.
Let me walk you out.
No need, I'll call a cab.
What about Friday?
Oh, I just remembered...
I have to take my kid to drum lessons on Friday.
You're working too hard.
Don't have kids.
You're right.
What do you mean, you're right?
You're not the one who's doing all the work.
True.
"I Don't Dream Anymore"...
this essay was written by
our classmate Wang Molly.
The theme is very well-developed.
She did a great job capturing
how people feel right now.
It's calm but still funny,
with a little bit touch of innocent melancholy.
It's really special.
So, I suggest that
we make Wang Molly
our Chinese class representative
for this semester.
What do you all think?
Yes! Yes! Great!
Miss, I disagree.
I want to denounce Wang Molly.
She was late on Monday and Wednesday mornings,
and she ate snacks during class!
And how exactly does that relate to her
being the Chinese class representative?
She doesn't have good morals!
She shouldn't be a class representative.
Who taught you to 'denounce' things like this?
Where did you learn that?
Alright, Zhang Jiaxin, sit down first.
Let's take today to discuss
what it really means to denounce someone.
Let's not turn everything into a debate
about feminism, alright?
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Wang Molly.
Not going home?
Do you want to go home?
Then come with me.
Hey, Momo,
over here.
Ma,
Give it a try.
I haven't decided if I want to
learn an instrument yet.
You don't have to think of it as an instrument.
You can see it as a way to let off steam.
You know you can't just go
around hitting people, right?
But you can hit the drums all you want.
How did you know I wanted to hit someone?
As long as you don't want to hit me, we're good.
Oh.
Come on.
See,
you just sit like this.
One foot here,
and the other foot here.
Then just start hitting.
How are girls supposed to play the drums?
Huh?
However you play... that's how girls should play.
Exactly.
Oh.
Alright, go ahead.
Give it a try.
Just like that.
Yes, just like that... hit it!
- Oops.
- Oops.
You're here!
I thought Ye might have taken Molly straight home.
She's still here, right?
Yeah, she's here.
Are you heading out?
Just taking out some trash.
My bag's full of their
half-finished drinks.
I'm not leaving.
You're still here?
Sorry to
trouble you again.
Don't be nuts.
Oh, and by the way,
don't send her to Wenwen's place anymore.
Wenwen's fine,
but that Zhang Jiaxin kid is a real pain.
He's picking on Molly again?
I'll talk to his mom.
Don't.
Momo didn't tell you
because every time you go to
the parents or the teachers,
it just makes things harder for her in class.
What else did she say?
She knows you've got her back,
but whenever she faces a bit of trouble,
you're ready to go nuclear.
You'd practically blow up the school for her.
She didn't inherit any of my toughness.
She's too soft out there,
no matter how much I try to teach her.
She only gets tough with me.
Of course, I have to protect her.
She's not like other kids...
she's really sensitive.
No.
I've got to talk to her teacher.
Weren't you heading home?
Did 17?
I forgot my charging cable.
Has anyone seen it?
Is this the one?
Ah, yes.
How about I treat everyone to dinner?
What do you all feel like eating?
No need, save your money.
We'll pass.
Ma gets the runs from restaurant food.
Actually, I'm kinda up for it.
I'm hungry.
Ma, come with me...
I'm too shy to eat with ladies I don't know well.
Forget it.
I really do get the runs easily.
Come on,
I have plenty of tissues in my bag.
Single mom here... my bag's got everything:
napkins, wet wipes, pads...
Perfect, let's go!
Why'd you have to tell everyone I get the runs?
Seriously, what's wrong with you?
But you do get the runs.
Yeah, but you didn't need to say it out loud!
Let's get this one, and this one...
and also some edamame and yam.
How about this?
Is this seat right under the A/C?
I'm freezing.
Maybe someone tougher should sit here.
I'll check it right away.
Ma'am, can we have two glasses of hot water?
Sure thing.
What would you like to eat?
What are you in the mood for?
I'll do it.
That's enough.
Thanks.
You're about to start bleeding.
You're about to get the runs.
Thanks.
Uh, thanks... I guess.
I used to hope my boyfriend would
remember my time of the month...
but that never happened.
I should've just counted on my own kid-
my own flesh and blood.
Just tell me when your dates are.
I now declare you my best friend!
Seriously?
When I got my first period,
my mom yelled at me.
Why?
It was my fault.
I stained my pants and the sofa...
it wasn't her fault.
How was that your fault?
Blood isn't like poop.
How could it be dirty?
Doesn't your mom have periods too?
Watch your mouth, young lady.
She was just really obsessive about cleanliness,
and she had high expectations for me.
After that, I tried my best not to get my period.
You know,
pills and that kind of thing.
You took pills?
You can take pills for that?
Did she make you take them?
No, she didn't force me.
I just didn't want the hassle.
She never even knew.
She didn't know?
She didn't know you stopped getting your period?
She was really busy.
Busier than you, Tiemei.
And back then, who talked about stuff like this?
It was such a taboo topic.
How could she be like that?
What's so taboo about it?
Half the world's population bleeds every month,
right?
- True.
- Absolutely.
Yeah,
I didn't realize until now
how simple it really is.
It's no big deal.
Are things normal for you now?
It's still a bit irregular.
Sometimes I get it only once every six months,
and other times it lasts a whole month.
Six months?
A whole month?
What?
Our neighbor's dog was like that.
That's enough.
Even dogs can be like that?
You too, stop.
I seriously didn't know.
Just stop talking, man.
Look at you, knowing everything.
When I was little, I was clueless.
I remember when I was younger,
before I had a girlfriend,
I thought periods were blue
because that's what they showed in commercials.
You're ridiculous.
That's just common sense, man.
His mom passed away.
Momo knows everything, huh?
Sometimes I wonder if it's
worse to have a mom like that
or no mom at all.
- He's worse.
- She is.
- You're worse.
- You are.
You're worse.
At least no one yelled at me
the first time it happened.
You get periods too?
I'll explain that later.
You guys, bring it in.
Cheers! Let's drink.
Cheers, Momo!
If my mom died, I'd cry myself to death.
I'm not going anywhere.
How did you survive?
Drumming, playing music, singing.
That's it?
Well, there's more to it,
but yeah...
without those,
I don't know how I would've made it.
Then I want to learn too.
Are you serious?
Here's to you.
Keep it down,
people are still eating inside.
Take this for me.
Take it.
She's fine.
Let me carry Momo for you.
Not a good idea.
Then at least let me take the bag.
Can we just call a car first?
Her bag.
It's okay. There are tissues inside.
How did you end up drinking so much?
Can I crash here tonight?
Sure, give me a second.
Pure silk.
I hardly wear them myself.
Take a shower before putting them on, okay?
Staying up late and taking care of your eyes, huh?
I feel so useless.
You're just a little love-starved.
My mom loved me.
I didn't say she didn't.
Are you saying she didn't love me?
No, that's not it.
It's just that her way of
showing it wasn't quite right.
No mom would ever stop loving
her own child, right?
Hmm...
Did your dad get this for you?
Then why didn't he put it together himself?
He doesn't know how.
He can't do anything.
Is this your mom's journalism award?
Can I take a look?
Do you admire your mom?
I do too.
She sells seashells by the seashore.
She sells seashells by the seashore.
Why do we need to go on a business trip?
Isn't that obvious?
For an account like ours?
All travel expenses will be covered,
don't worry.
Can I go too?
I'd love to learn.
Sure.
Oh, come on.
It's not about the money.
The real issue is we spend
all this effort writing,
and there's no guarantee it'll even get posted.
What's the point?
Haven't you already given up on
those kinds of dreams?
I have, but they're still young.
Why crush their spirit?
Don't you think that's a bit harsh?
Isn't it harsher to let them write something that
might never see the light of day?
I'm willing to take that risk.
The account can't handle it.
- It's not that bad.
- No way, not happening.
Oh, come on, we can do it.
Fine, but only if you stop just editing and
start writing too.
I think the single mom series
is right up your alley.
Don't you think the last piece
was a bit too depressing?
Write something about yourself...
how you're a happy, strong,
and energetic single mom.
Hold on.
Who said I'm full of energy?
You've got the most energy of all.
That's what you get for momsplaining.
How dare you!
This sound isn't right.
It's your head that's off.
Then you try it.
My head's off too.
It's just not working... this is boring.
How can it be wrong?
It's just kowtowing.
It's kowtowing, but not the sound I'm after.
May I have a shot?
Go ahead.
Let me hear it...
Wow, my head sounds amazing!
My mom wanted me to invite you for dinner.
She's finally got time to cook.
Bye, Mr. Ma.
Bye.
May 17?
You should just give up.
You're not worthy of Tiemei.
I'm just going for dinner.
How am I not worthy?
Are you sure it's dinner you're after?
Don't play dumb with me.
Am I really that bad?
I'm better than her ex-husband, right?
Her ex was obedient, thoughtful,
fit, had great skin,
and knew how to use sunscreen.
I'm
obedient and thoughtful too!
I even bought sunscreen!
Is it because you're missing some maternal love?
Both your exes were single moms.
I didn't know they were moms
when we started dating!
I've told you a thousand times,
I don't have that kind of thing for single moms!
I don't.
Maybe you're missing a father figure then?
Fine,
I'll love her like a father, how about that?
By the way, your dad called me.
He wants your WeChat.
Block him.
Block him now.
I know he's kind of jerk,
but still...
How do you manage to be
so cold,
SO...
free?
Nothing seems to tie you down.
That's because I refuse to be tied down.
That's why I'm relatively free.
Anyway, stay away from Tiemei.
Why do I feel like she might
actually like someone like me?
Someone like what?
A loser who runs away from patriarchy.
How can I be a loser?
if I've broken away from the patriarchy?
Come on.
That's the sound!
That's exactly it!
So, take me to dinner then.
Should I
grab a bottle of wine from your place?
What for? She doesn't drink.
Then I'll run down and buy some fruit.
As if she needs more fruit.
I haven't started cooking yet.
Oh, oh...
Let me help you.
I can cook.
Sure, come on.
But take off your watch first...
I'll help you.
You used to be an investigative journalist, right?
That was years ago.
I read your reports.
They made me realize I
might've misunderstood reality.
What do you mean, misunderstood?
Well...
sometimes reality
seems absurd,
like it doesn't make sense.
But when you dig deeper,
there's always a reason behind it.
That's why we need people like you
to uncover those reasons.
So why did you stop?
I got tired of it.
I see.
And it must've been hard to
balance with raising a child.
I managed just fine, no matter how busy I was.
No, no,
I didn't mean it like that.
It's just...
it's a bit of a shame, that's all.
What's there to be ashamed about?
Plenty of people leave journalism,
and many never make it in the first place.
Why is it a shame when I decide to step away?
Do you think I didn't know what I was doing?
You think I wanted to quit?
Sorry.
I get it now.
Get what, exactly?
Get...
get there's a lot I still don't get.
Can you help me with something?
Which drum set should I get for Momo?
You know,
maybe you shouldn't buy a new one.
I've got a set at home
that's barely been used.
Why don't you let Momo try it out first?
No, no, that's alright.
Really,
you don't need to waste money on a new one.
I barely have room for that set at home.
Are you sure you know what you're doing?
This isn't right...
it's way too wet.
Add more flour.
Let me do it. No, no, let me do it.
- I've got it.
- Don't worry, I've got it.
I'll take over. It's fine
It's okay, really, I can do it.
Harder.
You might not have any special talents
or come from a rich family,
but you're a genius when it comes to writing.
I hope you should write more,
I really love what you write.
Your teacher's right...
you're a writing genius. Do you realize that?
Does your mom know?
She's always praising me.
I don't even take it seriously anymore.
Sounds like you're
taking it for granted a bit, huh?
Doesn't your mom ever praise you?
Never.
Not even once?
She never says you have big, pretty eyes?
She'd say,
"Your big eyes are creepy."
and then ask, "What's your problem?
I've raised you all these years,
and you're still not happy?"
And then she'd say, "If you keep looking at
me like that, I'll smack you."
Are you sure you weren't adopted?
Unfortunately, no.
My eyes are just like hers.
She used to look at my dad the same way,
and then he'd beat her up.
He'd beat me too.
She had it rough.
That's so awful.
It's okay, that was a long time ago.
I ran away,
and look at me now... I'm doing just fine.
Your eyes are beautiful and bright.
I like when you look at me.
...no matter how you do, it's okay.
Even your tears taste good.
They're not too salty?
They are salty.
Let me taste.
Now, get back to writing.
Noodles's ready!
Mom, you're so good to me.
You've never hit me.
I have, actually.
You were just too little to remember.
Do you have a noodle-making robot
in your house or something?
This is amazing!
My mom can make 108 different kinds of noodles...
just like how France has
over a hundred types of cheese.
In Shanxi, we have just as many kinds of noodles.
I always thought Shanxi was super like France.
I even studied there once.
What did you study?
How to question everything about life.
Yo! What's new eh?
What's up eh?
- Yep.
- Yep.
I got you a moving-in gift.
You can work out whenever you need to.
This thing looks used.
The gloves are new.
Dad, I'm learning to play the drums now.
They're the best band in China!
And you're the best kid in China.
And I'm the best dad in China.
Nice to meet you, Dad.
You were making dough?
Together with Tiemei?
I thought I was the only one who
got to do that with you.
Of course not.
Come on.
You're sitting at the head of the table?
You can't finish all that, can you?
Let me take some of that for you.
Sweetheart.
Okay.
Dad, are you crying?
No, I'm just allergic.
Allergic to cats and dogs.
I've got some meds.
I'm allergic to dirty air...
I carry these everywhere.
Just take one,
but don't overdo it.
One pill is enough.
It's okay.
I'll take two.
Need more?
What's going on between them?
They're having a manliness contest
What's that?
Something toxic.
Maybe you two should skip the noodles.
These noodles aren't that great today.
I make them better, right?
I wouldn't know...
you've only made them once.
And that was because mom broke her hand.
I didn't make noodles often
because I'm from the South.
But I cooked so many other meals
for you when you were little.
I did most of the cooking and housework back then.
You were so stubborn,
refusing to go to kindergarten.
I was the one who took care of you.
I'm not saying you didn't help,
but I definitely did more.
Dad.
Am I really your daughter?
Of course you are.
aren't you supposed to do that?
Not every dad does.
Ask your classmates...
many dads don't even care.
Some even hit their wives.
Yeah, plenty do.
And those dads don't love their kids.
They don't deserve to have them.
Why compare yourself to them?
You're doing fine.
Right?
I'm telling you,
I'm even better now.
Since we split, I've been learning
and growing.
I know what structural oppression is now.
You know that?
We're the beneficiaries of it...
we've taken too much from gender privilege.
Yeah, all men carry that "original sin".
How do you know that?
Where'd you learn it?
Did you teach him these too?
I've been learning on my own.
You read any Chizuko Ueno?
I've read everything Tiemei's written.
Dad, I'll get you more garlic.
No need.
What are you bragging about?
Weren't you the one who asked for the divorce?
You told her that?
Some people think staying home with kids
is beneath them.
They don't like being told what to do,
like I'm their mom.
That's outdated thinking.
Exactly.
Men aren't born...
they're made.
I was trapped by societal expectations,
bound by traditional gender roles.
I thought men were supposed to
focus on their careers,
but now I know...
I just like family life.
I like being looked after.
I've changed completely.
Did you get that surgery done?
What surgery?
You had surgery?
You should eat more.
You're too pale and skinny... it's not healthy.
Dad, have some garlic.
Let it go.
So,
don't you have any female drummer friends?
I'm still not comfortable
with a male teacher.
There is one...
just not out of prison yet.
She'll be free next year,
but I'm afraid Momo can't wait that long.
Besides her,
I know others,
but they aren't as affordable.
So few female drummers...
how will women's status ever improve?
You all aren't working hard enough.
When will we achieve gender equality?
I'm a girl drummer.
That's right.
And you still need a male teacher?
Shame.
Don't start pitting women against men.
If you're so concerned,
then take her to class yourself.
I can do that.
Sweetheart,
I'll take you to boxing.
I'm practically a coach now.
I don't want to box.
Sweetheart, you can't
just do drums and not box.
I'm your real dad, after all.
Are you okay?
Yeah, yeah, I'm fine.
You're soaked.
Just take it off.
How can you be fine?
it's drenched.
Take if off.
Tiemei, take a look.
Look how soaked it is.
Why are you taking your shirt off?
Let me get you a shirt.
Let me get a clean one.
Wipe yourself off.
You don't need to touch him.
Look at that! Look!
- Here, here, take this.
- Thanks.
Take mine, take mine.
Sorry about that.
And your hair, fix your hair.
You know, boxing is actually pretty cool.
I just don't want to box.
It's not ladylike.
Who taught you that?
That's so outdated.
"Ladylike" should've been retired ages ago.
Is there any boy that you like?
No way. Boys are dumb.
I'll never like one.
I used to think the same way when I was your age.
I had no idea boys could be so much fun.
Are you like love-struck?
She is.
Don't be like her.
I really don't like it when people say that.
It makes me sound like
I have no mind of my own.
There's nothing wrong with enjoying some romance,
but as adults...
you know.
Love is a decision two people make together.
If it's just one person, it's...
...desperate.
But isn't there always one who loves more
and one who loves less?
I'm just braver and more capable of love.
The more capable, the more responsibility.
Joyfully desperate.
As long as you're happy, right?
I just don't want you to get hurt.
It could be really tough on you.
Life is already tough.
Not loving would be even worse.
I'll send you a copy of
Chizuko Ueno's new book.
Conversations Between Ueno Chizuko
and Reiko Yuyama.
Between Reiko Yuyama and Ueno Chizuko.
What are you two on about?
Feminist performance artists?
What do you like about him?
He's just like you.
He always compliments me,
makes me feel great about myself.
Momo,
remember all the nice things we say about you.
Keep those in mind, okay?
Now, how about we go boxing?
- I don't want to box.
- She doesn't want to box.
I've got it. You can let go.
No, I've got it. You let go.
Aren't you leaving?
I'm calling a car.
Where are you headed? I'll give you a ride.
- Thanks...
- Nevermind.
I've got something to do. Bye.
just drive for fun when I'm not busy.
Oh.
You usually take premium rides?
Yeah...
regular rides are too smelly.
Unless it's a female driver.
What about me?
You smell good.
Don't forget to return the shirt.
Tiemei bought it for me.
Sure.
Not now!
Should we write about trips
in our country or trips abroad?
Either one works.
Can we write about Europe or America?
Sure, you can even write
about Australia if you want.
Does it have to be a group tour,
or can it be a trip we took on our own?
Whatever you prefer.
If you have any photos,
add a bunch of them.
Make it like a slideshow.
Got it?
Got it!
Ms. Zhang said...
those of you in the band,
head to the practice room.
Everyone else,
get started on your homework at home.
Should I write about
New Zealand or Australia?
I mean, I just popped by both... nothing special.
Didn't even get to enjoy it much,
just spent most of the time in the car.
You can't just drive there!
There's a whole ocean between them.
What do you even know?
What do you know?
Wenwen, what are you writing about?
I haven't been to
any of those places they said.
I've only been to Japan.
Every vacation, it's always Japan.
I don't even like hot springs.
What about you?
I might write about France,
but I was so young when I went,
I barely remember it.
France sounds so cool!
I've always wanted to go.
Sorry about that,
have you been waiting long?
No, it's fine.
You must be very busy.
I've got a couple of hours...
will that be enough?
Yeah, that's plenty.
Almost done.
Let me take care of that.
I doubt you're better at this than I am...
I can even recharge the coolant myself.
So...
Are there any home appliances here
you don't know how to fix?
I'm not looking for a man to do chores for me.
Then what are you looking for?
What do you think?
So... do I measure up?
You're Momo's teacher...
people would talk.
It'd make me look desperate.
What if no one found out?
It'd still feel like I'm doing
something too bad to let anyone know,
wouldn't it?
Hi, I brought my daughter in for an eye check-up.
Sure, do you have an appointment?
No.
Please fill out this form
with her basic information.
Can I be your mom for today?
How long do I have to be your daughter?
I've got homework.
Until seven.
Fine.
Alright, don't be nervous.
Just focus on the red dot in front of you.
Why did you bring your kid here?
Are you crazy?
Because you're the best doctor here...
I asked around.
Fine, I'll make sure to give her the best care.
But honey,
this isn't a good idea.
You're overthinking it.
I'm just here to see a doctor, nothing more.
Alright, since you're here,
I'll give you a check-up too.
I brought some.
That's not the point.
Why are you tearing my clothes?
Why not tear your own?
This is my favorite lingerie. It was expensive.
I... I didn't know.
I'm sorry.
I thought it was okay to tear it.
In the videos, they always do that.
Those videos are made for men's fantasies.
They never ask what women actually want.
But some people do like it.
That doesn't mean I do.
But if I suddenly stop to ask if it's okay,
wouldn't that kill the mood?
No, being respectful won't ruin the mood.
Being disrespectful will.
Good thing we didn't go further.
Who knows what else you've
picked up from those videos?
I'm really sorry.
Maybe I should just leave...
Come back here.
Just don't tear anything next time, okay?
Got to give young men a chance.
How come you're only bringing her in now?
If this keeps up,
she could end up with severe myopia.
She's still so young.
She doesn't really use tablets much,
and I don't let her look at phones either.
It's from all the online classes.
A lot of kids are dealing with this.
And by the way, reading books can strain the eyes
just as much as screens.
Does she love reading?
She's even got a book right now.
No more reading!
Get up, get up!
Look at this plant instead...
focus on something green in the distance.
What green?
That one right there!
Green!
Don't stress so much.
It's okay.
Does her dad have bad eyesight?
Because you don't.
Oh.
It's likely hereditary...
could be severe myopia.
What should I do?
It's all my fault.
I've been so irresponsible.
What have I even been doing every day?
It's alright.
Don't beat yourself up.
Yes, we caught it a little late,
but it's not too late to take action now.
Don't beat yourself up.
Yes, we caught it a little late,
but it's not too late to take action now.
She's just been on too many online classes.
You know how it is with kids these days.
- Every day...
- Thank you so much.
I really appreciate it,
but I'm her mom.
I should've been the one to
take her to the doctor.
I know you've been busy.
Besides, I had the time.
You're still doing homework?
Don't do your homework.
If anything, this is on me.
Sorry I didn't mean that.
I'm blaming myself.
It's my bad.
You don't understand...
I'm far from being a good person.
Neither am I.
How's the drumming going lately?
Pretty good.
What do you think of that Ma guy?
He's fine.
Do you think your mom likes him?
What's that got to do with you?
I'm your dad, you know.
Yeah, but you're not her dad.
Why do you care?
It's not about her.
I'm just worried you might feel bad.
Why would I feel bad?
That's grown-up stuff.
Who she likes is her business.
It doesn't affect me.
Fair point.
Did your mom tell you that?
Didn't you date someone recently?
Mom said it doesn't matter who you like;
it won't change how much he loves me.
Of course.
But we broke up.
Why?
Not every woman's like your mom...
she doesn't care if a guy has money
or a career.
But that's not something I blame women for,
or men either.
So whose fault is it?
It's more of a structural issue.
A bit complex for now.
Are you gonna eat or what?
This stuff's too greasy.
I've got to stay in shape.
So I'm supposed to eat it all?
I'm not worried about my shape?
You love this stuff.
You said mom doesn't let you have it,
so I brought you here.
Then get me two ice creams.
Alright,
I'm going all out today.
They're not for you.
Let's go.
Do you ever lie?
Everyone lies sometimes.
It's part of living in this world...
there are white lies
or things we say when we
don't have much of a choice.
As long as you're not
trying to hurt anyone, it's okay.
Oh,
why are you asking me this?
Can you tell if I'm lying?
Depends on the lie.
Try one on me.
I've been to France.
That's it?
I saw the Louvre...
and Notre Dame.
And?
I even had coffee...
special French coffee for kids.
Now that sounds convincing!
The details help.
Like with Notre Dame,
you could say
you saw it after the fire.
It might not be as beautiful as before,
but there's still something about it.
It's like a reminder that
civilization doesn't always go on a straight line.
That's too long... I won't remember all that.
Can you write it down for me later?
Write it down?
Why are you always thinking about homework?
You're a kid... you should be having fun,
not worrying about homework all the time.
All that homework's
why your eyes are getting worse.
Wait, what did you say?
Huh? Nothing.
Here, have some water.
When did you ever go to Paris?
Stop writing for a second.
Who told you to lie?
Then what should I write about?
On A Memorable Trip.
Haven't we gone on trips before?
But all the other kids have been abroad.
I've only been to Taiyuan.
How's that a real trip?
And I took you to Pingyao!
That counts as a trip.
To see some boring film festival?
You were working the whole time...
it wasn't a vacation.
Wait, you go to a public school,
no way that every kid has traveled abroad.
They're just showing off.
Then I'll show off too.
Molly, there's nothing wrong
with not having traveled abroad.
Just because some kids have,
doesn't make them better.
Their English isn't even as good as yours.
We don't measure ourselves by that...
it's so shallow and silly.
Then what should I measure myself by?
Being honest, brave,
and well-read like you said?
They mean shit.
I promise I'll take you abroad one day.
The pandemic made it impossible for everyone.
Even before the pandemic,
you didn't take me anywhere.
You've been to New York, Africa, Cambodia...
why didn't you take me?
Why are you comparing yourself to me?
When you grow up and earn your own money,
you can go wherever you want.
Let me tell you something...
you live in Shanghai.
Do you know how many kids would give
anything to be in your shoes?
Some kids haven't even been to Shanghai.
Then why do I even need a mom like you?
Whoa, let's not go that far.
Look at me... I've never been abroad,
and I'm doing just fine,
right?
Fine?
You're always drinking and desperate for guys.
If I don't go abroad, I'll end up like her.
Hey, who taught you to talk like that?
Apologize, now!
It's my fault, my fault.
Apologize, now!
It's my fault, my fault.
I haven't been setting a good example.
I'm sorry, Molly.
I'll quit drinking.
I won't touch another drop.
Just don't be mad at your mom, okay?
Don't be mad at her.
I'm sorry, Ye.
It's okay.
You're my best friend.
I'm not mad at you...
well, maybe just a little,
but it's fine.
I'll get over it.
Alright,
let's take a break from this essay.
I'll talk to your teacher.
We'll write it when we've actually been abroad.
Can I at least put down that I've been to France?
You said France is a lot like Shanxi...
both have over a hundred different foods.
You don't have to write it,
but no lying.
If anyone dares to look down on you,
I'll go and tear up their essays.
Pingyao is an international city too.
You even went to the
Pingyao Film Festival, didn't you?
Not every kid gets to go to there.
Exactly!
And there were tons of foreigners there...
it was just like being abroad.
- Did you watch any movies there?
- She did.
I did, but none of them were any good...
I don't remember any of them.
But you met a lot of celebrities, didn't you?
Like that guy who was eating noodles next to you.
Jia Zhangke. Jia Zhangke!
He's not a real celebrity.
None of my classmates even know who he is.
And you met Marco Muller too!
Remember that really white old guy?
I don't remember.
There were a lot of white old guys.
Then
just say
you saw that popular young actor
everyone's crazy about?
the Four-Character Boy.
The name Marco Muller has
four characters in Chinese, too.
More like Four-Character Grandpa.
Did you take any photos with them?
I hate taking pictures with celebrities.
They're not even real celebrities!
Jesus Christ, Molly!
These plane tickets are still so expensive!
They cost as much as my monthly expenses.
Did you get your visa yet?
Oh crap, I forgot.
Why don't we go together?
You said you've never been abroad either...
Mommy will take you.
Thanks, mom.
You slept with Ma!
Did you sniff it out?
Did you?
I wasn't sure at first,
but now, just by looking at you...
Wait, how could you tell?
You smell like his pain relief spray.
Oh, right, I borrowed some patches from him.
Where did you put it?
Just... right here.
He uses a spray, not patches.
I was planning to tell you tonight anyway.
It's not about
telling me or not.
What matters is,
what do you see in him?
You're my role model.
You could have any man you want.
There's nothing special about him.
It was just one night.
Not like looking for a full-time tutor.
Why be picky?
But you should still be picky.
You wouldn't just pick any fruit, right?
I don't think he's that bad.
I was happy.
Really?
Yeah.
If it makes you happy,
then it's a good thing.
I'm happy for you too.
So,
you're not mad, are you?
Why would I be mad?
He's not mine.
I just don't think he's good enough for you.
Is anyone good enough for you?
What kind of match are we supposed
to be looking for, anyway?
A match that can burn anything.
Excuse me.
Sorry.
Are you really quitting drinking
like you promised Momo?
I'm not an alcoholic.
I just need it to sleep.
That's even more of a reason to quit.
I never thought
I'd quit for this reason.
Someone cares about you now.
You can't keep doing certain things,
especially if they're hurting yourself.
But that means I'm not free anymore.
You'll find the courage and
strength to chase real freedom.
Can I really?
I'll be with you all the way.
Let's go.
When we went to the Pingyao Film Festival,
I fell asleep,
but the music was so nice.
Are you reading again?
Stop reading, stop reading.
What's going on?
Go, go.
Go look far away, look far away.
Ladies, everyone...
let's flood the screen with "Chando"!
Sold out already, did you see that?
Brand reps, hurry up!
Come on! Brand reps.
What's going on?
What's happening?
I'm losing money giving five
for the price of one!
Our loyal fans are all waiting
in the live stream.
You see how fast that went?
- All right then.
- Stock up!
- Okay.
- Fine.
Where did you learn to do that?
Life's tough...you gotta adapt.
Tiemei, have you lost your mind?
What nonsense have you been writing?
Relying on your neighbor to babysit your kid?
No talent, never travel abroad?
And your personal life...
who you're sleeping with? This is too much!
But that's the reality of being a single mom.
You can't be a mother and act like this.
Even if it's true, you don't have to broadcast it!
Please, delete it right away.
Jesus, can you just leave it alone?
Don't look at my stomach.
I think it's beautiful,
like a tattoo.
It's cool.
Then you should go get a C-section too.
Sure thing.
I'm not saying you should get a tattoo.
I just hope I'm not reading too much into this.
How'd you know I've been
thinking about getting one?
Like when a student sneaks snacks in class
and thinks the teacher doesn't notice,
but the teacher sees everything.
You're my snack,
my teacher,
and my school bell.
And you're my ten-minute recess between classes.
That short?
Life's been weighing me down so much,
I can barely breathe.
Let's go see a movie this weekend.
You need to relax...
bring Momo along.
We're not exactly in the
'watching movies together' kind of relationship.
Then what kind of relationship do we have?
A messy one even I wouldn't post about.
We can't keep doing this.
Hurry up,
now.
Quick!
Look over there!
Over there!
See that big statue?
That's really big.
Yeah.
There's another one further down.
Check out those huge stairs!
Look over there!
That looks great too!
We can take some photos there.
This looks like a waterfall.
Maybe it is a waterfall.
What even is this?
It doesn't compare to your work...
you're the real artist.
You don't understand art at all.
Fine, you know art better than
anyone else in this world, all right?
Here, have some water.
Don't spill it!
Seriously, what is this?
I can't make sense of it.
Where are we going?
What are you doing here?
I'm here for the biennale.
Isn't today the last day?
Hey, hey...
Come on.
Hey, no, wait! Not here!
Where's your kid?
She's with someone... don't worry about it.
You've got some nerve, huh?
You scared?
Yeah, a little.
Mom, look!
Oh, wow.
Sorry about that!
Dr. Hu.
Hello!
Mom, this is my eye doctor.
Nice to meet you.
Wait, you're her mom?
And... you're also her mom?
Well, uh...
- I can explain...
- Oh,
I get it now.
Sorry,
I didn't realize you two were... you know.
My apologies,
I didn't mean to judge.
You're really brave and strong...
it must not be easy
I'm sorry.
Uh,
we should get going.
Let's talk another time.
- Goodbye, Dr. Hu!
- Sure.
Come.
Goodbye, Dr. Hu!
Goodbye!
Dr. Hu?
Tiemei, I'm so sorry.
Don't be mad.
Tiemei, please don't be mad.
Tiemei,
hit me if you want!
I deserve it.
I'm sorry.
I shouldn't have lied.
I just didn't want him to think
I was serious about him
or that I'd get clingy.
I wanted to seem cool and carefree mom
who's also great at having a secret fling.
I'm really sorry.
You're Wang Molly?
Yeah, that's her.
She's got no talent at all...
just a bystander.
I'm a bystander too, so what?
You know Zhang Jiaxin's
under my protection, right?
No, I didn't. So what?
From now on, you're not allowed to bully him.
And don't even think about
scoring higher than him.
Okay.
That's my deskmate's.
You're from Taiyuan?
Pick up that eraser now.
She's from my hometown.
Hurry up!
Sorry about that.
From now on, I've got your back.
If anything happens, come to me.
Oh, no need.
Wang Molly, you just wait!
I've got another big brother,
and he's definitely not from your hometown!
What are you throwing for?
Well, it's just Zhang Jiaxin.
Got it.
Thank you.
The Singleton, your favorite.
So,
where's the kid?
With my dad.
I know all about what's been going on,
but do you have any idea
how hard it's been for us?
Overcoming so many challenges,
facing so much resistance,
and making the tough decision to stick together
despite everyone turning against us.
We've made it to this life.
I've been working day and night
to support this family,
sacrificing everything.
And this is how you repay me?
I work too, you know.
You cheated on me...
with a man?
A man,
of all the damn things!
Yeah...
You didn't just betray me,
and our community
you betrayed yourself.
Look at what you've become.
How can you live with yourself like that?
I'm really sorry. This is all on me.
I was the one who pursued her.
She was hesitant,
conflicted, and in pain the whole time.
Now I understand why.
I'm truly sorry.
So, what?
I'm supposed to accept that I lost to you?
To a man?
How ridiculous.
No, no, no.
I'm sure she was just looking for a thrill.
It wasn't real.
It couldn't have been.
I've done before.
But only with women...
he's the only man.
Really?
Get your dirty hands off her.
Anyway, we've already decided to split up.
I just want to know if you...
Wait, hold on.
Why split up?
You said it yourself,
you've come so far, built a life together.
And now you're ending it over a man?
That makes me feel like the worst person alive.
Like I'm nothing.
There are other issues between us,
not just you.
We don't see eye to eye on parenting,
and the passion's gone.
But with him, there's passion?
Okay, okay.
I think
you two should really think this through.
I know I'm in no position
to ask for your forgiveness,
but
Ye is someone you don't come across every day.
She's special.
Being with her is a blessing.
If I were you, I'd never let her go.
If you're angry, take it out on me.
I'll take whatever I deserve,
and I'll do anything to make it right.
Do you have other girlfriends?
No,
not really girlfriends.
Just...
friends with benefits.
"Friends"?
I'm not proud of this.
So, you're not planning to change, right?
Would you believe me if I said I could?
No breakup today. Let's just go.
Huh?
You you...
Wait a minute.
Is this how you compliment all the girls?
No, not at all.
But every girl has something...
special about her.
Are you okay?
Why doesn't he love me?
Didn't you say I'm great and
anyone would love me?
Because he's an idiot, that's why.
You've always known that.
When will you wake up and see things clearly?
Look at yourself right now.
You're falling apart over some guy...
some worthless jerk.
What the fuck are you doing to yourself?
You don't understand. You've never loved a man.
Is that all your life revolves around?
Loving some man?
Is that really something to be proud of?
There are so many things
more important than men in this world.
Can't you open your eyes and see that?
Maybe it's not something to be proud of,
but I'm not ashamed either.
Well, you should be.
No, you're the one who's afraid.
You're too scared of getting hurt.
You won't even go see a movie with someone.
Let me tell you something...
I don't have the time or the interest.
I'm not brainwashed into thinking
any man is worth this kind of pain.
That's not true. Men can be fun,
and love can be wonderful.
I've had happy moments, and so have you.
I'm not like you people with nothing better to do.
You don't have any real worries;
all you care about is dating every day.
I can't live like that... I have responsibilities.
Right, because you're busy...
you're the busiest person in the world.
I don't see what great
accomplishments you've achieved,
what journalistic dreams you've realized,
or how well you've raised your kid.
Get out.
I don't want to see you right now.
Just go!
Go chase after his love if that's what you want.
You're right,
who am I anyway?
Always lecturing you,
acting like I know better.
Just leave.
No,
that's not what I meant.
I don't want to see you anymore.
I'm done trying to help you.
I'm sorry, Tiemei.
Don't apologize.
Can't you have a little self-respect for once?
All you ever say is 'I'm sorry.'
Tiemei,
why don't you take a few days off?
We're handling some of the nasty comments.
Don't worry,
it'll blow over in a couple of days.
Yeah,
people find new things to hate on every day.
No reason for them to take it all out on you.
These folks don't actually care about
single moms or anything...
they just want to vent.
But a lot of the hate is coming from women.
You think you're empowering them,
but they're not having it.
Shut up!
But look, the account blew up.
Our followers have multiplied by ten.
We hit our target.
Talk about thick-skinned.
You're like a relentless follower-gaining machine.
Enough about me.
Why don't you try posting
that piece again?
Use our revised version.
It's no use.
Once it's been maliciously reported and
taken down, appealing it won't work.
Don't worry, Tiemei.
I am content.
It got shared for two days,
and I even received a lot of tips.
But we...
You did your best.
Some things are just out of your control.
Ah!
Is there a class today?
No, I'm not here for that.
I blocked you.
What?
En.
You didn't notice?
No.
Hey, hey.
Do you have a key to her place?
I can't reach her.
I need to talk to her about something.
I'm guessing she's just passed out asleep.
Ye!
Ye.
Come on, stop pretending to sleep.
If you didn't want to go, just say it.
What's with not answering the phone?
Wake up! It's so late,
Ye!
Ye.
Ye.
Wake up!
Ye!
What's this?
Sleeping pills...
Ye!
Ye!
Get her water.
Hell water!
Call a car hurry!
Come here.
Help me out here!
I'm getting us a car!
Help me first.
Okay, okay, I've got it.
I'll do it... no, I'll do it.
No, let me.
Hi we are almost there,
just seconds away.
Yeah, yeah.
Just wait for us.
We'll be right there.
Right away.
God damn it!
She's had this before.
Back in school,
her depression was really bad.
Honestly, it never really went away.
It's me, we had a fight.
Said some really harsh things.
Maybe it brought back some old trauma.
No, it's not your fault.
You're not that powerful.
It's on me.
I've been saying her singing is
too terrible to lead our vocal.
I lined up a couple of gigs for her,
but they both fell through.
I didn't even invite her to yesterday's event.
It's my fault too.
I've been too indifferent to women's experiences.
As a man, it's hard to empathize with women...
that's just a fact.
But I haven't tried hard enough to
break down that barrier.
I've just let myself
stay in the comfort of my privileged position.
It's shameful.
Sit down, everyone.
I swear, I wasn't trying to kill myself.
I just couldn't sleep.
I've had insomnia for days,
and I've been taking more and more sleeping pills.
I used to drink to knock myself out,
but I've quit now.
I would never commit suicide.
Why are you here?
Thank God, you're alive.
I'm so relieved.
Who told you?
I'm sorry.
I didn't realize I meant that much to you.
I'm sorry.
No, no,
it wasn't a suicide attempt.
- And definitely not because of you.
- Okay, okay,
let's not talk about it.
Shush.
I've broken it off with them.
I promise,
I want to be with you.
It really wasn't you,
It was because of me.
It's our problem.
No, no, it's not just about you two anymore.
It's about the three of us.
What are you talking about?
It really is.
Come on, let's go.
Wait a second.
Take it easy.
I'm sorry.
I lied to you.
I don't have a family, no child.
She's my best friend.
We're not a couple.
So you did try to kill yourself because of me?
No, I didn't.
Well, either way,
there's nothing stopping us now.
But...
aren't you angry that I lied?
I understand why you lied.
You're just too in love with me.
Then why do I...
Don't ask why.
Just go with the flow.
I can't anymore.
I'm sorry.
Get in.
I'm really disappointed in you.
The last person who said that to me...
I blocked him five years ago.
Good thing I never added you on WeChat.
What do you want?
How can you be so clueless?
How am I supposed to trust you with her?
And you said you've read all her articles.
I knew you were lying.
I blocked her,
so I didn't know.
I'm sorry.
Tell her that.
I'm turning around.
No,
forget it.
She didn't tell me about any of this.
She doesn't need me.
I shouldn't think I'm that important.
So, you're not going to find her?
No more alpha competition?
Competing for what?
Did you read that article?
I'm not even as good as you.
Same tools,
but all I've got is the parenting function.
I'm just a co-parent.
Honestly, being her tool is already an honor.
Don't fool yourself into thinking
she'll take you seriously.
It's not going to happen.
I've already hurt her too much.
I single-handedly
made her lose faith in all men,
made her see our true nature.
There's no cure for that.
Not even with Chinese medicine.
It's terminal.
You got some serious issues yourself.
Sir.
I don't want to just clap anymore.
And I don't want to just sit there and
pretend to be an audience member.
I'm not a robot.
I forgive you.
What?
Yeah, I just decided to forgive you.
Let me know if you want to eat anything.
My mom told me to be nice to you.
After all, you've got such an unreliable mom.
You're pretty pathetic.
I think you're pretty ridiculous.
I still choose to forgive you.
Here,
have some positive vibes.
I can play the drums now.
I'm about to perform live.
Yeah, right.
Give me that.
You should've done that a lot sooner.
You didn't do anything wrong.
It wasn't me, really!
He hit himself!
It's okay to hit back if someone's mean,
but don't lie about it.
Mom, am I really that pathetic?
What?
I'm honest, brave, and well-read.
Why would I be pathetic?
Exactly, how could you be pathetic?
You're not pathetic at all.
If anyone's pathetic, it's them.
You know,
I actually wrote another article to fire back.
For every insult they threw at me,
I had a comeback ready.
I refused to back down,
and I wasn't about to second-guess myself.
But I just deleted it all.
You were right.
What kind of great mom am I?
What big career have I accomplished?
What journalistic dreams have I realized?
What am I so proud of?
How could I have been so confident,
thinking I could do it all...
work, make money,
raise a kid, cultivate her,
and still have time for a fling?
But in reality, I didn't do anything right.
I've messed up everything.
But why do you have to get everything right?
I thought you'd say,
"You've done great already.'
I can't keep complimenting you.
I've already praised your whole family enough.
You don't need to be 'better.'
Who decides what 'better' even is?
Who's the judge?
Why can't things get messed up?
How bad could it really be?
Because I'm a woman,
a mother...
I have to get it right.
But you're also human.
You're not made of steel,
you're not a superhero.
And humans?
We mess up.
We're fragile, we're imperfect,
and sometimes we need help.
That's not how the game works.
Then let's stop playing their game.
Maybe you can,
but I can't.
Yes, you can.
I'll be there with you.
Also, there's absolutely
nothing pathetic about Momo.
She's the happiest kid in all of Shanghai.
Compared to you, maybe.
I'm sorry.
I haven't taken care of you either.
You're a good mom,
but you're not my mom.
You can't be everyone's mom,
you can't take care of everyone.
You don't have to apologize to me.
Someone should be saying sorry to you.
Ye.
Ye.
I made a new friend...
Maya.
She's gonna come watch me play at the show!
Really?
How'd you guys meet?
I asked her if she'd ever seen
someone try to kill themselves.
She said no,
but she's curious.
Hi, Ye.
Hi, Maya!
Most people cut their wrists.
Why'd you go with your ankle?
Because I wasn't trying to die.
Sorry
for not being a good role model again.
It's okay. I think growing up to be like you
isn't so bad.
But if you died,
you wouldn't get to see us grow up.
I'll make sure to stay alive,
so I can see you both grow up.
And maybe you'll create a whole new game together.
Actually...
being a tool isn't so bad.
At least
I'm a tool that
gets all the perks.
Don't reduce yourself like that.
I don't see you as a tool.
And... the ten-minute recess idea
isn't too bad either.
We still have forty-five minutes
to do more important things.
Want to watch a movie tomorrow?
Sure.
I'll buy the tickets.
Come and watch at my place.
So,
we're in the 'watching movies together
at home' kind of relationship?
And also the 'eating snacks together
in the bathroom' kind.
They're on their last song.
We need to get ready.
- Time to go!
- Don't rush.
It's her first time on stage.
She needs a moment to prepare.
It's time to go on stage.
Everyone's waiting for you.
You can't just stay in there.
Come on out.
Come on!
Don't pressure her too much.
If Mono can't do it, Ma can take over.
How about this?
I'll go talk to 'Bootlegs' next door,
and see if they'll swap slots with us.
That'll give Momo some more time.
Fine.
Momo.
Come on out.
Everyone's left now.
It's okay.
If something's bothering you,
come out and talk to us, okay?
Just come out.
Come out.
Yeah...
What's going on?
Are you scared?
Scared of being on stage?
Scared they'll say you didn't play well?
They won't.
You're already playing great.
And even if you make a mistake,
no one will notice.
They don't know enough to tell.
Exactly.
You're such a good mom,
but they still talk bad about you.
They don't even know how to be a mom,
but they still say mean things.
Why?
I'm sorry.
I shouldn't have let you see those comments.
But if you didn't write anything,
they wouldn't have said those things.
So you think if you don't go on stage,
no one will say anything bad about you?
If we don't step out,
don't share, don't put ourselves out there,
people won't notice us.
But we live in this world,
and we're going to be here for a long time.
At some point, we will be noticed,
whether it's now or later.
It's like your writing assignments...
some people will like them,
and others might not.
But you can't stop writing
just because you're scared of
what others might say.
Look at me...
I don't let criticism bring me down.
I'm not as strong as you.
You're Ironheart.
Every time I go on stage,
I'm scared out of my mind.
I'm worried I'll sing off-key
or that the audience will hate it.
But the truth is, not that many people care.
We just need to focus on the people
who truly care about us.
Like, she's your mom, and only yours.
and if you think she's great,
that's all that matters.
She's my mom only,
but I'm everyone's drummer.
We're not that important.
If you're not ready,
you don't have to go on stage.
It's okay.
No one will blame you.
You can do it next time when you're ready,
okay?
Come on, sweetie.
It's fine
if you don't want to go on.
Ma can do it.
No pressure, okay?
You know what?
Taylor Swift was like this too when she was ten.
She forgot all the lyrics
during her first performance
and just stood there
until the crowd booed her off the stage.
- Really?
- Really?
Yep, even Taylor Swift went through it.
How could they treat Taylor like that?
Americans, right?
But I promise you,
usually only the lead singers get booed.
The drummers never do.
You made that up, didn't you?
Nope,
I read it in the New York Times.
Now, please welcome our vice principal
to give us a speech.
Give it up for our special guest on drums,
Wang Molly!
My Favorite Thing
I used to think my favorite thing
was playing the drums.
But after playing on a very big stage,
and pulling off the performance,
I realized it didn't make me
as happy as I thought it would.
I just did what I was supposed to do.
I can't lie...
I still enjoy being in the audience
more than being on stage.
Soon, I'm going abroad to see my favorite singer,
Taylor Swift, perform.
She is the singer that I like the most right now.
But who knows, that could change.
My mom says it's good to try new things
because I have a long life ahead of me
with plenty of dreams,
so there's no rush to decide on my favorite thing.
I also like drawing
and boxing,
but if I had to pick my favorite right now,
it would probably be writing.
Maybe it's something I got from my mom.
Why did you write, "I Don't Dream Anymore"?
I just wanted to try writing something pessimistic.
How about writing something
more positive next time?
But it's because we're optimistic and confident
that we can face tragedies.
Where did you learn that?
You wrote it in one of your articles.
Really? I don't even remember.
It was from the year I was born.
It's so sour.
Leave it there... I'll eat it.