Sexy Baby (2012) Movie Script
Various voices:
- COMMUNICATION HAS NEVER
BEEN FASTER OR MORE EASY.
- ON TV, FACEBOOK HAS...
- IT'S JUST SEX, SEX, SEX,
SEX EVERYWHERE...
- ONLINE PORN IS JUST A FEW
ACCIDENTAL MOUSE TAPS AWAY.
- WHEN YOU'RE IN
FOURTH GRADE IT'S LIKE
YOU DON'T REALLY
UNDERSTAND WHAT'S GOING
ON, BUT YOU LIKE IT.
- KIM KARDASHIAN
SHOT TO FAME
AFTER A SEX TAPE OF
HER WITH HER EX, RAY J,
HIT THE INTERNET.
- THE BAR KEEPS
GETTING HIGHER...
- IT'S ESSENTIALLY
PORNOGRAPHY...
- KIDS THESE DAYS SEEM TO
WANT TO BE THE CELEBRITIES...
- KIDS ARE STARTING EARLIER
THAN EVER BEFORE...
- AND IT LOOKS
LIKE IT'S NORMAL.
- HAVE YOU EVER SEEN
A "BUSH" ON A GIRL?
NO BUSH, NONE.
ONCE, BUT I DIDN'T
EVER TALK TO HER AGAIN.
- THESE SEEMINGLY PERFECT
BODIES ARE EVERYWHERE
- MORE AND MORE WOMEN
GO UNDER THE KNIFE.
- A SHOW OF HANDS,
HOW MANY OF YOU,
WHEN YOU WERE IN HIGH
SCHOOL HAD THE "SEXTING,"
THE NAKED PICTURE?
THE NAKED PICTURE? OH!
- I HAVE TAKEN PICTURES OF
GIRLS WITH THEIR TOPS OFF.
- HOW DO YOU GET
THEM TO DO IT?
ASK 'EM.
- IT'S CONFUSING.
NOBODY KNOWS WHAT EMPOWERED
FEMALE SEXUALITY LOOKS LIKE.
- NOW I CAN SAY I HAVE BEEN
ON GIRLS GONE WILD.
IT'S NOT THAT BAD,
IT'S REALLY NOT.
I MEAN, THEY'RE
PRETTY LEGIT, SO.
YOU KNOW, I WOULDN'T
JUST RANDOMLY SHOW
MY TITS TO SOMEBODY.
OH, OH, OH
I'LL GET HIM HOT,
SHOW HIM WHAT I'VE GOT
P-P-P-POKER FACE,
P-P-POKER FACE
P-P-P-POKER FACE,
P-P-POKER FACE
- WHAT ARE YOUR
FAVORITE SONGS, MYRTLE?
BRITNEY!
BRITNEY WHO?
BRITNEY BITCH
[LAUGHTER]
BRITNEY SPEARS
IT'S BRITNEY SPEARS
NO, BRITNEY BITCH!
- THERE'S A SONG WHERE SHE
GOES "IT'S BRITNEY BITCH".
SO THAT'S WHAT WE
ASSOCIATE WITH THAT.
LET'S HAVE SOME FUN,
THIS BEAT IS SICK
I WANNA TAKE A RIDE
ON YOUR DISCO STICK
- GET UP OFF THE FLOOR!
THAT IS NOT OKAY, MYRTLE!
STOP IT.
JESUS.
- I'M SCARING MOMMY AGAIN.
NO DON'T SCARE ME--
YOU ALREADY SCARED ME.
YOU SCARED ME WITH
THAT PERFORMANCE ON
THE FLOOR THERE.
HOW DID SHE SCARE YOU?
BECAUSE SHE IS--
SEXY!
YEAH, THAT'S RIGHT.
SHE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW
WHAT THAT MEANS.
SEXY.
C'MON., ON YOUR FEET.
IF YOU WANNA DANCE,
THAT'S FINE,
BUT I DON'T WANNA SEE
THAT TYPE OF DANCING, OK?
WE'RE LIKE THE FIRST
GENERATION TO HAVE
WHAT WE HAVE.
SO THERE'S NO ONE BEFORE US
THAT CAN KIND OF GUIDE US.
I MEAN, WE ARE THE PIONEERS.
[HONKING]
HELLO, AND WELCOME TO
WINNIFRED'S WORDS OF WISDOM.
GET READY PEOPLE,
BECAUSE I'M ON A MISSION.
A MISSION TO REVEAL REAL
STORIES ABOUT REAL GIRLS.
IF YOU AIN'T GOT NO MONEY
TAKE YOUR BROKE ASS HOME
G-L-A-M-O-R-O-U-S
G-L-A-M-O...
WHAT WE'RE SAYING IS PEOPLE
KNOW MORE ABOUT PARIS HILTON
AND LINDSAY LOHAN
THAN SUSAN B. ANTHONY
AND RUTH BADER GINSBURG,
AND THAT'S GOTTA CHANGE.
PICTURE IT.
YOU'RE KIND OF DRESSED UP,
YOU'VE HAD SOME PUNCH,
AND NOW IT'S TIME TO BOOGIE.
WOW. NAILED IT.
BUT, BUT REALLY,
WHAT'S NOT TO LOVE?
I MEAN, THAT BEAT,
THAT VOICE, THAT...POETRY?
"SOULJA BOY OFF IN THIS."
(WHISTLE BLOWS)
"WATCH ME CRANK IT,
WATCH ME ROLL,
"WATCH ME LEAN
AND WATCH ME ROCK.
"SUPER-SOAK DAT.
(WHISTLE BLOWS)
SO, I DON'T GET IT.
LIKE, LIKE, WHO'S THE
(WHISTLE BLOWS) HERE?
AM I THE (WHISTLE BLOWS)
NO, BUT I DON'T GET
IT, SERIOUSLY,
WHO'S THE (WHISTLE BLOWS)?
OH, SHE'S THE
(WHISTLE BLOWS).
THIS HAS BEEN WINNIFRED'S
WORDS OF WISDOM.
SEE YA NEXT TIME
AND UNTIL THEN,
PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT
YOU MAKE US DO PEOPLE.
KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN!
[APPLAUSE]
Dr. Stern: WHAT WAS IMPORTANT
TO YOU WHEN YOU STARTED
LOOKING INTO THIS?
Laura: JUST THE BEFORE
AND AFTER PICTURES.
DO THEY TELL YOU HOW
THEY WANT IT TO LOOK?
AND THEN, OR.
CUT IT OFF,
TAKE EVERYTHING OFF.
I WANT TO FEEL
COMFORTABLE IN THE BEDROOM.
RIGHT.
I WANT TO BE ABLE TO MAKE
LOVE WITH THE LIGHTS ON.
MAKE IT PRETTY,
MAKE IT SMALLER.
I WANT NOTHING HANGING.
AND THEN YOU
WONDER HOW SOMEONE,
LIKE THAT, WAITED
TILL SHE WAS 43.
A LOT OF MY MALE
FRIENDS JUST JOKE
AROUND WITH EACH OTHER
ABOUT THE GIRLS
THEY'VE HOOKED UP WITH,
AND THEY'LL SAY
IT'S LIKE ROAST BEEF
OR "SHE HAS
A MEAT CURTAIN, HAHA"
AND I WAS JUST
LIKE LAUGHING ALONG,
AND THEN I WAS LIKE
OH MY GOSH, I DO,
I HAVE THIS PROBLEM.
Stern: LABIAPLASTIES
IN YOUNG GIRLS
SEEMS TO BE INCREASING
SIGNIFICANTLY.
WE'RE SEEING MORE
AND MORE REQUESTS.
FROM TEENS UNDER
THE AGE OF 18 EVEN,
BECAUSE OF A HEIGHTENED
SEXUAL AWARENESS,
BECAUSE OF MAGAZINES,
BECAUSE OF PORN,
BECAUSE OF THE INTERNET.
THEN MOST OF
THESE AREN'T LOCAL,
THEY WILL TRAVEL
TO GET THIS DONE.
WHAT DO YOU DO?
I'M AN ASSISTANT TEACHER
OF KINDERGARTEN.
OH, OKAY.
DO YOU HAVE
A BOYFRIEND RIGHT NOW?
NO.
GREAT TIME TO DO SURGERY.
AND HOW LONG HAVE
YOU WANTED THIS FOR?
2 YEARS.
BUT IT'S BOTHERED YOU
FOR LONGER THAN THAT?
YES.
UP HERE? EVERYWHERE.
EVERYWHERE.
EVERYWHERE.
EVEN IN MY DREAMS.
EVEN IN YOUR DREAMS.
I HAVE NIGHTMARES, YES.
WOW.
WHAT WE'RE GOING
TO GO THROUGH,
I'M GOING TO FINISH TAKING
A GOOD HISTORY ON YOU,
MAKE SURE THAT ALTHOUGH
ALREADY WE KNOW
WE'RE DOING THIS FOR
THE RIGHT REASONS--
IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT
FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND
THAT DOING THIS FOR YOU IS
GOING TO CHANGE EVERYTHING.
THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT
HAVE EMOTIONAL ISSUES.
MY FIRST SERIOUS BOYFRIEND
WATCHED X-RATED MOVIES
AND STUFF,
AND HE WAS LIKE
"OH, IT'S BIGGER
THAN MOST GIRLS,
LIKE WHAT'S WRONG?"
AND I JUST FEEL IT
WOULD BE A HUGE TURN-ON
TO A GUY TO LOOK
LIKE A PORN STAR.
MC: [INDISTINCT TALKING]
...EROTIC ENTERTAINER
OF THE YEAR,
LADIES AND GENTLEMAN
WELCOME OUT NAKITA KASH!
[CHEERING]
Nichole: I THINK THAT
THE ADULT ENTERTAINMENT WORLD
HAS COMPLETELY INFILTRATED
THE MAINSTREAM.
MUSIC VIDEOS AND
BILLBOARDS LOOK LIKE PORN.
CHICKS ARE DANCING
IN NIGHTCLUBS
TRYING TO LOOK
LIKE STRIPPERS.
REGULAR GUYS ARE TRYING
TO PULL PORN MOVES IN BED.
AND I DO BLAME THAT
ON THE DIGITAL AGE.
HOLY SHIT.
WOW! OH MY FUCKING GOD!
[CHEERING]
I WAS STILL IN HIGH SCHOOL
WHEN I STARTED STRIPPING.
I WENT FROM HOUSE DANCER TO
COMPETITIVE DANCER TO MODEL.
NOW ADULT ACTRESS.
AND GOT REALLY,
REALLY WELL KNOWN
AS THE PORN STAR
WHO POLE DANCED.
GRAB YOUR BUTT. NICE.
I STARTED POLE DANCING
ALMOST A YEAR AGO.
JUST TAKING LESSONS
ONCE A WEEK AT ONE
OF THE LOCAL GYMS.
BUT TAKING THE CLASSES
FROM NICHOLE,
TAKING THE LESSONS FROM, YOU
KNOW, A REAL EXOTIC DANCER,
A REAL PORN STAR,
HAS KIND OF
TAUGHT ME THE OTHER
SIDE OF THINGS.
IT'S LIKE, YEAH,
I CAN DO THAT!
GO IN THE OTHER DIRECTION.
I WANT YOU TO GO UP.
THERE YOU GO.
Nichole: POLE DANCING WAS
MY LIFE FOR 15 YEARS.
AND ONCE THE MAINSTREAM WORLD
STARTED SHOWING INTEREST
IN WHAT NAKITA KASH
WAS REALLY GOOD AT,
I WAS ABLE TO HAVE
NICHOLE SHOW THEM
WHAT NAKITA KASH
HAS LEARNED.
AND I FIND WOMEN WANTING
TO BE LIKE NAKITA KASH,
BUT NICHOLE JUST
WANTS TO BE LIKE THEM.
NICE, MELISSA!
[MUSIC PLAYS]
ONE, TWO, THREE.
WHEE!
JUST HAVE YOUR MOM CALL
ME OR CONTACT ME SO
I CAN FIND OUT.
YEP.
Ken:
I HAVE FRIENDS WHO LIVE
IN THE SUBURBS AND FRIENDS
WHO LIVE IN OTHER CITIES,
AND THERE'S LIKE
THIS STEREOTYPE OF
A NEW YORK CITY KID.
[DOG BARKING]
PEOPLE SAY "WOW, WINNIFRED.
SHE'S NOT SHELTERED,
SHE'S EXPOSED TO THE CITY."
Winnifred: COME ON INTERNET!
I GUESS I DO WORRY,
BUT I WOULD SAY
MOST KIDS GET EXPOSED
WHEREVER YOU LIVE.
Winnifred: OKAY SO
THESE ARE ALL PHOTOS
THAT I TAGGED OF MYSELF
OR PEOPLE TAGGED OF ME.
Ken: WINNIFRED IS
A STRONG GYMNAST,
SHE'S A WRITER,
SHE IS AN ACTOR.
SHE'S INTO SOCIAL JUSTICE.
SHE KNOWS ABOUT
ISSUES IN THE WORLD.
I MEAN, SO FAR, SO GOOD.
PERSONALLY, I HAVEN'T
SEEN THAT MUCH.
I MEAN, I KNOW
WHAT'S OUT THERE,
BUT I HAVEN'T
REALLY SEEN IT.
I MEAN, I'M THINKING
BACK TO WHEN I WAS A KID,
MAYBE NOT 12 BUT
DEFINITELY 13,
LIKE KIDS HAD ACCESS
TO DIRTY MAGAZINES.
DAD, THAT'S SO
OLD SCHOOL!
SO, IF NOW YOU'RE
ON THE INTERNET,
WHY WOULDN'T A KID
YOUR AGE LOOK AT
SOMETHING ONLINE?
IT'S DIFFERENT, DAD.
WHAT STOPS KIDS YOU THINK?
JUDGMENT!
VERY LITTLE
KIDS HAVE IT.
I KNOW BUT I'M
SAYING, RIGHT.
I HAVE IT! OH, SNAP.
SSSSS!
NEED SOME OINTMENT
FOR THAT BURN?
I'M KIDDING,
DAD, I'M KIDDING.
Nichole:
YEAH, YOU BIG BABY GIRL.
SHHH. WHAT'S FUNNY
IS THEY ACT LIKE
THEY HATE ME.
THEN AFTERWARDS THEY RUB UP
AGAINST ME LIKE "THANKS MOM!"
WHEN I WAS ON
AMERICA'S GOT TALENT...
AND WHAT'S YOUR NAME?
MY NAME'S NICHOLE.
...I GOT A STANDING OVATION
FROM A CROWD OF PEOPLE
WHO ALL DAY LONG HAD
BEEN BOOING PEOPLE OFF
OF THE STAGE.
[CHEERING]
IT WAS A PRETTY
COOL EXPERIENCE.
YOU'RE GOING TO VEGAS.
YES!
BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY,
I DIDN'T GO ON NATIONAL TV
AS NAKITA BECAUSE MY
FAMILY WAS GONNA WATCH.
GOOD BOY.
YEAH, I LOVE YOU.
SO MUCH BETTER
THAN YOUR SISTERS.
COMING TO FLORIDA
I GUESS MAYBE WAS
THE FIRST STEP
OF PULLING BACK
THE NAKITA KASH LAYERS.
THERE'S HAIR EVERYWHERE.
GETTING BACK TO MY TRUE SELF.
I THINK MY FAMILY
ALWAYS THOUGHT I WAS
GONNA BE AN ARTIST.
OR AT LEAST AN ENTREPRENEUR.
BUT AT LEAST THEY
WERE ON THE RIGHT TRACK,
I'M A PERFORMANCE ARTIST.
I'M CREATIVE.
MY MOM HAS A LOT OF
PICTURES OF ME
DRESSING UP IN MY
DANCE COSTUMES.
I ACTUALLY WISH SHE WOULD
HAVE ENCOURAGED ME MORE,
AND BEEN ABLE TO SUPPORT
ME MORE IN MY DANCE.
WHO KNOWS WHAT LIFE
WOULD HAVE ENTAILED.
AND WHO KNOWS, I MIGHT
BE IN A THEATER
INSTEAD OF TRYING TO PERFORM
DANCE IN ANOTHER WAY.
I'M REVEALING
MY COOKING SECRETS.
ESPECIALLY BEING
IN THE INDUSTRY,
I DIDN'T REALLY
BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY.
I DIDN'T BELIEVE
IN MARRIAGE.
UM, I DIDN'T REALLY
UNDERSTAND HOW ONE PERSON
COULD KEEP YOU HAPPY
FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
AND, I DON'T KNOW,
I MET DAVE.
THE WHOLE WORLD CHANGED.
CAN YOU COME HERE PLEASE?
I CAN'T REACH THE THING.
THE OTHER ONE.
IT'S WAY BACK THERE.
EVEN THOUGH DAVE WORKS
IN THE ADULT INDUSTRY,
HE TALKS TO PORN
STARS EVERY DAY,
HE BECAME VERY AWARE
THAT HE COULD SEPARATE IT.
HE COULD GO HOME AT
THE END OF THE DAY
AND JUST BE
A NORMAL PERSON.
AND I FIND, I FIND
MYSELF EVERY DAY
LEARNING WHO
NICHOLE IS AGAIN.
WATCH THIS, THIS IS HOT!
NO, I'M JUST KIDDING.
[SIREN WAILS]
Man:
LET'S WELCOME OUR PANEL.
HOST OF FOX NEWS'
REDEYE, BILL SHULZ.
STATE ATTORNEYS
JENNIFER BONJEAN AND
JENNIFER SMETTERS.
LET'S FIRE UP THE CLOCK.
JENNIFER BONJEAN,
THE THING THAT BOTHERS
ME IS AREN'T COURTS...
YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO--
THE PEOPLE THAT ARE
SUPPOSED TO BE
DOING THIS SORT OF THING,
NOT THE PRESIDENT.
IT'S LAWYERS WORKING
IN COURTS WHO ARE SUPPOSED
TO MAKE THESE JUDGMENTS.
YES, BUT THEY CAN'T DO THE
SWEEPING POLICY CHANGES
THAT THE JUDGE DOES,
THAT THE PRESIDENT
DOES. LISTEN...
WAIT A MINUTE, THERE'S
SOMETHING CALLED CONGRESS.
IT'S SUPPOSED TO
HELP HIM DO THAT.
THAT'S TRUE, BUT HE
CAN PUT HIS INFLUENCE,
HIS SWAY ON THIS,
AS JENNIFER SAID.
AND NOT ONLY THAT,
IT'S THE ANTI-REGULATORY
APPROACH OF
THE LAST ADMINISTRATION...
Girl: MOMMY!
WE SAW YOU ON TV!
OH MY GOD, WE RAN
OUT OF FROSTING!
[LAUGHING] HAPPY B-DA!
I ALWAYS SAY I'M EITHER
BEING A LOUSY MOTHER
OR A LOUSY LAWYER.
I'M NEVER REALLY
OUTSTANDING AT BOTH
AT THE SAME TIME.
DADDY!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR
WINNIFRED
CHA-CHA-CHA!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
CHA-CHA-CHA!
ALL RIGHT.
MAKE A WISH!
DAD, WANNA SEE
MY BAT-MITZVAH SHOES?
Winnifred:
WANT ME TO GET THE DRESS?
SHE WANTS TO WEAR
FISHNETS WITH IT.
WE'LL SEE.
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY, WINNIFRED.
"WHILE YOU ARE GROWING INTO
A BEAUTIFUL, INDEPENDENT,
"THINKING YOUNG WOMAN,
WHO YOUR MOM AND I ARE
BOTH SO PROUD OF
"IN SO MANY WAYS,
AT THE SAME TIME,
"YOU REALLY ARE STILL A KID.
YOU WILL ALWAYS
BE MY NUMBER ONE."
HAPPY B-DA!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
OH MY GOD -- WAIT.
YOU GOT
LADY GAGA TICKETS!
YOU CAN GO WITH WHOEVER
YOU WANT TO GO WITH.
OH, MY GOD. DAD.
Jeni : THESE GIRLS, AND
BOYS THEY'RE GETTING
THE SAME MESSAGES
AND INFLUENCES ACROSS
THE SPECTRUM.
AND YOU CAN EITHER BE
PART OF THE CONVERSATION,
BE PART OF THEIR THINKING,
OR YOU CAN LET THEM FIGURE
IT OUT ON THEIR OWN.
AND I SORT OF WOULD RATHER
BE PART OF THE CONVERSATION
AND BE PART OF THE THINKING.
I GET BLOWN OFF A LOT,
BUT I DO THINK IT
REGISTERS SOMEWHERE.
LOOKS GOOD, THAT'S PERFECT.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
THANK YOU.
ARE YOU GOING TO BE
ABLE TO MANAGE?
OW!
SORRY.
DON'T POKE.
LOOK! SHOW YOUR SISTERS
HOW PRETTY YOU LOOK.
YOU DO LOOK
REALLY PRETTY.
YEAH, DOESN'T
SHE LOOK PRETTY?
RIGHT HERE, C'MON DOVE.
OH MY GOD, DUDE!
DID YOU WEAR
THE TEAL ONES?
YEAH, OH, I'M SUPPOSED
TO BE OVER THERE.
OKAY, STEVE.
STEVE, THESE ARE AISLES.
THIS ISN'T GOING TO WORK.
SHEMA YISRAEL ADONAI,
ELOHEINU ADONAI ECHAD
AS THE GREAT POET GIBRAN SAYS
"TO SOAR AND TO FLY,
YOU NEED A STABLE BOW".
AND WHAT COULD BE MORE
CONSISTENTLY STABLE FOR YOU,
WINNIFRED, THAN A COMBINATION
OF MOM AND I. RIGHT?
I'M GONNA CHEAT A LITTLE BIT
BECAUSE I'M GOING TO READ
TO HER THIS WRITING THAT
COMES FROM EVE ENSLER,
WHO IS A HERO OF MINE
AND WHO I KNOW IS A HERO
OF WINNIFRED'S.
I AM AN EMOTIONAL CREATURE.
UM..."HERE'S WHAT
YOU WILL BE TOLD.
"FIND A MAN,
SEEK PROTECTION,
"DON'T CARE SO MUCH,
DON'T TRAVEL ALONE,
"YOU ARE NOTHING
WITHOUT A MAN.
"HERE'S WHAT
I'M TELLING YOU.
"EVERYONE'S MAKING
EVERYTHING UP.
"THERE IS NO ONE IN
CHARGE EXCEPT FOR THOSE
WHO PRETEND TO BE.
"SAY NO WHEN YOU DON'T
WANT TO DO SOMETHING,
"SAY YES IF YOUR
INSTINCTS ARE STRONG,
"EVEN IF EVERYONE
AROUND YOU DISAGREES.
"TAKE YOUR TIME.
"MOVE AS FAST AS YOU DO,
AS LONG AS IT'S YOUR SPEED..."
I'M SORRY.
AT LEAST IN MY HOUSE,
AND WHAT I HOPE TO ROLE
MODEL FOR MY DAUGHTER
IS THAT YOU CAN
ENJOY YOUR SEXUALITY,
BUT AT THE SAME TIME,
KICKING ASS AND DOING
IMPORTANT THINGS
AND ALWAYS BEING IN
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS...
AND UM, AND YOU KNOW WHAT?
AND VALUING BEING
TREATED WELL.
[APPLAUSE]
MC: WHO'S GOT BETTER MOVES,
MOTHER OR DAUGHTER?
SO LADIES AND GENTLEMAN,
AS YOU CAN SEE,
IN THE CENTER OF
THE DANCE FLOOR,
WE HAVE WINNIE VS. JENI.
CHECK IT OUT, MOTHER VS.
DAUGHTER. LET'S GO!
SOMEBODY CLAP YOUR HANDS,
JUST CLAP YOUR HANDS!
I THINK WINNIE IS WINNING.
WHAT YOU GOT JENI?
C'MON, "DAMN YOU'S
A SEXY CHICK"!
Laura:
FROM A VERY YOUNG AGE
EVERYBODY SAID THAT
I SHOULD BE A MODEL BECAUSE
OF MY HEIGHT, OBVIOUSLY.
I DO HAVE A FAVORITE.
IT'S A BLACK AND WHITE
ONE WHERE I'M LIKE
SITTING ON A BED AND
I'M HOLDING MY HAIR UP.
IT'S JUST, IT'S VERY
SIMPLE I THINK,
BUT STILL SEXY AND RELAXED.
I THINK THE MODELING
HERE IN CHARLOTTE,
IT JUST WAS VERY SHADY
SO I REALIZED THAT
I NEEDED TO FIND
SOMETHING WITH ACTUAL
SUBSTANCE TO IT,
AND BE A LITTLE BIT
MORE RESPONSIBLE.
TWO IS BIRCH.
MY JOB NOW, I TEACH
KINDERGARTEN IN
ELEMENTARY SCHOOL.
I'M AN ASSISTANT TEACHER.
AND I'VE BEEN
TRYING TO SAVE UP
SO THAT I COULD
AFFORD SURGERY EARLIER,
BUT I DID GET
A SECOND JOB NOW
AND I'M PLANNING ON
SAVING UP ALL THE MONEY
THAT I CAN TO
PUT TOWARDS THIS.
[READING INDISTINCTLY]
Ken: I THINK I'M AS MUCH
AS A FEMINIST AS,
YOU KNOW, A MAN CAN BE.
I HAVE 3 DAUGHTERS
AND I WANT THEM TO GROW UP
TO BE STRONG,
POWERFUL ADULTS,
SO I PAY ATTENTION TO
THE GAZILLION DIFFERENT
INFLUENCES THAT
COULD HURT THAT.
THIS IS JUST ONE EXAMPLE.
WHEN GOGO WAS 5, WE HAD
THIS BOOK CALLED CINDEREDNA,
WHERE THERE'S LIKE
CINDERELLA AND CINDEREDNA.
AND CINDERELLA IS A BLONDE,
BEAUTIFUL BARBIE DOLL,
AND CINDEREDNA IS
LIKE COOL, INTERESTING.
SHE HAS HOBBIES
AND INTERESTS,
SHE HAS A GARDEN,
SHE'S INTO SCIENCE.
AND SO I SAY TO GOGO,
LIKE YOU KNOW,
I REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME
READING THIS BOOK TO
HER, SO WHAT'D YOU THINK?
LIKE, YOU KNOW,
WHO DO YOU LIKE BETTER?
AND SHE'S LIKE
"CINDERELLA, OF COURSE."
I GO "YOU LIKE CINDERELLA?"
SHE'S LIKE "YEAH!" I GO "WHY?"
SHE GOES "SHE WAS PRETTY."
THAT'S, IT--IT'S EVERYWHERE.
YOU CAN'T AVOID IT, SO
I LIE TO MY KIDS A LOT.
I TELL GOGO "IT DOESN'T
MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE."
AND AT SOME POINT THEY
REALIZE YOU'RE LYING TO THEM,
BUT HOPEFULLY INSTEAD
OF BECOMING, LIKE 80%
OF WHAT THEY CARE
ABOUT, IT'S LIKE 32%.
DO YOU HAVE HER CHARTS?
MY PRACTICE IS LIMITED
TO FEMALE COSMETIC
GENITAL SURGERY.
I OPERATE ON
5 PATIENTS A DAY.
Woman: THE FIRST BUNNY
IS A GIRL BUNNY.
SEE THE PRETTY EYELASHES?
SHOULD WE MAKE THIS
ONE A GIRL BUNNY?
Stern: AND THE MOTHER,
MOST OFTEN THE MOTHER
AND THE DAUGHTER
DO COME IN TOGETHER.
COME ON BACK.
GET UNDRESSED FROM
THE WAIST DOWN,
HAVE A SEAT
ON THE TABLE.
OKAY.
SCOOT DOWN TOWARDS ME.
SLIDE BACK A LITTLE
MORE, THERE YOU GO.
ON A SCALE OF 1 to 10,
10 BEING THE ENORMOUS ONES,
YOUR RIGHT ONE'S A 7,
YOUR LEFT ONE'S AN 8.
SO THIS ISN'T IN
YOUR HEAD. OKAY?
IF I GET THOSE
WINGS OFF COMPLETELY
AND ROUND THEM TO
THE SIDE, IS THAT
GONNA MAKE YOU HAPPY?
YES!
OKAY.
C'MON.
WE'RE GONNA HAVE FUN,
YOU'RE GOING TO LOVE THIS.
NO, THIS IS--
I'M ALREADY LOVING IT.
NO, BECAUSE THIS IS...
YOU REALLY--
NOBODY NEEDS IT,
BUT YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY
A GREAT CANDIDATE,
'CAUSE I MEAN,
THESE ARE BIG.
HOW MANY BUNNY RABBITS
DID YOU MAKE TODAY?
UM, 5?
RIGHT HERE?
NO, YES, YES, THIS WAY.
ARE YOU STILL
FEELING EXCITED AND
HAPPY ABOUT THIS?
I'M SO EXCITED.
ARE YOU?
YEAH.
WHEN I FIRST
DISCOVERED LABIAPLASTY,
AND I TOLD MY MOM AND MY
BOYFRIEND AT THE TIME.
THEY WERE BOTH KIND OF LIKE
"YOU DON'T NEED TO
DO THAT, YOU'RE PERFECT
THE WAY YOU ARE."
BUT I FEEL THAT
I ALREADY HAVE THIS
IMAGE IN MY HEAD
OF WHAT A LABIA
SHOULD LOOK LIKE
AND THERE'S NOT REALLY
ANYTHING THAT CAN BE
DONE ABOUT IT NOW.
IT'S LIKE A PERMANENT
SCAR IN MY MIND.
NOW MORE WOMEN ARE
HAVING A VERY CONTROVERSIAL
PLASTIC SURGERY DONE ON
THEIR MOST PRIVATE AREAS.
I LIKE A LONG
HAIR THICK RED...
I DON'T KNOW,
HOW'S IT GO?
"OPEN UP HER LEGS,
BIG RED THONG,
OPEN UP HER LEGS
THAT FILET MIGNON."
THAT PUSSY, I'M A GET
IN AND ON THAT PUSSY
YEAH, IT'S LIKE
THE LIPS, IT'S THE OPENING.
IT'S THE HELLO.
GON' THROW IT BACK...
THAT'S HOW WE KNOW
ANATOMY, FROM HIP-HOP.
I'D BE REALLY CURIOUS
TO SEE WHAT THE AVERAGE
LABIA IS LIKE.
I MEAN, THAT WOULD
PROBABLY MAKE ME START
THINKING LIKE "AAH, WHAT
IS THE PERFECT LABIA?"
I DON'T WANNA EXPLAIN
ON VIDEO CAMERA
WHAT ROAST BEEF
CURTAINS ARE.
OH MY GOD!
I NEED THAT SURGERY!
Nichole: WOMEN ARE MUCH
MORE AWARE OF WHAT
THEIR VAGINAS LOOK
LIKE BECAUSE OF PORN.
I THINK THAT THE VERY
FIRST LABIA REDUCTION
THAT WAS POPULAR WAS
PROBABLY THE PORN STAR
BY THE NAME OF HOUSTON.
IN FACT SHE MADE
A HUGE DEAL OUT OF IT.
SHE WAS A VERY BIG
PORN STAR AND SHE AUCTIONED
HER TRIMMED LABIA OFF ON EBAY
OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT,
SOME AUCTION WEBSITE.
SO I WILL CALL YOU
TOMORROW AS SOON AS
I HEAR FROM HER ABOUT
THE HBO TAPES.
[INDISTINCT TALKING]
WOULD YOU PREFER
THAT WEEKEND
AND WE'LL JUST SAY
YES AND DO IT NOW?
[Phone beeps]
HI HUN, IT'S NAKITA.
I JUST WANTED TO TOUCH
BASE WITH YOU TODAY.
GIVE ME A CALL BACK, I'M
IN THE OFFICE. THANKS.
MY FIRST MAGAZINE
I EVER SAW WAS UNDER
MY DAD'S MATTRESS,
AND BACK THEN, I MEAN,
THERE WAS NO PENETRATION.
NO PENETRATION IN
A NUDIE MAGAZINE?
NO.
WOW.
THE FIRST UH, THE FIRST
PENETRATION EVER
WAS IN A PENTHOUSE ISSUE
WHEN I WAS WORKING IN
LAUDERDALE, IN '97, '98.
NOWADAYS, UH, THE LIMITS
ARE PUSHED A LOT FURTHER.
THERE'S, UH, I DON'T
KNOW HOW MUCH I CAN SAY,
BUT ANAL, DOUBLE ANAL,
DOUBLE PENETRATION,
CREAM PIES.
I MEAN THERE'S THINGS
THAT PEOPLE ARE DOING
IN MOVIES NOW
THAT THEY WOULDN'T
HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT
10, 15 YEARS AGO.
I WOULD ASSUME A LOT,
KIDS ARE HAVING SEX
A LOT YOUNGER NOW.
IT'S IN THEIR
FACE A LOT MORE.
IT'S JUST MORE ACCESSIBLE,
SHOWING THEM WHAT TO DO AND--
AND SHOWING THEM MORE
THAT IT'S OKAY
NOW BECAUSE IT
IS SO MAINSTREAM.
DO YOU THINK THAT
IF, WHEN WE HAVE--
IF WE HAVE A SON
AND HE BECOMES
12 YEARS OLD...
WHEN WE HAVE A SON
AND HE TURNS 12, WHAT?
WHEN WE HAVE A SON
AND HE TURNS 12,
DO YOU THINK THAT
THIS MUCH PORN AND SEX
BEING IN YOUR FACE
AT THAT AGE IS HEALTHY?
I DON'T WANT
TO ANSWER THAT.
I DON'T LIKE
THAT QUESTION.
WHEN I SAW PORN FOR
THE FIRST TIME?
I DON'T KNOW.
I WAS PROBABLY IN
LIKE MIDDLE SCHOOL.
YEAH LIKE 12 OR 13.
LIKE MY FIRST
ENCOUNTER SEEING SEX
WAS LIKE THE MOST DIRTIEST,
LIKE CRAZY SHIT EVER.
SO IT PROBABLY PERVERTED
MY MIND A LITTLE.
LIKE, I MEAN I'M
A GOOD GUY AT HEART,
BUT I DO LIKE TO
LOOK FOR, YOU KNOW,
CERTAIN FEATURES OF
A GIRL TO BE SOMEWHAT
SIMILAR TO SOMETIMES
PORN STARS.
EVERYBODY WANTS TO
GET THAT BIG BOOB,
BIG ASS, PORN STAR
THAT EVERYBODY SEES,
YOU KNOW LIKE...
WHEN YOU'RE DRUNK
YOU DON'T EVEN CARE ABOUT IT,
YOU PICTURE THAT IN YOUR MIND.
IT CHANGES THE WAY THAT
PEOPLE HAVE SEX, IT DOES.
3 GUYS HAVING SEX WITH
YOU AT THE SAME TIME,
LIKE, HOW DO YOU DO THAT?
UH, I DON'T KNOW,
SOME OF IT IS JUST
REALLY...DEGRADING.
I THINK ABOUT IT TOO,
IF I HAD NEVER LIKE,
LOOKED AT ANY OF THAT,
I WONDER IF ANYTHING
WOULD HAVE CHANGED
WHO I AM RIGHT NOW.
BIBI, YOU WANNA GO
TO THE...PARK?
DO YOU WANNA GO TO THE PARK?
[BARKING]
OKAY.
PORN IS FOR ADULTS.
IT'S NOT MADE FOR TEENAGERS
TO LEARN ABOUT SEX.
A LOT OF THE STUFF
THAT GUYS DO ON CAMERA
IN PORN IS FOR THE CAMERA,
BECAUSE IT LOOKS
GOOD VISUALLY,
AND DOESN'T NECESSARILY
FEEL GOOD.
FOR HIM OR THE GIRL.
A LOT OF THE SPITTING
AND THE SQUIRTING
AND THE CUM GUZZLING
AND SNOWBALLING
AND THE THIS AND
THE THAT, I MEAN,
IT MIGHT GET
SOME GIRLS OFF,
BUT FOR THE MOST
PART THEY'RE DOING
THAT FOR PAY.
WHAT'S SNOWBALLING?
[LAUGHS]
SORRY.
I'M PIMPIN'.
THREE, TWO, ONE.
OW!
I WOULD NEVER EVEN THINK
OF WEARING REAL FUR.
SMELLS LIKE MY GRANDMA.
MINE, TOO.
WHERE ARE YOU GOING?
I FEEL LIKE ONE OF THOSE
REBELLIOUS PEOPLE.
DANIELLE, WE ALSO
HAVE TO WALK THE DOG!
[SINGING INDISTINCTLY]
IF I HAD TO SAY
HOW MANY GUYS
HAD PORN APPS
ON THEIR PHONE,
I WOULD GUESS
8 OUT OF 10.
BUT I'D GUESS FOR GIRLS
IT'D BE LIKE 5 OUT OF 10.
IS THAT COOL TO WATCH
PEOPLE, LIKE, HAVE SEX?
FURIOUSLY?
I LOOKED ON THE
SCREEN AND IT WAS
THIS ONE BLACK GUY,
ONE HISPANIC GUY AND
THIS ONE VERY BLONDE WOMAN.
AND UM, THEY WERE
OUT ON A LAWN
AND THEY WERE JUST LIKE,
FEROCIOUSLY...
BANGING EACH OTHER.
IT WAS VERY...MMM.
I MEAN I CAME HOME, I WAS
BAWLING MY EYES OUT.
I'LL NEVER FORGET IT.
I GUESS I'M THE KIND
OF PERSON THAT
DOESN'T HAVE THE GUTS
AND DOESN'T REALLY CARE
ENOUGH TO LOOK AT
PORN AND STUFF.
I KNOW WHAT SEX IS,
I DON'T NEED TO SEE IT
IN FRONT OF ME PLAYED OUT.
I DON'T REALLY CARE.
WANNA SPEND IT
ALL ON YOU BABY
MY ROOM IS THE G-SPOT,
CALL ME MR. FLINTSTONE
I CAN MAKE YOUR BED ROCK
I CAN MAKE
YOUR BED ROCK GIRL
I CAN MAKE YOUR BED ROCK
I CAN MAKE YOUR BED ROCK
I NEVER HAD
MORE SEX IN MY LIFE
THAN I DID WHEN I FIRST
MET MY HUSBAND. NEVER.
IT WAS CONSTANT, NONSTOP
FRICKIN' NAKITA KASH SEX.
UM, I HAD TO PROVE MYSELF.
HE FELT THAT HE
HAD TO PROVE HIMSELF
BECAUSE I WAS A PORN STAR.
WHICH IN GENERAL, THAT'S,
THAT'S WHAT PORN SEX IS,
IT'S SPORT FUCKING.
IT'S YOU KNOW,
WHAT KIND OF POSITIONS
CAN I GET MYSELF IN,
AND HOW HARD AND FAST
CAN I GO, AND HOW LOUD
AND CRAZY CAN I GO.
IT'S DEFINITELY NOT
MAKING LOVE. THERE'S
A HUGE DIFFERENCE.
MAKING LOVE IS
THE KIND OF SEX
THAT YOU WANNA
CRY AFTERWARDS,
JUST BECAUSE IT'S SO
BEAUTIFUL, AND SO EMOTIONAL,
AND SO POWERFUL.
THAT'S LOVE SEX.
AW, A FRENCH BULLDOG.
I LOVE FRENCHIES.
ALRIGHT, I GUESS WE HAVE
TO GO THE OTHER WAY.
ALRIGHT MUNCHKIN,
YOU READY TO DO THIS?
IT WON'T LAST LONG.
BUT WE'RE GONNA TRY.
C'MON!
THE FIRST FEW TIMES
DAVE AND I MADE LOVE
WAS A MILLION AND
A HALF TIMES MORE POWERFUL
THAN ANY SPORT
FUCKING COULD EVER BE.
C'MON, LETS GO TO THE BEACH!
DON'T GET ME WRONG,
WE STILL HAVE OUR
SPORT FUCKING SESSIONS.
BUT IN GENERAL LATELY SEX
HAS BEEN GET-TO-THE-POINT.
PURPOSEFUL SEX IN TERMS
OF LET'S MAKE A BABY.
DAVE IS 40, I'M 33,
HE'S IN A HURRY, AND
I'M IN A HURRY FOR HIM.
DON'T KNOW, LOOKS
A LITTLE WEIRD.
YEAH.
OKAY, SO...SO TO SHOW
YOU WHAT PEOPLE
USUALLY WEAR TO
THIS LADY GAGA, THIS IS.
HOLY CRAP!
YEAH, AND LADY GAGA
TALKED TO HER.
SHE SAID, "OH LOOK HOW CUTE
WITH THE CAUTION
TAPE!" SO, YEAH.
WE GOTTA DRESS UP!
JUST DANCE BUT HE...
IS THIS SLUTTY?
THAT'S GOOD,
THAT'S A GOOD LENGTH.
IT'S SHORT LIKE
IN A COOL WAY, NOT
LIKE A SLUTTY WAY.
FRENCH KISSED
ON A SUBWAY TRAIN
HE TORE MY CLOTHES
RIGHT OFF
HE ATE MY HEART AND
THEN HE ATE MY BRAIN
HE'S A MONSTER
ARE YOU WEARING HEELS?
FUCKING A,
I CAN'T WEAR THESE.
OH, OKAY.
FIRST OF ALL,
THEY LOOK RETARDED
WITH THESE TIGHTS.
AND SECOND OF ALL,
THEY'D BE TOTALLY
UNCOMFORTABLE.
LIKE, I'M ALREADY
BORDERING ON
INAPPROPRIATE, SO...
THIS SHIRT, NO THIS SKIRT,
ACTUALLY MAKES ME
LOOK LIKE I HAVE A BUTT!
WHICH IS GOOD!
BECAUSE I HAVE NONE.
Ken:
YEAH, SO WE'RE
BASICALLY HERE .
UM,
I'M KIND OF NERVOUS.
I'M SO FRICKIN' EXCITED!
WOULD YOU RATHER BE
OVERDRESSED OR UNDERDRESSED?
OVER.
WINNIFRED.
YES?
WHEN YOU GET INSIDE
THE CONCERT, GO TO
YOUR SEAT.
WHEN YOU FIND YOUR SEAT,
CALL ME. ALRIGHT?
YOU LISTENING?
THIS IS GONNA BE...
OH MY GOD, LOOK AT EVERYONE.
LOOK AT EVERYONE!
AND YOU THINK THAT
WE'RE UNDERDRESSED!
A LOT OF THE FEMINIST
LITERATURE AND STUFF
I READ WHEN I WAS YOUNGER,
IF I READ IT FOR
THE FIRST TIME, OR
JUST REVISITING IT
NOW THAT I HAVE
A 13-YEAR-OLD IN
TODAY'S CULTURE,
IT'S LIKE A WHOLE
'NOTHER LAYER.
AND I LIKE LADY GAGA.
BUT I AM A LITTLE TORN
THAT SHE'S JUST
SORT OF DISGUISING
THE SORT OF TYPICAL
SEXUALIZATION,
OBJECTIFICATION OF WOMEN
IN SOMETHING MORE
COMPLICATED OR DEEP.
CAUSE YOU WERE
BORN THIS WAY BABY
BUT SHE REFLECTS
THE CULTURE OF TODAY,
AND IT'S A HIGHLY
SEXUALIZED ONE.
YOU KNOW THAT I WANT YOU
CAUSE I'M
A FREE BITCH BABY!
BUT AT LEAST SHE OWNS IT.
SHE'S IN CONTROL OF IT.
WANT YOUR BAD ROMANCE!
I GOT GIRLS ON MY RIGHT,
I GOT GIRLS ON MY LEFT
AS OPPOSED TO THE
OTHER IMAGES AND MESSAGES
WHERE GIRLS ARE JUST OBJECTS.
I JUST WANT TO
UNBUTTON YOUR BLOUSE
AND LET THE GIRLS OUT
I WANNA FUCK YOU
PORN HAS CHANGED TO
WOMEN BEING OBJECTS.
NOW THAT IT'S MORE ACCEPTABLE,
WOMEN IN THE WORLD I BELIEVE
ARE SEEING THAT THAT'S THEIR
ROLE IN SEX.
SOME GUY WAS LIKE
"YEAH FLASH THE CAMERA!"
AND EVERYONE'S CHANTING,
"DO IT, DO IT!"
AND PEOPLE ARE PUSHING ME
FORWARD TOWARDS THE CAMERA,
THE CAMERA'S SHINING
ON ME AND I'M LIKE,
"I DON'T WANT TO DO THAT."
I THINK THE GIRLS
GONE WILD PHENOMENON
IS EXTREMELY DEGRADING.
YOU KNOW, THERE'S A DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN TAKING CHARGE
OF YOUR SEXUALITY AND SAYING
"I AM GOING TO SHOW YOU
SOMETHING,"
INSTEAD OF HIM SAYING, "LET ME
SEE, LET ME SEE, LET ME SEE."
[MC TALKING INDISTINCTLY]
I WAS IN CHARGE
OF MY SEXUALITY
BY INVITING MY
ENTIRE HIGH SCHOOL
TO COME WATCH ME DO
AN AMATEUR CONTEST.
MY VERY FIRST TIME
STRIPPING ON STAGE
I WAS NAKED IN FRONT OF
MY ENTIRE HIGH SCHOOL.
NEEDLESS TO SAY, I DID
WIN THE CONTEST.
BUT I'VE ALWAYS,
IN DANCING, IN PORN,
IN EVERYTHING THAT I'VE DONE,
CONTROL IS MY MAIN THING.
HIS HANDS!
I DON'T MIND DOING
A LAP DANCE FOR YOU,
YOU KEEP YOUR HANDS
WHERE I TELL YOU TO
KEEP YOUR HANDS.
YOU DON'T MOVE.
I TURN YOU ON.
PERIOD. MY WAY.
THAT'S JUST HOW IT WORKS.
THE WHOLE USING YOUR SEXUALITY
AS POWER AND EMBRACING IT,
AND FEELING LIKE IF I WANNA
DRESS IN A PARTICULAR WAY
I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO BE JUDGED
AND I'M DOWN WITH
THAT, I DO IT MYSELF.
I WEAR FISHNETS IN CLOSING
ARGUMENTS, MANY-A-TIMES.
BUT IT'S SORT OF SOMETHING
THAT HAS TO DEVELOP
AFTER YOU UNDERSTAND
WHAT IT REALLY MEANS
TO ACCOMPLISH
SOMETHING IN WAYS
THAT ARE CONTRIBUTING
TO SOCIETY.
CHANGING YOUR LIFE AND
CHANGING OTHER PEOPLE'S LIVES.
MOMMY! MOMMY!
CAN YOU COME HERE?
I HAVE TO ASK YOU
A QUESTION.
SO WHAT ROLE DO YOU
HAVE IN THE MOCK TRIAL?
WE'RE GONNA BE LAWYERS.
I TOLD THEM EVEN
THOUGH THE PROSECUTOR
CASE IS GONNA BE
SO MUCH EASIER,
BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS
WIN EVERY YEAR,
I WAS LIKE "MY MOM'S
GOING TO BE SO PISSED
"IF I END UP BEING
A PROSECUTOR
"SO I SUGGEST YOU
SAVE YOURSELF
AND MAKE ME
A DEFENSE ATTORNEY."
I DON'T EVEN KNOW
THE ISSUE, MAYBE
I WOULD SAY,
LET'S SEE,
THIS IS THE ISSUE...
IT'S ABOUT FINDING
THE BALANCE, AND IT'S HARD.
I MEAN IT'S HARD
TO FIND IT AT 40,
LET ALONE AT 13.
Winnifred:
"A SCANNER ERROR HAS OCCURRED,
TURN POWER OFF
AND TURN ON AGAIN."
WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
PHOTOCOPYING MY BUTT,
LIKE BRITNEY SPEARS.
DADDY-O, YOU GOT
THE SWAGGER OF A CHAMPION
TOO BAD FOR YOU
YOU JUST CAN'T FIND
THE RIGHT COMPANION
C'MON. WHOA.
I GUESS WHEN
YOU HAVE ONE TOO...
DAD, CAN I TALK TO
YOU PLEASE? NO! NO! DAD!
IT'S OKAY.
WHAT IF, WHAT IF,
DAD, CAN I GO TO
SCHOOL AGAIN EARLY?
THAT FELT GOOD.
I FELT ACCOMPLISHED.
I LIKE THAT METHODOLOGY.
BECAUSE I FEEL ACCOMPLISHED
TOO, YOU KNOW WHY?
IT ACTUALLY FORCES ME
TO GET UP, TOO. IT'S GOOD.
AND YOU GET
A FREE CAB RIDE.
OH, MY GOD. DAD.
I'VE HAD
LIKE 6 CAB DRIVERS
AND LIKE 3 OF THEM
HAVE NOT MADE
ME PAY, OKAY?
SWEAR TO GOD. HE
DIDN'T MAKE ME PAY!
ACTUALLY HE DIDN'T
MAKE ME GIVE HIM A TIP.
IS IT LIKE "OH,
YOU'RE A NICE GIRL,
I'M SORRY YOU HAVE TO GO BY
YOURSELF TO SCHOOL".
NO, I JUST BLOW THEM.
EXCUSE ME?
I'M KIDDING, I'M KIDDING.
I'M KIDDING, I DON'T
EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS!
THAT'S NOT EVEN FUNNY.
GET OFF OF ME.
[INDISTINCT].
DAD! WHAT?
THAT'S INAPPROPRIATE.
HOLY SHIT!
WHAT THE F IS THAT?
OH MY GOD, IT'S BLOOD,
I HAD MY PERIOD!
[MAKING PHONE NOISES]
"MOM, CALL ME BACK,
I NEED TO TALK TO YOU.
IT'S AN EMERGENCY. DAD,
I NEED A MINUTE!"
(HEAVY BREATHING)
STUFFING TOILET PAPER
IN UNDERWEAR.
"OKAY, I'M COMING!"
AND SCENE.
ARE YOU WEARING MY BRA?
THIS IS NOT YOUR BRA.
THE BIO-FIT.
THIS IS MY BRA.
LET ME SEE THIS.
OH, IT'S YOURS.
[RINGING]
WHO IS IT?
CAN YOU LEAVE?
CAN YOU PLEASE LEAVE?
I'M VIDEO CHATTING
WITH SOMEONE! GO!
HE CANCELLED--HE CANCELLED
THE INVITATION!
GOD I HATE YOU.
WHY ARE YOU HIDING
STUFF FROM ME?
BECAUSE YOU'RE
SO WEIRD, MOM!
[LAUGHTER AND
INDISTINCT TALKING]
GO AWAY! OKAY, OKAY,
ACCEPT, ACCEPT.
HI. WHAT?
Boy: MY SISTER JUST
CAME TO MY COMPUTER
AND LIKE, LOOKED
THROUGH ALL MY STUFF.
THAT'S WEIRD.
[EXHALES]
ALRIGHT, I HAVE TO
GO SHOWER, BUT I'LL
TALK TO YOU LATER.
ALRIGHT, BYE.
BYE.
MY GOD! THAT WAS
LIKE THE MOST
AWKWARD THING EVER!
I NEED TO HOOKUP
WITH SOMEBODY.
I DON'T WANT TO DATE THEM,
I JUST WANT TO STICK
MY TONGUE IN THEIR MOUTH.
THAT WAS GRAPHIC, SORRY.
IT HAPPENS,
IT HAPPENS OVERNIGHT.
THE INTERESTS
COMPLETELY CHANGE.
THEY ISOLATE
THEMSELVES MORE FROM YOU.
I DON'T KNOW, IT'S
AGE AND ALL OF A SUDDEN
BEING COGNIZANT OF
THE OPPOSITE SEX.
SO, LET'S SAY, LIKE,
I'M TALKING TO
A REALLY HOT GUY,
AND I KNOW I'M GOING
TO GET WITH HIM,
AND I KNOW HE'S
STALKING ME ON FACEBOOK.
I'D PROBABLY DO THIS ONE.
NO DOUBT ABOUT IT.
IT'S LIKE, SEDUCTIVE.
SO BASICALLY, LIKE, THERE
WAS THIS REALLY HOT GUY
THAT WE WERE LIKE HOOKING UP.
AND LIKE, I SNUCK OUT
TO SEE HIM AND LIKE,
I LIKE, COULDN'T REALLY,
LIKE, SEE HIM THAT MUCH.
AND LIKE, I REALLY WANTED
TO BE LIKE, CLOSE TO HIM,
SO I JUST LIKE SENT
HIM, LIKE, A PHOTO.
AND THEN HE LIKE,
PUT IT ON FACEBOOK
AND I GUESS A COUPLE
PEOPLE SAW, LIKE, MY BRA.
BOOBS LIKE OUT--NOT LIKE
OUT, BUT THERE WAS LIKE,
A BRA, AND IT WAS
LIKE A SEXY BRA.
AND THEN I WAS LIKE OR
SOMETHING. I FORGET.
BUT IT WAS JUST LIKE, I FELT
KIND OF DIRTY AFTERWARDS
BECAUSE I JUST FELT LIKE
MISCONCEIVED
FOR 2 MINUTES ON HIS WALL.
EVERY GIRL WANTS
TO FEEL, LIKE, SEXY.
AND I FEEL LIKE A GUY
TELLING YOU THAT, LIKE,
JUST MAKES YOUR DAY, LIKE,
MAKES YOU FEEL REALLY GOOD.
LIKE MEGAN FOX, EVERY
GIRL WANTS TO BE HER.
VAGINA, CLITORIS,
UTERUS AND MORE,
BY SCARLETEEN, SEX ED.
FOR THE REAL WORLD.
RAWR!
YOU KNOW PEOPLE ARE
GETTING PLASTIC SURGERY
ON THEIR VAGINAS?
WAIT, ACTUALLY?
YEAH, WOMEN THINK
THAT THEIR VAGINAS
ARE TOO DROOPY AND STUFF.
WHAT THE FUCK,
I DON'T NEED TO SEE
THE CLITORAL...
GO TO "LABIAPLASTY."
THIS IS THE SURGERY.
BEFORE AND AFTER!
BEFORE AND AFTER PHOTOS,
DR. BENSON IN TEXAS.
OH, SHE DEFINITELY
NEEDED SOME LABIA SURGERY!
SO THE DOCTOR IS
GOING TO CALL YOU
AND LET YOU KNOW
WHAT TIME YOU'RE
SCHEDULED FOR TOMORROW?
YES.
I HOPE HE CALLS
YOU TONIGHT.
I GUESS I'M KIND OF
IN THE DARK, MOM.
IT WAS NOT
SOMETHING THAT
MY MOM AND I
HAD EVER DISCUSSED.
AND THEN SO
I WAS LIKE, WOW,
KIDS ARE REALLY
MORE UNINHIBITED NOWADAYS.
AND I GUESS I DIDN'T
TAKE IT SERIOUSLY
BECAUSE OF THE EXPENSE.
BUT SHE DIDN'T LET UP,
SHE CONTINUED
FOR LIKE 2 YEARS!
I FEEL ALREADY, JUST
KNOWING THAT I'M GETTING IT,
I ALREADY FEEL HAPPIER,
AND LIKE,
MORE MOTIVATED TO DO
THE THINGS THAT I
WANT TO ACCOMPLISH.
I FEEL MORE OUTGOING AND
JUST ALL AROUND HAPPIER.
GOOD!
SHE'S AN ADULT NOW,
AND IF THIS IS SOMETHING
THAT SHE FEELS WILL
ENHANCE HER LIFE,
IMPROVE HER LIFE,
I WANT HER TO BE HAPPY.
DON'T CRY.
WHY ARE YOU CRYING?
I DON'T KNOW.
SHE WAS MY LITTLE BUDDY.
SHE WOULD GO WITH ME
ANYWHERE AND EVERYWHERE.
SHE'D PLAY WITH
HER BARBIES
AND HER BABIES
AND STUFF LIKE THAT.
WE WERE VERY, I THOUGHT,
VERY, VERY CLOSE.
THEN YOU GOT
INTO MIDDLE SCHOOL.
(LAUGHING)
I DON'T LIKE THE IDEA
OF GROWING UP.
I GET NOSTALGIC,
THEN I START LOOKING THROUGH
PICTURES OF MYSELF,
WHEN MY PARENTS
USED TO LOVE ME.
AND THEN I CRY
BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE
I'M NOT THE WAY I USED TO BE
AND I'M NOT, LIKE,
INTERESTING ANYMORE.
CAN I PLEASE GO WITH
MY FRIENDS ON FRIDAY?
YOU'RE NOT GOING TO
MISS GYMNASTICS SO YOU
CAN GO TO A MOVIE.
WAIT, WHY? DO YOU KNOW HOW
HORRIBLE IT IS FOR ME
TO DO GYMNASTICS?
YOU KNOW I HATE GYMNASTICS?
OKAY, QUIT.
WE DO BATTLE ABOUT NEXT YEAR,
WHETHER SHE'S GOING
TO CONTINUE WITH IT.
AND I'VE HAD A LITTLE
PEEK INTO WHAT SHE DOES
WHEN SHE HAS MORE
TIME ON HER HANDS.
AND IT'S, IT'S NOT PRETTY.
IT SCARES THE BEJESUS
OUT OF ME, ACTUALLY.
LIKE, MY MOM PUTS
SO MUCH PRESSURE ON ME
TO LIKE, WRITE
AND WRITE POETRY.
AND I LIKE DOING THAT STUFF,
BUT I WISH I LIKED IT MORE.
I DON'T KNOW,
I JUST WANT HER TO
BE LIKE, PROUD OF ME.
I MEAN, THERE'S STUFF
THAT I KNOW CORRUPTS ME.
THAT DOESN'T MEAN
I DON'T WANT TO HAVE IT.
LIKE FACEBOOK.
I MEAN, FACEBOOK IS
LITERALLY LIKE 30% MY LIFE.
AND IT SHOULDN'T BE.
THERE'S A PICTURE OF ME
IN MY BRA ON FACEBOOK.
IT'S STILL UP THERE.
IT'S ON OLIVIA'S PAGE -- LIV.
I'M NOT GONNA DO IT
AGAIN, I PROMISE YOU!
I'VE NEVER--
NOPE. NO.
I'VE HEARD THIS BEFORE.
NO YOU HAVEN'T!
OH, YEAH, I HAVE.
I, I, I MEAN IT!
I MEAN IT, PLEASE.
YOU'RE NOT GETTING
FACEBOOK BACK RIGHT NOW. NO.
CAN I HAVE FACEBOOK BACK?
Ken on phone: UM, NO.
IF YOU SAW YOUR KID
SHNARFFING DOWN A BAG
OF POTATO CHIPS,
YOU'D SAY "HEY,
NO MORE POTATO CHIPS!"
FACEBOOK'S NO
DIFFERENT REALLY,
BUT IT'S JUST HARDER, IT'S
HARDER TO LEGISLATE.
BECAUSE THEY HAVE COMPUTERS,
THEY HAVE PHONES,
AND THEY CAN GET ON
IT WITHOUT YOU KNOWING.
TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE
ALL THE BITCHES LOVE ME
Woman: WHOO!
ALL MY BITCHES LOVE ME,
ALL--ALL MY BITCHES LOVE ME
ALL MY BITCHES LOVE ME,
YOU FUCKING WITH MY DOUGIE?
THE WAY I SEE SOME
OF YOUR FRIENDS
ENCOURAGE MYRTLE,
TO ME THAT IS ON
THE BORDER OF
EXPLOITATION.
YOU MADE ME
DEACTIVATE MY FACEBOOK.
BECAUSE OF THAT?
WHAT ELSE?
GUESS WHAT I GET
TO DO NOW ALL DAY?
GYMNASTICS.
YOU KNOW, YOU SHOULD
TAKE THAT AWAY, TOO.
IT'S LIKE HORRIBLE,
FACEBOOK IS A BEAUTIFUL PLACE
AND I CAN'T HAVE IT!
LOST IN THE WORLD,
FETAL AND CURLED,
AND NO WAY OUT.
LIGHTS OUT. COLD.
OH MY GOD, THIS
IS LIKE, HORRIBLE.
I NEED SOCIAL NETWORKING!
WHEN I FIRST STARTED
TELLING MY STUDENTS
WHO HAVE KIDS,
YOU KNOW, THE WHOLE
PLAN OF KIDS
AND IT'LL HAPPEN
WHEN IT HAPPENS,
ALL OF MY STUDENTS,
FOR SOME REASON
EVERY SINGLE ONE OF
THEM HAS TOLD ME
TO DO ACUPUNCTURE.
THERE WAS ONE AROUND
HERE THAT I REALLY FELT.
AT FIRST, AND THEN--
I AM SCARED THAT I
CAN'T HAVE A BABY.
I TRIED FOR MANY YEARS.
I'VE HAD A MISCARRIAGE.
ALRIGHT, THAT'S IT.
I FEEL LIKE IT'S
THE NEXT LEVEL
OF MY RELATIONSHIP
WITH MY HUSBAND.
AND I AM SCARED THAT
IF WE CAN'T REACH
THAT NEXT LEVEL,
WHERE OUR RELATIONSHIP
IS GONNA GO.
AW MAN.
IT SAYS, UM,
"I FULLY UNDERSTAND
THAT EVEN THOUGH
THE ANESTHESIOLOGIST
WILL SPEND ALL OF
HIS OR HER TIME
DURING THE SURGICAL
PROCEDURE ENSURING
MY SAFETY,
ANESTHESIA DOES BARE
SOME RISK OF A POSSIBLE,
POSSIBILITY OF
EITHER INJURY,
ALLERGIC REACTIONS
OR RARELY DEATH.
I GUESS THEY'RE COVERING
ALL THEIR BASES.
THIS REMINDS ME OF
WHEN I WENT WITH HEATHER
FOR HER TO GET
HER BREAST IMPLANTS.
DID YOU GO WITH HER?
MMM-HMM.
THAT WAS A GOOD FRIEND.
DID SHE HAVE TO SIGN
STUFF LIKE THAT TOO?
THESE ARE COOL SHOES.
ARE THOSE LITTLE SHELLS?
JUST A LITTLE DESIGN.
ARE YOU CRYING AGAIN?
YEAH, I'M JUST, I'M JUST--
I SHOULD BE
THE ONE CRYING.
I'M JUST NERVOUS FOR YOU.
DON'T CRY, YOU'RE GOING
TO MAKE ME NERVOUS!
READY, CAROL?
[MONITORS BEEPING]
THERE IS
A PERFECT-SIZED PIECE,
JUST LIKE IN HER PICTURE.
I HAVE A LOT OF YOUNG GIRLS
THAT'LL CONTACT ME
THAT'LL SAY "I HATE 'EM, I'M
GOING TO CUT THEM OFF!"
AND I SAY "MAKE SURE
YOU'RE NEAR A HOSPITAL,
BECAUSE THEY
CAN REALLY BLEED."
(GROANING AND CRYING)
THIS IS WHAT IT
FEELS LIKE WHEN
YOU HAVE A KID?
PROBABLY NOT.
WORSE?
NO.
NO?
NO. I DIDN'T HAVE
ANY PROBLEMS AT ALL.
WANT ME TO SIT THERE NOW?
YEAH, GO.
THAT LITTLE GIRL IS
SO FRIGGIN' ADORABLE.
Dave: NO OFFENSE TO HER,
BUT WE DIDN'T MARRY
EACH OTHER JUST
TO BE TOGETHER.
NO. IT WAS TO BUILD
AND DEVELOP A FAMILY.
SO WE GOTTA GET ON THAT.
THAT WAS A STIPULATION
OF GETTING MARRIED--
DO YOU WANT KIDS?
IF I HAD SAID NO...
WE WOULDN'T BE MARRIED.
WE WOULDN'T BE TOGETHER.
IT'S PART OF THE PACKAGE.
YEP.
I DON'T LIKE CLICHES.
I CAN'T STAND CLICHES,
BUT WHEN IT'S MEANT
TO BE, IT'LL HAPPEN.
I HAVE 458 FRIENDS.
YOU HAVE LIKE 12.
OPEN UP.
STOP.
IF I DRANK ALL OF THIS,
WOULD I DIE?
NO, WINNIFRED.
STOP IT.
I'M JUST ASKING.
THAT'S LIKE 2 SHOTS.
YES, YOU WILL DIE,
BECAUSE I WILL KILL YOU.
THAT WAS GOOD!
YOU LIKE THAT?
(LAUGHING) THAT WAS GOOD.
WINNIFRED.
YEAH?
THERE ARE SO MANY COOL
THINGS IN YOUR HOUSE.
I WANNA GO DO
A PHOTO SHOOT.
CAN WE PLEASE DO
A PHOTO SHOOT RIGHT NOW?
C'MON LIV, PHOTO SHOOT!
AH! I LOVE YOU.
THAT IS SO PRETTY,
OH MY GOD.
WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
I LOVE YOU, TOO.
I SAID I DIDN'T HAVE
ANY ISSUES WITH
THE PICTURES YOU
ENDED UP POSTING,
I'M PRETTY CERTAIN--
YOU DID BEFORE
I POSTED THEM.
I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT
WAS GETTING POSTED!
HUH?
BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T
TRUST ME!
YOU WERE DOING A PHOTO
SHOOT WITH OLIVIA.
I'VE SEEN THAT
GIRL'S PHOTOS.
OKAY, BUT THAT'S NOT ME!
YOU DON'T TRUST ME
TO LIKE, MONITOR MYSELF?
LISTEN, WHEN YOU'RE
A PARENT,
YOU THINK YOU
KNOW YOUR KIDS,
BUT EVENTUALLY YOU GET
TO THE AGE WHERE
YOU'RE KIND OF SHUT OUT
OF THEIR PRIVATE LIVES
TO SOME DEGREE, AND
THEY HAVE SOME PRIVACY.
AND YOU KNOW WHAT?
WE TAKE A LEAP OF FAITH
THAT YOU'RE MAKING
GOOD DECISIONS,
BUT WE DON'T KNOW
WITH 100% CERTAINTY--
JUST BECAUSE I'M
HANGING OUT WITH OLIVIA,
DOESN'T MEAN THAT
SHE HAS ANY CONTROL
OVER ME.
WELL, I KNOW THAT.
AND I DO TRUST YOU.
BUT YOU TOTALLY DIDN'T
BECAUSE YOU SAID THAT.
YOU TEXTED DAD THIS
LONG-ASS THING ABOUT
HOW I'M LIKE, YOU
DIDN'T WANT TO SEE
ANY SLUTTY PHOTOS...
YOUR FACEBOOK PROFILE
IS NOT NECESSARILY
WHO YOU ARE.
IT'S MORE LIKE WHO
YOU WANT TO BE.
WE MAKE OURSELVES SEEM
LIKE WE'RE DOWN TO FUCK.
WE MAKE OURSELVES SEEM
LIKE WE'RE UP FOR ANYTHING.
AND LIKE, IN A WAY,
ALL OF THIS INTERNET
STUFF KIND OF TRAPS YOU.
YOU'VE STARTED AN ALTER EGO
THAT HAS TO BE MAINTAINED,
AND HAS TO BE REAL IN A WAY.
SO YEAH, IT DOES KIND OF
SHAPE HOW YOU END UP,
AND HOW YOU ACTUALLY
ARE IN REAL LIFE.
YAY!
YAY.
TAKE A LITTLE BREAK?
TAKE A BREAK?
OKAY.
Nichole:
I THINK DAVE THOUGHT
FOR AWHILE THAT HE
WAS BEING PUNISHED
FOR ALL THE BAD THINGS
THAT HE DID IN HIS LIFE.
I KNEW HE HAD GIVEN UP.
THAT'S WHAT THEY SAY.
IT HAPPENS WHEN YOU
LEAST EXPECT IT.
I WAS LIKE "CRAP,
I DIDN'T GET MY PERIOD."
DAVE WAS LIKE...
WOO HOO, JUST KIDDING.
SO WE WAITED 3 MONTHS.
UNTIL WE WERE OUT OF
THE FIRST TRIMESTER.
3 MONTHS BEFORE
TELLING ANYONE.
LITERALLY, RIGHT AFTER
WE HEARD THE HEART BEAT,
HE WAS ON THE PHONE
WITH HIS MOM.
OH YEAH.
IT WAS GOOD STUFF.
HE CRIED.
SHUT UP.
YOU CRIED.
SHUT UP.
YOU CRIED.
DID NOT.
YOU CRIED.
I LOVE YOU.
I'VE ALWAYS CARED
DEEPLY FOR EVERY
PERSON IN MY FAMILY.
BUT I HAD THAT WALL BUILT UP
SO THAT I COULD KEEP
THEM AT A SAFE DISTANCE
SO THAT I DIDN'T
HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT
THE JUDGMENT OR
THE DISAPPOINTMENT.
WHEN DAVE CAME INTO MY LIFE,
A LOT OF THAT WALL
WAS BROKEN DOWN.
ALRIGHT, YOU GUYS READY
FOR THE COOL STUFF?
WE'RE GONNA GO INTO 3-D.
DUDE.
THAT'S SO COOL!
HERE, WE'LL DO THIS.
AW! BABY ROCCO!
I LOVE THAT NAME.
MY CHILDREN ARE
NOT GOING TO BE
ALLOWED A COMPUTER
IN THEIR OWN ROOM.
IT'S GOING TO BE
IN THE LIVING ROOM
WHERE EVERYONE CAN SEE
WHAT THEY'RE WATCHING.
I CAN'T AS, YOU KNOW,
A FORMER ADULT FILM STAR
TELL MY CHILDREN THAT
SEEING EXTREME PORN
ON THE INTERNET
IS NOT ACCEPTABLE.
JUST THOSE CAN'T BE
YOUR FIRST EXPERIENCES.
YOU HAVE TO TAKE IT
A LITTLE BIT SLOWER THAN THAT.
Woman: ALL RIGHT,
SEE YOU LATER.
Winnifred: I WAS SO GOOD,
I DIDN'T GET IN TROUBLE
LIKE ONE TIME.
UM, YOU CAME HOME
WITH WHAT APPEARS
TO BE A HICKEY
ON YOUR NECK!
WHICH OF THESE SCRAGGILY
LITTLE BOYS IS IT?
AS LONG AS YOU DIDN'T
INHALE WINNIFRED,
IT'S OKAY.
OH MY GOD, YOU'RE SO
FULL OF CRAP.
GLAD TO SEE THERE
WAS ALL TYPES
OF INAPPROPRIATE CONDUCT
GOING ON ON THIS SCHOOL TRIP.
OH TRUST ME,
YOU HAVE NO IDEA.
WAIT.
THANK YOU!
OF COURSE, THERE YOU GO.
YOU'RE THE STAR, OKAY?
THANK YOU!
WHO WAS THAT?
SOME RANDOM GUY.
LOOK AT THE GARDEN,
THERE'S BEAN SPROUTS!
SHE'S NOT INTERESTED
IN BEAN SPROUTS ANYMORE.
NO REALLY, MOM!
I'M INTERESTED.
I'M NOT DRESSED LIKE
A HO BAG, OKAY?
I'M KIDDING. LISTEN
HONEY, IT'S YOUR BODY,
YOU CAN DRESS THE WAY
YOU WANT TO.
THAT SMELLS REALLY GOOD.
CAN I WEAR THAT?
YEAH.
DID YOU NOTICE THAT
I COLORED MY HAIR?
NOW THAT YOU
POINTED IT OUT.
NOBODY HAS NOTICED.
BUT IT'S BLACK NOW.
I'M COMPLETELY HAPPY WITH
THE RESULTS OF THE SURGERY.
I THINK THAT MY SEX
LIFE WILL BE CHANGED
DRAMATICALLY.
I UM...IT HASN'T HAPPENED YET,
BUT I'M ANXIOUS FOR IT,
AND I FEEL EXCITED
TO JUST SHOW OFF MY BODY NOW.
"YOU HAVE CHANGED
MY LIFE FOREVER.
"I WILL BE INDEBTED
TO YOU FOREVER.
"I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW
"HOW THANKFUL I AM
FOR CLIPPING MY WINGS.
"I LOVE MY NEW LIPS.
"ON BEHALF OF WOMEN
I'LL NEVER KNOW,
THANK YOU FOR IMPROVING
THEIR LIVES."
I MEAN, IT SOUNDS LIKE
I'VE CURED CANCER.
"SHE CHECKS
HER FACEBOOK PAGE.
EVA'S PIC IN THE SHORTS
APPEARS ALONG WITH A COMMENT."
ANYBODY CARE TO READ
MATT'S COMMENT?
I'LL READ IT.
OOH, YEAH.
OKAY, OKAY, GOT IT, GOT IT.
"DAYUM, LOOKIN'
HOT AS HELL, SEXY.
NO WONDER OLD DUDE HIT ON
YOUR ASS. SEE YOU TONIGHT?"
SHE ADDS A COMMENT
OF HER OWN.
"THAT'S MY GIRL.
YOU'RE SO FUCKING HOT,
"I'M ABOUT TO PUNCH YOU
IN THE FACE, BITCH.
STOP BEING SO DAMN SEXY.
LOL. LOVE YA."
THAT IS VERY GOOD.
IT'S AMAZING, IT'S
SO SIMPLE AND YET
VERY POWERFUL.
AND IT SHINES
A DIFFERENT LIGHT ON IT,
LIKE HOW YOU WERE
ALL SAYING BEFORE.
WATCHING THIS PLAY OUT,
IT MAKES YOU
REALIZE MAYBE HOW
YOU'RE BETRAYING YOURSELF
SOMETIMES IN YOUR ACTIONS.
DOES THAT MAKE SENSE?
THIS GIRL'S NOT FINDING REAL
VALUE IN WHO SHE IS.
ALRIGHT, EVERYONE'S DONE.
THAT WAS LIKE...
THIS WAS THE BEST WORK
YOU'VE DONE SO FAR.
EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT.
WILL YOU PLEASE
KEEP PRACTICING.
[BARKING]
WHY ARE YOU FREAKING
OUT, BEATRICE?
I WANNA TALK ABOUT
THE WAY YOU DRESS.
WHAT DO YOU WANT TO SAY?
I'M WORRIED ABOUT IT.
WHY DO YOU WEAR SHIRTS
THAT SHOW YOUR BOOBS?
I DON'T WEAR SHIRTS
THAT SHOW MY BOOBS.
WHY DO YOU WEAR
SHIRTS THAT LIKE,
YOU CAN SEE THE SIDE...
THE SIDES OF MY BRA?
YES.
BECAUSE I THINK
I LIKE THE SIDES
OF MY BRA,
AND I LIKE LOOKING AT IT.
SO YOU DO IT FOR
YOURSELF, OR IS IT LIKE--
IT'S NOT LIKE A
SEXY WAY TO DRESS.
THERE'S A DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN DRESSING
LIKE A WHORE AND DRESSING
THE WAY I DRESS.
THE WAY I DRESS,
IT'S MORE STYLE-BASED.
SO YOU'RE NOT DRESSING
BECAUSE YOU WANT BOYS
TO BE ATTRACTED TO YOU
OR THINK THAT YOU'RE,
LIKE, SEXY? THAT'S NOT
WHAT YOU WANT?
BUT YOU UNDERSTAND
THE WAY YOU DRESS...
WELL AT LEAST I DON'T
ACT LIKE A WHORE.
MAYBE YOU SHOULD BE
WORRIED ABOUT THAT
VS. HOW I DRESS.
[DOG BARKING]
OKAY. SEE, THIS IS
NOT THAT BAD.
OF COURSE JUST BECAUSE
YOU DRESS IN A SEXY,
PROVOCATIVE WAY,
IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT
YOU'RE DOING THOSE THINGS.
I GET THAT.
UM, IT'S TRICKY, YOU KNOW?
SO...I DON'T KNOW.
I'M LOOKING AT YOU
WITH A MIXTURE OF STRESS,
ANXIETY, HORROR
AND REALITY CHECK.
YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL THOUGH.
THANK YOU.
SO, YEAH.
Winnifred:
I THINK THIS IS THE SAME
WITH EVERY TEENAGER.
YOU'RE GOING THROUGH SO
MANY CHANGES THAT LIKE,
IT'S SO FREAKING CONFUSING
TO FIGURE OUT
HOW YOU WANT TO
PORTRAY YOURSELF.
AND THERE'S A LOT OF
GIRLS JUST EXPLOITING
THEMSELVES TO BE
AND PUTTING THEMSELVES
OUT THERE TO BE
JUDGED BY GUYS
AND OTHER GIRLS.
BUT, AT A CERTAIN POINT
IF YOU DON'T WANT
TO BECOME A PROP IN
SOME GUY'S LIFE,
YOU HAVE TO FIND
A GOAL AND A PATH.
AND I DO WANT TO
CHANGE PEOPLE'S LIVES.
AND...
AND I'M NOT GOING
TO DO THAT BY BEING SEXY.
I'LL COME PICK YOU UP
IF YOU DON'T HAVE A RIDE.
ALRIGHT?
ALRIGHT.
IS THAT OLIVIA? LIV!
Dave:
THIS IS OUR LITTLE ROCCO.
THIS IS MY PRIDE AND JOY!
HI DADDY!
YOU'RE NOT GOING TO
BE MOMMY'S FAVORITE NO MORE.
- COMMUNICATION HAS NEVER
BEEN FASTER OR MORE EASY.
- ON TV, FACEBOOK HAS...
- IT'S JUST SEX, SEX, SEX,
SEX EVERYWHERE...
- ONLINE PORN IS JUST A FEW
ACCIDENTAL MOUSE TAPS AWAY.
- WHEN YOU'RE IN
FOURTH GRADE IT'S LIKE
YOU DON'T REALLY
UNDERSTAND WHAT'S GOING
ON, BUT YOU LIKE IT.
- KIM KARDASHIAN
SHOT TO FAME
AFTER A SEX TAPE OF
HER WITH HER EX, RAY J,
HIT THE INTERNET.
- THE BAR KEEPS
GETTING HIGHER...
- IT'S ESSENTIALLY
PORNOGRAPHY...
- KIDS THESE DAYS SEEM TO
WANT TO BE THE CELEBRITIES...
- KIDS ARE STARTING EARLIER
THAN EVER BEFORE...
- AND IT LOOKS
LIKE IT'S NORMAL.
- HAVE YOU EVER SEEN
A "BUSH" ON A GIRL?
NO BUSH, NONE.
ONCE, BUT I DIDN'T
EVER TALK TO HER AGAIN.
- THESE SEEMINGLY PERFECT
BODIES ARE EVERYWHERE
- MORE AND MORE WOMEN
GO UNDER THE KNIFE.
- A SHOW OF HANDS,
HOW MANY OF YOU,
WHEN YOU WERE IN HIGH
SCHOOL HAD THE "SEXTING,"
THE NAKED PICTURE?
THE NAKED PICTURE? OH!
- I HAVE TAKEN PICTURES OF
GIRLS WITH THEIR TOPS OFF.
- HOW DO YOU GET
THEM TO DO IT?
ASK 'EM.
- IT'S CONFUSING.
NOBODY KNOWS WHAT EMPOWERED
FEMALE SEXUALITY LOOKS LIKE.
- NOW I CAN SAY I HAVE BEEN
ON GIRLS GONE WILD.
IT'S NOT THAT BAD,
IT'S REALLY NOT.
I MEAN, THEY'RE
PRETTY LEGIT, SO.
YOU KNOW, I WOULDN'T
JUST RANDOMLY SHOW
MY TITS TO SOMEBODY.
OH, OH, OH
I'LL GET HIM HOT,
SHOW HIM WHAT I'VE GOT
P-P-P-POKER FACE,
P-P-POKER FACE
P-P-P-POKER FACE,
P-P-POKER FACE
- WHAT ARE YOUR
FAVORITE SONGS, MYRTLE?
BRITNEY!
BRITNEY WHO?
BRITNEY BITCH
[LAUGHTER]
BRITNEY SPEARS
IT'S BRITNEY SPEARS
NO, BRITNEY BITCH!
- THERE'S A SONG WHERE SHE
GOES "IT'S BRITNEY BITCH".
SO THAT'S WHAT WE
ASSOCIATE WITH THAT.
LET'S HAVE SOME FUN,
THIS BEAT IS SICK
I WANNA TAKE A RIDE
ON YOUR DISCO STICK
- GET UP OFF THE FLOOR!
THAT IS NOT OKAY, MYRTLE!
STOP IT.
JESUS.
- I'M SCARING MOMMY AGAIN.
NO DON'T SCARE ME--
YOU ALREADY SCARED ME.
YOU SCARED ME WITH
THAT PERFORMANCE ON
THE FLOOR THERE.
HOW DID SHE SCARE YOU?
BECAUSE SHE IS--
SEXY!
YEAH, THAT'S RIGHT.
SHE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW
WHAT THAT MEANS.
SEXY.
C'MON., ON YOUR FEET.
IF YOU WANNA DANCE,
THAT'S FINE,
BUT I DON'T WANNA SEE
THAT TYPE OF DANCING, OK?
WE'RE LIKE THE FIRST
GENERATION TO HAVE
WHAT WE HAVE.
SO THERE'S NO ONE BEFORE US
THAT CAN KIND OF GUIDE US.
I MEAN, WE ARE THE PIONEERS.
[HONKING]
HELLO, AND WELCOME TO
WINNIFRED'S WORDS OF WISDOM.
GET READY PEOPLE,
BECAUSE I'M ON A MISSION.
A MISSION TO REVEAL REAL
STORIES ABOUT REAL GIRLS.
IF YOU AIN'T GOT NO MONEY
TAKE YOUR BROKE ASS HOME
G-L-A-M-O-R-O-U-S
G-L-A-M-O...
WHAT WE'RE SAYING IS PEOPLE
KNOW MORE ABOUT PARIS HILTON
AND LINDSAY LOHAN
THAN SUSAN B. ANTHONY
AND RUTH BADER GINSBURG,
AND THAT'S GOTTA CHANGE.
PICTURE IT.
YOU'RE KIND OF DRESSED UP,
YOU'VE HAD SOME PUNCH,
AND NOW IT'S TIME TO BOOGIE.
WOW. NAILED IT.
BUT, BUT REALLY,
WHAT'S NOT TO LOVE?
I MEAN, THAT BEAT,
THAT VOICE, THAT...POETRY?
"SOULJA BOY OFF IN THIS."
(WHISTLE BLOWS)
"WATCH ME CRANK IT,
WATCH ME ROLL,
"WATCH ME LEAN
AND WATCH ME ROCK.
"SUPER-SOAK DAT.
(WHISTLE BLOWS)
SO, I DON'T GET IT.
LIKE, LIKE, WHO'S THE
(WHISTLE BLOWS) HERE?
AM I THE (WHISTLE BLOWS)
NO, BUT I DON'T GET
IT, SERIOUSLY,
WHO'S THE (WHISTLE BLOWS)?
OH, SHE'S THE
(WHISTLE BLOWS).
THIS HAS BEEN WINNIFRED'S
WORDS OF WISDOM.
SEE YA NEXT TIME
AND UNTIL THEN,
PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT
YOU MAKE US DO PEOPLE.
KEEP YOUR EYES OPEN!
[APPLAUSE]
Dr. Stern: WHAT WAS IMPORTANT
TO YOU WHEN YOU STARTED
LOOKING INTO THIS?
Laura: JUST THE BEFORE
AND AFTER PICTURES.
DO THEY TELL YOU HOW
THEY WANT IT TO LOOK?
AND THEN, OR.
CUT IT OFF,
TAKE EVERYTHING OFF.
I WANT TO FEEL
COMFORTABLE IN THE BEDROOM.
RIGHT.
I WANT TO BE ABLE TO MAKE
LOVE WITH THE LIGHTS ON.
MAKE IT PRETTY,
MAKE IT SMALLER.
I WANT NOTHING HANGING.
AND THEN YOU
WONDER HOW SOMEONE,
LIKE THAT, WAITED
TILL SHE WAS 43.
A LOT OF MY MALE
FRIENDS JUST JOKE
AROUND WITH EACH OTHER
ABOUT THE GIRLS
THEY'VE HOOKED UP WITH,
AND THEY'LL SAY
IT'S LIKE ROAST BEEF
OR "SHE HAS
A MEAT CURTAIN, HAHA"
AND I WAS JUST
LIKE LAUGHING ALONG,
AND THEN I WAS LIKE
OH MY GOSH, I DO,
I HAVE THIS PROBLEM.
Stern: LABIAPLASTIES
IN YOUNG GIRLS
SEEMS TO BE INCREASING
SIGNIFICANTLY.
WE'RE SEEING MORE
AND MORE REQUESTS.
FROM TEENS UNDER
THE AGE OF 18 EVEN,
BECAUSE OF A HEIGHTENED
SEXUAL AWARENESS,
BECAUSE OF MAGAZINES,
BECAUSE OF PORN,
BECAUSE OF THE INTERNET.
THEN MOST OF
THESE AREN'T LOCAL,
THEY WILL TRAVEL
TO GET THIS DONE.
WHAT DO YOU DO?
I'M AN ASSISTANT TEACHER
OF KINDERGARTEN.
OH, OKAY.
DO YOU HAVE
A BOYFRIEND RIGHT NOW?
NO.
GREAT TIME TO DO SURGERY.
AND HOW LONG HAVE
YOU WANTED THIS FOR?
2 YEARS.
BUT IT'S BOTHERED YOU
FOR LONGER THAN THAT?
YES.
UP HERE? EVERYWHERE.
EVERYWHERE.
EVERYWHERE.
EVEN IN MY DREAMS.
EVEN IN YOUR DREAMS.
I HAVE NIGHTMARES, YES.
WOW.
WHAT WE'RE GOING
TO GO THROUGH,
I'M GOING TO FINISH TAKING
A GOOD HISTORY ON YOU,
MAKE SURE THAT ALTHOUGH
ALREADY WE KNOW
WE'RE DOING THIS FOR
THE RIGHT REASONS--
IT'S REALLY IMPORTANT
FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND
THAT DOING THIS FOR YOU IS
GOING TO CHANGE EVERYTHING.
THERE ARE PEOPLE THAT
HAVE EMOTIONAL ISSUES.
MY FIRST SERIOUS BOYFRIEND
WATCHED X-RATED MOVIES
AND STUFF,
AND HE WAS LIKE
"OH, IT'S BIGGER
THAN MOST GIRLS,
LIKE WHAT'S WRONG?"
AND I JUST FEEL IT
WOULD BE A HUGE TURN-ON
TO A GUY TO LOOK
LIKE A PORN STAR.
MC: [INDISTINCT TALKING]
...EROTIC ENTERTAINER
OF THE YEAR,
LADIES AND GENTLEMAN
WELCOME OUT NAKITA KASH!
[CHEERING]
Nichole: I THINK THAT
THE ADULT ENTERTAINMENT WORLD
HAS COMPLETELY INFILTRATED
THE MAINSTREAM.
MUSIC VIDEOS AND
BILLBOARDS LOOK LIKE PORN.
CHICKS ARE DANCING
IN NIGHTCLUBS
TRYING TO LOOK
LIKE STRIPPERS.
REGULAR GUYS ARE TRYING
TO PULL PORN MOVES IN BED.
AND I DO BLAME THAT
ON THE DIGITAL AGE.
HOLY SHIT.
WOW! OH MY FUCKING GOD!
[CHEERING]
I WAS STILL IN HIGH SCHOOL
WHEN I STARTED STRIPPING.
I WENT FROM HOUSE DANCER TO
COMPETITIVE DANCER TO MODEL.
NOW ADULT ACTRESS.
AND GOT REALLY,
REALLY WELL KNOWN
AS THE PORN STAR
WHO POLE DANCED.
GRAB YOUR BUTT. NICE.
I STARTED POLE DANCING
ALMOST A YEAR AGO.
JUST TAKING LESSONS
ONCE A WEEK AT ONE
OF THE LOCAL GYMS.
BUT TAKING THE CLASSES
FROM NICHOLE,
TAKING THE LESSONS FROM, YOU
KNOW, A REAL EXOTIC DANCER,
A REAL PORN STAR,
HAS KIND OF
TAUGHT ME THE OTHER
SIDE OF THINGS.
IT'S LIKE, YEAH,
I CAN DO THAT!
GO IN THE OTHER DIRECTION.
I WANT YOU TO GO UP.
THERE YOU GO.
Nichole: POLE DANCING WAS
MY LIFE FOR 15 YEARS.
AND ONCE THE MAINSTREAM WORLD
STARTED SHOWING INTEREST
IN WHAT NAKITA KASH
WAS REALLY GOOD AT,
I WAS ABLE TO HAVE
NICHOLE SHOW THEM
WHAT NAKITA KASH
HAS LEARNED.
AND I FIND WOMEN WANTING
TO BE LIKE NAKITA KASH,
BUT NICHOLE JUST
WANTS TO BE LIKE THEM.
NICE, MELISSA!
[MUSIC PLAYS]
ONE, TWO, THREE.
WHEE!
JUST HAVE YOUR MOM CALL
ME OR CONTACT ME SO
I CAN FIND OUT.
YEP.
Ken:
I HAVE FRIENDS WHO LIVE
IN THE SUBURBS AND FRIENDS
WHO LIVE IN OTHER CITIES,
AND THERE'S LIKE
THIS STEREOTYPE OF
A NEW YORK CITY KID.
[DOG BARKING]
PEOPLE SAY "WOW, WINNIFRED.
SHE'S NOT SHELTERED,
SHE'S EXPOSED TO THE CITY."
Winnifred: COME ON INTERNET!
I GUESS I DO WORRY,
BUT I WOULD SAY
MOST KIDS GET EXPOSED
WHEREVER YOU LIVE.
Winnifred: OKAY SO
THESE ARE ALL PHOTOS
THAT I TAGGED OF MYSELF
OR PEOPLE TAGGED OF ME.
Ken: WINNIFRED IS
A STRONG GYMNAST,
SHE'S A WRITER,
SHE IS AN ACTOR.
SHE'S INTO SOCIAL JUSTICE.
SHE KNOWS ABOUT
ISSUES IN THE WORLD.
I MEAN, SO FAR, SO GOOD.
PERSONALLY, I HAVEN'T
SEEN THAT MUCH.
I MEAN, I KNOW
WHAT'S OUT THERE,
BUT I HAVEN'T
REALLY SEEN IT.
I MEAN, I'M THINKING
BACK TO WHEN I WAS A KID,
MAYBE NOT 12 BUT
DEFINITELY 13,
LIKE KIDS HAD ACCESS
TO DIRTY MAGAZINES.
DAD, THAT'S SO
OLD SCHOOL!
SO, IF NOW YOU'RE
ON THE INTERNET,
WHY WOULDN'T A KID
YOUR AGE LOOK AT
SOMETHING ONLINE?
IT'S DIFFERENT, DAD.
WHAT STOPS KIDS YOU THINK?
JUDGMENT!
VERY LITTLE
KIDS HAVE IT.
I KNOW BUT I'M
SAYING, RIGHT.
I HAVE IT! OH, SNAP.
SSSSS!
NEED SOME OINTMENT
FOR THAT BURN?
I'M KIDDING,
DAD, I'M KIDDING.
Nichole:
YEAH, YOU BIG BABY GIRL.
SHHH. WHAT'S FUNNY
IS THEY ACT LIKE
THEY HATE ME.
THEN AFTERWARDS THEY RUB UP
AGAINST ME LIKE "THANKS MOM!"
WHEN I WAS ON
AMERICA'S GOT TALENT...
AND WHAT'S YOUR NAME?
MY NAME'S NICHOLE.
...I GOT A STANDING OVATION
FROM A CROWD OF PEOPLE
WHO ALL DAY LONG HAD
BEEN BOOING PEOPLE OFF
OF THE STAGE.
[CHEERING]
IT WAS A PRETTY
COOL EXPERIENCE.
YOU'RE GOING TO VEGAS.
YES!
BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY,
I DIDN'T GO ON NATIONAL TV
AS NAKITA BECAUSE MY
FAMILY WAS GONNA WATCH.
GOOD BOY.
YEAH, I LOVE YOU.
SO MUCH BETTER
THAN YOUR SISTERS.
COMING TO FLORIDA
I GUESS MAYBE WAS
THE FIRST STEP
OF PULLING BACK
THE NAKITA KASH LAYERS.
THERE'S HAIR EVERYWHERE.
GETTING BACK TO MY TRUE SELF.
I THINK MY FAMILY
ALWAYS THOUGHT I WAS
GONNA BE AN ARTIST.
OR AT LEAST AN ENTREPRENEUR.
BUT AT LEAST THEY
WERE ON THE RIGHT TRACK,
I'M A PERFORMANCE ARTIST.
I'M CREATIVE.
MY MOM HAS A LOT OF
PICTURES OF ME
DRESSING UP IN MY
DANCE COSTUMES.
I ACTUALLY WISH SHE WOULD
HAVE ENCOURAGED ME MORE,
AND BEEN ABLE TO SUPPORT
ME MORE IN MY DANCE.
WHO KNOWS WHAT LIFE
WOULD HAVE ENTAILED.
AND WHO KNOWS, I MIGHT
BE IN A THEATER
INSTEAD OF TRYING TO PERFORM
DANCE IN ANOTHER WAY.
I'M REVEALING
MY COOKING SECRETS.
ESPECIALLY BEING
IN THE INDUSTRY,
I DIDN'T REALLY
BELIEVE IN MONOGAMY.
I DIDN'T BELIEVE
IN MARRIAGE.
UM, I DIDN'T REALLY
UNDERSTAND HOW ONE PERSON
COULD KEEP YOU HAPPY
FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE.
AND, I DON'T KNOW,
I MET DAVE.
THE WHOLE WORLD CHANGED.
CAN YOU COME HERE PLEASE?
I CAN'T REACH THE THING.
THE OTHER ONE.
IT'S WAY BACK THERE.
EVEN THOUGH DAVE WORKS
IN THE ADULT INDUSTRY,
HE TALKS TO PORN
STARS EVERY DAY,
HE BECAME VERY AWARE
THAT HE COULD SEPARATE IT.
HE COULD GO HOME AT
THE END OF THE DAY
AND JUST BE
A NORMAL PERSON.
AND I FIND, I FIND
MYSELF EVERY DAY
LEARNING WHO
NICHOLE IS AGAIN.
WATCH THIS, THIS IS HOT!
NO, I'M JUST KIDDING.
[SIREN WAILS]
Man:
LET'S WELCOME OUR PANEL.
HOST OF FOX NEWS'
REDEYE, BILL SHULZ.
STATE ATTORNEYS
JENNIFER BONJEAN AND
JENNIFER SMETTERS.
LET'S FIRE UP THE CLOCK.
JENNIFER BONJEAN,
THE THING THAT BOTHERS
ME IS AREN'T COURTS...
YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO--
THE PEOPLE THAT ARE
SUPPOSED TO BE
DOING THIS SORT OF THING,
NOT THE PRESIDENT.
IT'S LAWYERS WORKING
IN COURTS WHO ARE SUPPOSED
TO MAKE THESE JUDGMENTS.
YES, BUT THEY CAN'T DO THE
SWEEPING POLICY CHANGES
THAT THE JUDGE DOES,
THAT THE PRESIDENT
DOES. LISTEN...
WAIT A MINUTE, THERE'S
SOMETHING CALLED CONGRESS.
IT'S SUPPOSED TO
HELP HIM DO THAT.
THAT'S TRUE, BUT HE
CAN PUT HIS INFLUENCE,
HIS SWAY ON THIS,
AS JENNIFER SAID.
AND NOT ONLY THAT,
IT'S THE ANTI-REGULATORY
APPROACH OF
THE LAST ADMINISTRATION...
Girl: MOMMY!
WE SAW YOU ON TV!
OH MY GOD, WE RAN
OUT OF FROSTING!
[LAUGHING] HAPPY B-DA!
I ALWAYS SAY I'M EITHER
BEING A LOUSY MOTHER
OR A LOUSY LAWYER.
I'M NEVER REALLY
OUTSTANDING AT BOTH
AT THE SAME TIME.
DADDY!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DEAR
WINNIFRED
CHA-CHA-CHA!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU!
CHA-CHA-CHA!
ALL RIGHT.
MAKE A WISH!
DAD, WANNA SEE
MY BAT-MITZVAH SHOES?
Winnifred:
WANT ME TO GET THE DRESS?
SHE WANTS TO WEAR
FISHNETS WITH IT.
WE'LL SEE.
"HAPPY BIRTHDAY, WINNIFRED.
"WHILE YOU ARE GROWING INTO
A BEAUTIFUL, INDEPENDENT,
"THINKING YOUNG WOMAN,
WHO YOUR MOM AND I ARE
BOTH SO PROUD OF
"IN SO MANY WAYS,
AT THE SAME TIME,
"YOU REALLY ARE STILL A KID.
YOU WILL ALWAYS
BE MY NUMBER ONE."
HAPPY B-DA!
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
OH MY GOD -- WAIT.
YOU GOT
LADY GAGA TICKETS!
YOU CAN GO WITH WHOEVER
YOU WANT TO GO WITH.
OH, MY GOD. DAD.
Jeni : THESE GIRLS, AND
BOYS THEY'RE GETTING
THE SAME MESSAGES
AND INFLUENCES ACROSS
THE SPECTRUM.
AND YOU CAN EITHER BE
PART OF THE CONVERSATION,
BE PART OF THEIR THINKING,
OR YOU CAN LET THEM FIGURE
IT OUT ON THEIR OWN.
AND I SORT OF WOULD RATHER
BE PART OF THE CONVERSATION
AND BE PART OF THE THINKING.
I GET BLOWN OFF A LOT,
BUT I DO THINK IT
REGISTERS SOMEWHERE.
LOOKS GOOD, THAT'S PERFECT.
THANK YOU SO MUCH!
THANK YOU.
ARE YOU GOING TO BE
ABLE TO MANAGE?
OW!
SORRY.
DON'T POKE.
LOOK! SHOW YOUR SISTERS
HOW PRETTY YOU LOOK.
YOU DO LOOK
REALLY PRETTY.
YEAH, DOESN'T
SHE LOOK PRETTY?
RIGHT HERE, C'MON DOVE.
OH MY GOD, DUDE!
DID YOU WEAR
THE TEAL ONES?
YEAH, OH, I'M SUPPOSED
TO BE OVER THERE.
OKAY, STEVE.
STEVE, THESE ARE AISLES.
THIS ISN'T GOING TO WORK.
SHEMA YISRAEL ADONAI,
ELOHEINU ADONAI ECHAD
AS THE GREAT POET GIBRAN SAYS
"TO SOAR AND TO FLY,
YOU NEED A STABLE BOW".
AND WHAT COULD BE MORE
CONSISTENTLY STABLE FOR YOU,
WINNIFRED, THAN A COMBINATION
OF MOM AND I. RIGHT?
I'M GONNA CHEAT A LITTLE BIT
BECAUSE I'M GOING TO READ
TO HER THIS WRITING THAT
COMES FROM EVE ENSLER,
WHO IS A HERO OF MINE
AND WHO I KNOW IS A HERO
OF WINNIFRED'S.
I AM AN EMOTIONAL CREATURE.
UM..."HERE'S WHAT
YOU WILL BE TOLD.
"FIND A MAN,
SEEK PROTECTION,
"DON'T CARE SO MUCH,
DON'T TRAVEL ALONE,
"YOU ARE NOTHING
WITHOUT A MAN.
"HERE'S WHAT
I'M TELLING YOU.
"EVERYONE'S MAKING
EVERYTHING UP.
"THERE IS NO ONE IN
CHARGE EXCEPT FOR THOSE
WHO PRETEND TO BE.
"SAY NO WHEN YOU DON'T
WANT TO DO SOMETHING,
"SAY YES IF YOUR
INSTINCTS ARE STRONG,
"EVEN IF EVERYONE
AROUND YOU DISAGREES.
"TAKE YOUR TIME.
"MOVE AS FAST AS YOU DO,
AS LONG AS IT'S YOUR SPEED..."
I'M SORRY.
AT LEAST IN MY HOUSE,
AND WHAT I HOPE TO ROLE
MODEL FOR MY DAUGHTER
IS THAT YOU CAN
ENJOY YOUR SEXUALITY,
BUT AT THE SAME TIME,
KICKING ASS AND DOING
IMPORTANT THINGS
AND ALWAYS BEING IN
HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS...
AND UM, AND YOU KNOW WHAT?
AND VALUING BEING
TREATED WELL.
[APPLAUSE]
MC: WHO'S GOT BETTER MOVES,
MOTHER OR DAUGHTER?
SO LADIES AND GENTLEMAN,
AS YOU CAN SEE,
IN THE CENTER OF
THE DANCE FLOOR,
WE HAVE WINNIE VS. JENI.
CHECK IT OUT, MOTHER VS.
DAUGHTER. LET'S GO!
SOMEBODY CLAP YOUR HANDS,
JUST CLAP YOUR HANDS!
I THINK WINNIE IS WINNING.
WHAT YOU GOT JENI?
C'MON, "DAMN YOU'S
A SEXY CHICK"!
Laura:
FROM A VERY YOUNG AGE
EVERYBODY SAID THAT
I SHOULD BE A MODEL BECAUSE
OF MY HEIGHT, OBVIOUSLY.
I DO HAVE A FAVORITE.
IT'S A BLACK AND WHITE
ONE WHERE I'M LIKE
SITTING ON A BED AND
I'M HOLDING MY HAIR UP.
IT'S JUST, IT'S VERY
SIMPLE I THINK,
BUT STILL SEXY AND RELAXED.
I THINK THE MODELING
HERE IN CHARLOTTE,
IT JUST WAS VERY SHADY
SO I REALIZED THAT
I NEEDED TO FIND
SOMETHING WITH ACTUAL
SUBSTANCE TO IT,
AND BE A LITTLE BIT
MORE RESPONSIBLE.
TWO IS BIRCH.
MY JOB NOW, I TEACH
KINDERGARTEN IN
ELEMENTARY SCHOOL.
I'M AN ASSISTANT TEACHER.
AND I'VE BEEN
TRYING TO SAVE UP
SO THAT I COULD
AFFORD SURGERY EARLIER,
BUT I DID GET
A SECOND JOB NOW
AND I'M PLANNING ON
SAVING UP ALL THE MONEY
THAT I CAN TO
PUT TOWARDS THIS.
[READING INDISTINCTLY]
Ken: I THINK I'M AS MUCH
AS A FEMINIST AS,
YOU KNOW, A MAN CAN BE.
I HAVE 3 DAUGHTERS
AND I WANT THEM TO GROW UP
TO BE STRONG,
POWERFUL ADULTS,
SO I PAY ATTENTION TO
THE GAZILLION DIFFERENT
INFLUENCES THAT
COULD HURT THAT.
THIS IS JUST ONE EXAMPLE.
WHEN GOGO WAS 5, WE HAD
THIS BOOK CALLED CINDEREDNA,
WHERE THERE'S LIKE
CINDERELLA AND CINDEREDNA.
AND CINDERELLA IS A BLONDE,
BEAUTIFUL BARBIE DOLL,
AND CINDEREDNA IS
LIKE COOL, INTERESTING.
SHE HAS HOBBIES
AND INTERESTS,
SHE HAS A GARDEN,
SHE'S INTO SCIENCE.
AND SO I SAY TO GOGO,
LIKE YOU KNOW,
I REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME
READING THIS BOOK TO
HER, SO WHAT'D YOU THINK?
LIKE, YOU KNOW,
WHO DO YOU LIKE BETTER?
AND SHE'S LIKE
"CINDERELLA, OF COURSE."
I GO "YOU LIKE CINDERELLA?"
SHE'S LIKE "YEAH!" I GO "WHY?"
SHE GOES "SHE WAS PRETTY."
THAT'S, IT--IT'S EVERYWHERE.
YOU CAN'T AVOID IT, SO
I LIE TO MY KIDS A LOT.
I TELL GOGO "IT DOESN'T
MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE."
AND AT SOME POINT THEY
REALIZE YOU'RE LYING TO THEM,
BUT HOPEFULLY INSTEAD
OF BECOMING, LIKE 80%
OF WHAT THEY CARE
ABOUT, IT'S LIKE 32%.
DO YOU HAVE HER CHARTS?
MY PRACTICE IS LIMITED
TO FEMALE COSMETIC
GENITAL SURGERY.
I OPERATE ON
5 PATIENTS A DAY.
Woman: THE FIRST BUNNY
IS A GIRL BUNNY.
SEE THE PRETTY EYELASHES?
SHOULD WE MAKE THIS
ONE A GIRL BUNNY?
Stern: AND THE MOTHER,
MOST OFTEN THE MOTHER
AND THE DAUGHTER
DO COME IN TOGETHER.
COME ON BACK.
GET UNDRESSED FROM
THE WAIST DOWN,
HAVE A SEAT
ON THE TABLE.
OKAY.
SCOOT DOWN TOWARDS ME.
SLIDE BACK A LITTLE
MORE, THERE YOU GO.
ON A SCALE OF 1 to 10,
10 BEING THE ENORMOUS ONES,
YOUR RIGHT ONE'S A 7,
YOUR LEFT ONE'S AN 8.
SO THIS ISN'T IN
YOUR HEAD. OKAY?
IF I GET THOSE
WINGS OFF COMPLETELY
AND ROUND THEM TO
THE SIDE, IS THAT
GONNA MAKE YOU HAPPY?
YES!
OKAY.
C'MON.
WE'RE GONNA HAVE FUN,
YOU'RE GOING TO LOVE THIS.
NO, THIS IS--
I'M ALREADY LOVING IT.
NO, BECAUSE THIS IS...
YOU REALLY--
NOBODY NEEDS IT,
BUT YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY
A GREAT CANDIDATE,
'CAUSE I MEAN,
THESE ARE BIG.
HOW MANY BUNNY RABBITS
DID YOU MAKE TODAY?
UM, 5?
RIGHT HERE?
NO, YES, YES, THIS WAY.
ARE YOU STILL
FEELING EXCITED AND
HAPPY ABOUT THIS?
I'M SO EXCITED.
ARE YOU?
YEAH.
WHEN I FIRST
DISCOVERED LABIAPLASTY,
AND I TOLD MY MOM AND MY
BOYFRIEND AT THE TIME.
THEY WERE BOTH KIND OF LIKE
"YOU DON'T NEED TO
DO THAT, YOU'RE PERFECT
THE WAY YOU ARE."
BUT I FEEL THAT
I ALREADY HAVE THIS
IMAGE IN MY HEAD
OF WHAT A LABIA
SHOULD LOOK LIKE
AND THERE'S NOT REALLY
ANYTHING THAT CAN BE
DONE ABOUT IT NOW.
IT'S LIKE A PERMANENT
SCAR IN MY MIND.
NOW MORE WOMEN ARE
HAVING A VERY CONTROVERSIAL
PLASTIC SURGERY DONE ON
THEIR MOST PRIVATE AREAS.
I LIKE A LONG
HAIR THICK RED...
I DON'T KNOW,
HOW'S IT GO?
"OPEN UP HER LEGS,
BIG RED THONG,
OPEN UP HER LEGS
THAT FILET MIGNON."
THAT PUSSY, I'M A GET
IN AND ON THAT PUSSY
YEAH, IT'S LIKE
THE LIPS, IT'S THE OPENING.
IT'S THE HELLO.
GON' THROW IT BACK...
THAT'S HOW WE KNOW
ANATOMY, FROM HIP-HOP.
I'D BE REALLY CURIOUS
TO SEE WHAT THE AVERAGE
LABIA IS LIKE.
I MEAN, THAT WOULD
PROBABLY MAKE ME START
THINKING LIKE "AAH, WHAT
IS THE PERFECT LABIA?"
I DON'T WANNA EXPLAIN
ON VIDEO CAMERA
WHAT ROAST BEEF
CURTAINS ARE.
OH MY GOD!
I NEED THAT SURGERY!
Nichole: WOMEN ARE MUCH
MORE AWARE OF WHAT
THEIR VAGINAS LOOK
LIKE BECAUSE OF PORN.
I THINK THAT THE VERY
FIRST LABIA REDUCTION
THAT WAS POPULAR WAS
PROBABLY THE PORN STAR
BY THE NAME OF HOUSTON.
IN FACT SHE MADE
A HUGE DEAL OUT OF IT.
SHE WAS A VERY BIG
PORN STAR AND SHE AUCTIONED
HER TRIMMED LABIA OFF ON EBAY
OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT,
SOME AUCTION WEBSITE.
SO I WILL CALL YOU
TOMORROW AS SOON AS
I HEAR FROM HER ABOUT
THE HBO TAPES.
[INDISTINCT TALKING]
WOULD YOU PREFER
THAT WEEKEND
AND WE'LL JUST SAY
YES AND DO IT NOW?
[Phone beeps]
HI HUN, IT'S NAKITA.
I JUST WANTED TO TOUCH
BASE WITH YOU TODAY.
GIVE ME A CALL BACK, I'M
IN THE OFFICE. THANKS.
MY FIRST MAGAZINE
I EVER SAW WAS UNDER
MY DAD'S MATTRESS,
AND BACK THEN, I MEAN,
THERE WAS NO PENETRATION.
NO PENETRATION IN
A NUDIE MAGAZINE?
NO.
WOW.
THE FIRST UH, THE FIRST
PENETRATION EVER
WAS IN A PENTHOUSE ISSUE
WHEN I WAS WORKING IN
LAUDERDALE, IN '97, '98.
NOWADAYS, UH, THE LIMITS
ARE PUSHED A LOT FURTHER.
THERE'S, UH, I DON'T
KNOW HOW MUCH I CAN SAY,
BUT ANAL, DOUBLE ANAL,
DOUBLE PENETRATION,
CREAM PIES.
I MEAN THERE'S THINGS
THAT PEOPLE ARE DOING
IN MOVIES NOW
THAT THEY WOULDN'T
HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT
10, 15 YEARS AGO.
I WOULD ASSUME A LOT,
KIDS ARE HAVING SEX
A LOT YOUNGER NOW.
IT'S IN THEIR
FACE A LOT MORE.
IT'S JUST MORE ACCESSIBLE,
SHOWING THEM WHAT TO DO AND--
AND SHOWING THEM MORE
THAT IT'S OKAY
NOW BECAUSE IT
IS SO MAINSTREAM.
DO YOU THINK THAT
IF, WHEN WE HAVE--
IF WE HAVE A SON
AND HE BECOMES
12 YEARS OLD...
WHEN WE HAVE A SON
AND HE TURNS 12, WHAT?
WHEN WE HAVE A SON
AND HE TURNS 12,
DO YOU THINK THAT
THIS MUCH PORN AND SEX
BEING IN YOUR FACE
AT THAT AGE IS HEALTHY?
I DON'T WANT
TO ANSWER THAT.
I DON'T LIKE
THAT QUESTION.
WHEN I SAW PORN FOR
THE FIRST TIME?
I DON'T KNOW.
I WAS PROBABLY IN
LIKE MIDDLE SCHOOL.
YEAH LIKE 12 OR 13.
LIKE MY FIRST
ENCOUNTER SEEING SEX
WAS LIKE THE MOST DIRTIEST,
LIKE CRAZY SHIT EVER.
SO IT PROBABLY PERVERTED
MY MIND A LITTLE.
LIKE, I MEAN I'M
A GOOD GUY AT HEART,
BUT I DO LIKE TO
LOOK FOR, YOU KNOW,
CERTAIN FEATURES OF
A GIRL TO BE SOMEWHAT
SIMILAR TO SOMETIMES
PORN STARS.
EVERYBODY WANTS TO
GET THAT BIG BOOB,
BIG ASS, PORN STAR
THAT EVERYBODY SEES,
YOU KNOW LIKE...
WHEN YOU'RE DRUNK
YOU DON'T EVEN CARE ABOUT IT,
YOU PICTURE THAT IN YOUR MIND.
IT CHANGES THE WAY THAT
PEOPLE HAVE SEX, IT DOES.
3 GUYS HAVING SEX WITH
YOU AT THE SAME TIME,
LIKE, HOW DO YOU DO THAT?
UH, I DON'T KNOW,
SOME OF IT IS JUST
REALLY...DEGRADING.
I THINK ABOUT IT TOO,
IF I HAD NEVER LIKE,
LOOKED AT ANY OF THAT,
I WONDER IF ANYTHING
WOULD HAVE CHANGED
WHO I AM RIGHT NOW.
BIBI, YOU WANNA GO
TO THE...PARK?
DO YOU WANNA GO TO THE PARK?
[BARKING]
OKAY.
PORN IS FOR ADULTS.
IT'S NOT MADE FOR TEENAGERS
TO LEARN ABOUT SEX.
A LOT OF THE STUFF
THAT GUYS DO ON CAMERA
IN PORN IS FOR THE CAMERA,
BECAUSE IT LOOKS
GOOD VISUALLY,
AND DOESN'T NECESSARILY
FEEL GOOD.
FOR HIM OR THE GIRL.
A LOT OF THE SPITTING
AND THE SQUIRTING
AND THE CUM GUZZLING
AND SNOWBALLING
AND THE THIS AND
THE THAT, I MEAN,
IT MIGHT GET
SOME GIRLS OFF,
BUT FOR THE MOST
PART THEY'RE DOING
THAT FOR PAY.
WHAT'S SNOWBALLING?
[LAUGHS]
SORRY.
I'M PIMPIN'.
THREE, TWO, ONE.
OW!
I WOULD NEVER EVEN THINK
OF WEARING REAL FUR.
SMELLS LIKE MY GRANDMA.
MINE, TOO.
WHERE ARE YOU GOING?
I FEEL LIKE ONE OF THOSE
REBELLIOUS PEOPLE.
DANIELLE, WE ALSO
HAVE TO WALK THE DOG!
[SINGING INDISTINCTLY]
IF I HAD TO SAY
HOW MANY GUYS
HAD PORN APPS
ON THEIR PHONE,
I WOULD GUESS
8 OUT OF 10.
BUT I'D GUESS FOR GIRLS
IT'D BE LIKE 5 OUT OF 10.
IS THAT COOL TO WATCH
PEOPLE, LIKE, HAVE SEX?
FURIOUSLY?
I LOOKED ON THE
SCREEN AND IT WAS
THIS ONE BLACK GUY,
ONE HISPANIC GUY AND
THIS ONE VERY BLONDE WOMAN.
AND UM, THEY WERE
OUT ON A LAWN
AND THEY WERE JUST LIKE,
FEROCIOUSLY...
BANGING EACH OTHER.
IT WAS VERY...MMM.
I MEAN I CAME HOME, I WAS
BAWLING MY EYES OUT.
I'LL NEVER FORGET IT.
I GUESS I'M THE KIND
OF PERSON THAT
DOESN'T HAVE THE GUTS
AND DOESN'T REALLY CARE
ENOUGH TO LOOK AT
PORN AND STUFF.
I KNOW WHAT SEX IS,
I DON'T NEED TO SEE IT
IN FRONT OF ME PLAYED OUT.
I DON'T REALLY CARE.
WANNA SPEND IT
ALL ON YOU BABY
MY ROOM IS THE G-SPOT,
CALL ME MR. FLINTSTONE
I CAN MAKE YOUR BED ROCK
I CAN MAKE
YOUR BED ROCK GIRL
I CAN MAKE YOUR BED ROCK
I CAN MAKE YOUR BED ROCK
I NEVER HAD
MORE SEX IN MY LIFE
THAN I DID WHEN I FIRST
MET MY HUSBAND. NEVER.
IT WAS CONSTANT, NONSTOP
FRICKIN' NAKITA KASH SEX.
UM, I HAD TO PROVE MYSELF.
HE FELT THAT HE
HAD TO PROVE HIMSELF
BECAUSE I WAS A PORN STAR.
WHICH IN GENERAL, THAT'S,
THAT'S WHAT PORN SEX IS,
IT'S SPORT FUCKING.
IT'S YOU KNOW,
WHAT KIND OF POSITIONS
CAN I GET MYSELF IN,
AND HOW HARD AND FAST
CAN I GO, AND HOW LOUD
AND CRAZY CAN I GO.
IT'S DEFINITELY NOT
MAKING LOVE. THERE'S
A HUGE DIFFERENCE.
MAKING LOVE IS
THE KIND OF SEX
THAT YOU WANNA
CRY AFTERWARDS,
JUST BECAUSE IT'S SO
BEAUTIFUL, AND SO EMOTIONAL,
AND SO POWERFUL.
THAT'S LOVE SEX.
AW, A FRENCH BULLDOG.
I LOVE FRENCHIES.
ALRIGHT, I GUESS WE HAVE
TO GO THE OTHER WAY.
ALRIGHT MUNCHKIN,
YOU READY TO DO THIS?
IT WON'T LAST LONG.
BUT WE'RE GONNA TRY.
C'MON!
THE FIRST FEW TIMES
DAVE AND I MADE LOVE
WAS A MILLION AND
A HALF TIMES MORE POWERFUL
THAN ANY SPORT
FUCKING COULD EVER BE.
C'MON, LETS GO TO THE BEACH!
DON'T GET ME WRONG,
WE STILL HAVE OUR
SPORT FUCKING SESSIONS.
BUT IN GENERAL LATELY SEX
HAS BEEN GET-TO-THE-POINT.
PURPOSEFUL SEX IN TERMS
OF LET'S MAKE A BABY.
DAVE IS 40, I'M 33,
HE'S IN A HURRY, AND
I'M IN A HURRY FOR HIM.
DON'T KNOW, LOOKS
A LITTLE WEIRD.
YEAH.
OKAY, SO...SO TO SHOW
YOU WHAT PEOPLE
USUALLY WEAR TO
THIS LADY GAGA, THIS IS.
HOLY CRAP!
YEAH, AND LADY GAGA
TALKED TO HER.
SHE SAID, "OH LOOK HOW CUTE
WITH THE CAUTION
TAPE!" SO, YEAH.
WE GOTTA DRESS UP!
JUST DANCE BUT HE...
IS THIS SLUTTY?
THAT'S GOOD,
THAT'S A GOOD LENGTH.
IT'S SHORT LIKE
IN A COOL WAY, NOT
LIKE A SLUTTY WAY.
FRENCH KISSED
ON A SUBWAY TRAIN
HE TORE MY CLOTHES
RIGHT OFF
HE ATE MY HEART AND
THEN HE ATE MY BRAIN
HE'S A MONSTER
ARE YOU WEARING HEELS?
FUCKING A,
I CAN'T WEAR THESE.
OH, OKAY.
FIRST OF ALL,
THEY LOOK RETARDED
WITH THESE TIGHTS.
AND SECOND OF ALL,
THEY'D BE TOTALLY
UNCOMFORTABLE.
LIKE, I'M ALREADY
BORDERING ON
INAPPROPRIATE, SO...
THIS SHIRT, NO THIS SKIRT,
ACTUALLY MAKES ME
LOOK LIKE I HAVE A BUTT!
WHICH IS GOOD!
BECAUSE I HAVE NONE.
Ken:
YEAH, SO WE'RE
BASICALLY HERE .
UM,
I'M KIND OF NERVOUS.
I'M SO FRICKIN' EXCITED!
WOULD YOU RATHER BE
OVERDRESSED OR UNDERDRESSED?
OVER.
WINNIFRED.
YES?
WHEN YOU GET INSIDE
THE CONCERT, GO TO
YOUR SEAT.
WHEN YOU FIND YOUR SEAT,
CALL ME. ALRIGHT?
YOU LISTENING?
THIS IS GONNA BE...
OH MY GOD, LOOK AT EVERYONE.
LOOK AT EVERYONE!
AND YOU THINK THAT
WE'RE UNDERDRESSED!
A LOT OF THE FEMINIST
LITERATURE AND STUFF
I READ WHEN I WAS YOUNGER,
IF I READ IT FOR
THE FIRST TIME, OR
JUST REVISITING IT
NOW THAT I HAVE
A 13-YEAR-OLD IN
TODAY'S CULTURE,
IT'S LIKE A WHOLE
'NOTHER LAYER.
AND I LIKE LADY GAGA.
BUT I AM A LITTLE TORN
THAT SHE'S JUST
SORT OF DISGUISING
THE SORT OF TYPICAL
SEXUALIZATION,
OBJECTIFICATION OF WOMEN
IN SOMETHING MORE
COMPLICATED OR DEEP.
CAUSE YOU WERE
BORN THIS WAY BABY
BUT SHE REFLECTS
THE CULTURE OF TODAY,
AND IT'S A HIGHLY
SEXUALIZED ONE.
YOU KNOW THAT I WANT YOU
CAUSE I'M
A FREE BITCH BABY!
BUT AT LEAST SHE OWNS IT.
SHE'S IN CONTROL OF IT.
WANT YOUR BAD ROMANCE!
I GOT GIRLS ON MY RIGHT,
I GOT GIRLS ON MY LEFT
AS OPPOSED TO THE
OTHER IMAGES AND MESSAGES
WHERE GIRLS ARE JUST OBJECTS.
I JUST WANT TO
UNBUTTON YOUR BLOUSE
AND LET THE GIRLS OUT
I WANNA FUCK YOU
PORN HAS CHANGED TO
WOMEN BEING OBJECTS.
NOW THAT IT'S MORE ACCEPTABLE,
WOMEN IN THE WORLD I BELIEVE
ARE SEEING THAT THAT'S THEIR
ROLE IN SEX.
SOME GUY WAS LIKE
"YEAH FLASH THE CAMERA!"
AND EVERYONE'S CHANTING,
"DO IT, DO IT!"
AND PEOPLE ARE PUSHING ME
FORWARD TOWARDS THE CAMERA,
THE CAMERA'S SHINING
ON ME AND I'M LIKE,
"I DON'T WANT TO DO THAT."
I THINK THE GIRLS
GONE WILD PHENOMENON
IS EXTREMELY DEGRADING.
YOU KNOW, THERE'S A DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN TAKING CHARGE
OF YOUR SEXUALITY AND SAYING
"I AM GOING TO SHOW YOU
SOMETHING,"
INSTEAD OF HIM SAYING, "LET ME
SEE, LET ME SEE, LET ME SEE."
[MC TALKING INDISTINCTLY]
I WAS IN CHARGE
OF MY SEXUALITY
BY INVITING MY
ENTIRE HIGH SCHOOL
TO COME WATCH ME DO
AN AMATEUR CONTEST.
MY VERY FIRST TIME
STRIPPING ON STAGE
I WAS NAKED IN FRONT OF
MY ENTIRE HIGH SCHOOL.
NEEDLESS TO SAY, I DID
WIN THE CONTEST.
BUT I'VE ALWAYS,
IN DANCING, IN PORN,
IN EVERYTHING THAT I'VE DONE,
CONTROL IS MY MAIN THING.
HIS HANDS!
I DON'T MIND DOING
A LAP DANCE FOR YOU,
YOU KEEP YOUR HANDS
WHERE I TELL YOU TO
KEEP YOUR HANDS.
YOU DON'T MOVE.
I TURN YOU ON.
PERIOD. MY WAY.
THAT'S JUST HOW IT WORKS.
THE WHOLE USING YOUR SEXUALITY
AS POWER AND EMBRACING IT,
AND FEELING LIKE IF I WANNA
DRESS IN A PARTICULAR WAY
I SHOULDN'T HAVE TO BE JUDGED
AND I'M DOWN WITH
THAT, I DO IT MYSELF.
I WEAR FISHNETS IN CLOSING
ARGUMENTS, MANY-A-TIMES.
BUT IT'S SORT OF SOMETHING
THAT HAS TO DEVELOP
AFTER YOU UNDERSTAND
WHAT IT REALLY MEANS
TO ACCOMPLISH
SOMETHING IN WAYS
THAT ARE CONTRIBUTING
TO SOCIETY.
CHANGING YOUR LIFE AND
CHANGING OTHER PEOPLE'S LIVES.
MOMMY! MOMMY!
CAN YOU COME HERE?
I HAVE TO ASK YOU
A QUESTION.
SO WHAT ROLE DO YOU
HAVE IN THE MOCK TRIAL?
WE'RE GONNA BE LAWYERS.
I TOLD THEM EVEN
THOUGH THE PROSECUTOR
CASE IS GONNA BE
SO MUCH EASIER,
BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS
WIN EVERY YEAR,
I WAS LIKE "MY MOM'S
GOING TO BE SO PISSED
"IF I END UP BEING
A PROSECUTOR
"SO I SUGGEST YOU
SAVE YOURSELF
AND MAKE ME
A DEFENSE ATTORNEY."
I DON'T EVEN KNOW
THE ISSUE, MAYBE
I WOULD SAY,
LET'S SEE,
THIS IS THE ISSUE...
IT'S ABOUT FINDING
THE BALANCE, AND IT'S HARD.
I MEAN IT'S HARD
TO FIND IT AT 40,
LET ALONE AT 13.
Winnifred:
"A SCANNER ERROR HAS OCCURRED,
TURN POWER OFF
AND TURN ON AGAIN."
WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
PHOTOCOPYING MY BUTT,
LIKE BRITNEY SPEARS.
DADDY-O, YOU GOT
THE SWAGGER OF A CHAMPION
TOO BAD FOR YOU
YOU JUST CAN'T FIND
THE RIGHT COMPANION
C'MON. WHOA.
I GUESS WHEN
YOU HAVE ONE TOO...
DAD, CAN I TALK TO
YOU PLEASE? NO! NO! DAD!
IT'S OKAY.
WHAT IF, WHAT IF,
DAD, CAN I GO TO
SCHOOL AGAIN EARLY?
THAT FELT GOOD.
I FELT ACCOMPLISHED.
I LIKE THAT METHODOLOGY.
BECAUSE I FEEL ACCOMPLISHED
TOO, YOU KNOW WHY?
IT ACTUALLY FORCES ME
TO GET UP, TOO. IT'S GOOD.
AND YOU GET
A FREE CAB RIDE.
OH, MY GOD. DAD.
I'VE HAD
LIKE 6 CAB DRIVERS
AND LIKE 3 OF THEM
HAVE NOT MADE
ME PAY, OKAY?
SWEAR TO GOD. HE
DIDN'T MAKE ME PAY!
ACTUALLY HE DIDN'T
MAKE ME GIVE HIM A TIP.
IS IT LIKE "OH,
YOU'RE A NICE GIRL,
I'M SORRY YOU HAVE TO GO BY
YOURSELF TO SCHOOL".
NO, I JUST BLOW THEM.
EXCUSE ME?
I'M KIDDING, I'M KIDDING.
I'M KIDDING, I DON'T
EVEN KNOW WHAT THAT MEANS!
THAT'S NOT EVEN FUNNY.
GET OFF OF ME.
[INDISTINCT].
DAD! WHAT?
THAT'S INAPPROPRIATE.
HOLY SHIT!
WHAT THE F IS THAT?
OH MY GOD, IT'S BLOOD,
I HAD MY PERIOD!
[MAKING PHONE NOISES]
"MOM, CALL ME BACK,
I NEED TO TALK TO YOU.
IT'S AN EMERGENCY. DAD,
I NEED A MINUTE!"
(HEAVY BREATHING)
STUFFING TOILET PAPER
IN UNDERWEAR.
"OKAY, I'M COMING!"
AND SCENE.
ARE YOU WEARING MY BRA?
THIS IS NOT YOUR BRA.
THE BIO-FIT.
THIS IS MY BRA.
LET ME SEE THIS.
OH, IT'S YOURS.
[RINGING]
WHO IS IT?
CAN YOU LEAVE?
CAN YOU PLEASE LEAVE?
I'M VIDEO CHATTING
WITH SOMEONE! GO!
HE CANCELLED--HE CANCELLED
THE INVITATION!
GOD I HATE YOU.
WHY ARE YOU HIDING
STUFF FROM ME?
BECAUSE YOU'RE
SO WEIRD, MOM!
[LAUGHTER AND
INDISTINCT TALKING]
GO AWAY! OKAY, OKAY,
ACCEPT, ACCEPT.
HI. WHAT?
Boy: MY SISTER JUST
CAME TO MY COMPUTER
AND LIKE, LOOKED
THROUGH ALL MY STUFF.
THAT'S WEIRD.
[EXHALES]
ALRIGHT, I HAVE TO
GO SHOWER, BUT I'LL
TALK TO YOU LATER.
ALRIGHT, BYE.
BYE.
MY GOD! THAT WAS
LIKE THE MOST
AWKWARD THING EVER!
I NEED TO HOOKUP
WITH SOMEBODY.
I DON'T WANT TO DATE THEM,
I JUST WANT TO STICK
MY TONGUE IN THEIR MOUTH.
THAT WAS GRAPHIC, SORRY.
IT HAPPENS,
IT HAPPENS OVERNIGHT.
THE INTERESTS
COMPLETELY CHANGE.
THEY ISOLATE
THEMSELVES MORE FROM YOU.
I DON'T KNOW, IT'S
AGE AND ALL OF A SUDDEN
BEING COGNIZANT OF
THE OPPOSITE SEX.
SO, LET'S SAY, LIKE,
I'M TALKING TO
A REALLY HOT GUY,
AND I KNOW I'M GOING
TO GET WITH HIM,
AND I KNOW HE'S
STALKING ME ON FACEBOOK.
I'D PROBABLY DO THIS ONE.
NO DOUBT ABOUT IT.
IT'S LIKE, SEDUCTIVE.
SO BASICALLY, LIKE, THERE
WAS THIS REALLY HOT GUY
THAT WE WERE LIKE HOOKING UP.
AND LIKE, I SNUCK OUT
TO SEE HIM AND LIKE,
I LIKE, COULDN'T REALLY,
LIKE, SEE HIM THAT MUCH.
AND LIKE, I REALLY WANTED
TO BE LIKE, CLOSE TO HIM,
SO I JUST LIKE SENT
HIM, LIKE, A PHOTO.
AND THEN HE LIKE,
PUT IT ON FACEBOOK
AND I GUESS A COUPLE
PEOPLE SAW, LIKE, MY BRA.
BOOBS LIKE OUT--NOT LIKE
OUT, BUT THERE WAS LIKE,
A BRA, AND IT WAS
LIKE A SEXY BRA.
AND THEN I WAS LIKE OR
SOMETHING. I FORGET.
BUT IT WAS JUST LIKE, I FELT
KIND OF DIRTY AFTERWARDS
BECAUSE I JUST FELT LIKE
MISCONCEIVED
FOR 2 MINUTES ON HIS WALL.
EVERY GIRL WANTS
TO FEEL, LIKE, SEXY.
AND I FEEL LIKE A GUY
TELLING YOU THAT, LIKE,
JUST MAKES YOUR DAY, LIKE,
MAKES YOU FEEL REALLY GOOD.
LIKE MEGAN FOX, EVERY
GIRL WANTS TO BE HER.
VAGINA, CLITORIS,
UTERUS AND MORE,
BY SCARLETEEN, SEX ED.
FOR THE REAL WORLD.
RAWR!
YOU KNOW PEOPLE ARE
GETTING PLASTIC SURGERY
ON THEIR VAGINAS?
WAIT, ACTUALLY?
YEAH, WOMEN THINK
THAT THEIR VAGINAS
ARE TOO DROOPY AND STUFF.
WHAT THE FUCK,
I DON'T NEED TO SEE
THE CLITORAL...
GO TO "LABIAPLASTY."
THIS IS THE SURGERY.
BEFORE AND AFTER!
BEFORE AND AFTER PHOTOS,
DR. BENSON IN TEXAS.
OH, SHE DEFINITELY
NEEDED SOME LABIA SURGERY!
SO THE DOCTOR IS
GOING TO CALL YOU
AND LET YOU KNOW
WHAT TIME YOU'RE
SCHEDULED FOR TOMORROW?
YES.
I HOPE HE CALLS
YOU TONIGHT.
I GUESS I'M KIND OF
IN THE DARK, MOM.
IT WAS NOT
SOMETHING THAT
MY MOM AND I
HAD EVER DISCUSSED.
AND THEN SO
I WAS LIKE, WOW,
KIDS ARE REALLY
MORE UNINHIBITED NOWADAYS.
AND I GUESS I DIDN'T
TAKE IT SERIOUSLY
BECAUSE OF THE EXPENSE.
BUT SHE DIDN'T LET UP,
SHE CONTINUED
FOR LIKE 2 YEARS!
I FEEL ALREADY, JUST
KNOWING THAT I'M GETTING IT,
I ALREADY FEEL HAPPIER,
AND LIKE,
MORE MOTIVATED TO DO
THE THINGS THAT I
WANT TO ACCOMPLISH.
I FEEL MORE OUTGOING AND
JUST ALL AROUND HAPPIER.
GOOD!
SHE'S AN ADULT NOW,
AND IF THIS IS SOMETHING
THAT SHE FEELS WILL
ENHANCE HER LIFE,
IMPROVE HER LIFE,
I WANT HER TO BE HAPPY.
DON'T CRY.
WHY ARE YOU CRYING?
I DON'T KNOW.
SHE WAS MY LITTLE BUDDY.
SHE WOULD GO WITH ME
ANYWHERE AND EVERYWHERE.
SHE'D PLAY WITH
HER BARBIES
AND HER BABIES
AND STUFF LIKE THAT.
WE WERE VERY, I THOUGHT,
VERY, VERY CLOSE.
THEN YOU GOT
INTO MIDDLE SCHOOL.
(LAUGHING)
I DON'T LIKE THE IDEA
OF GROWING UP.
I GET NOSTALGIC,
THEN I START LOOKING THROUGH
PICTURES OF MYSELF,
WHEN MY PARENTS
USED TO LOVE ME.
AND THEN I CRY
BECAUSE I FEEL LIKE
I'M NOT THE WAY I USED TO BE
AND I'M NOT, LIKE,
INTERESTING ANYMORE.
CAN I PLEASE GO WITH
MY FRIENDS ON FRIDAY?
YOU'RE NOT GOING TO
MISS GYMNASTICS SO YOU
CAN GO TO A MOVIE.
WAIT, WHY? DO YOU KNOW HOW
HORRIBLE IT IS FOR ME
TO DO GYMNASTICS?
YOU KNOW I HATE GYMNASTICS?
OKAY, QUIT.
WE DO BATTLE ABOUT NEXT YEAR,
WHETHER SHE'S GOING
TO CONTINUE WITH IT.
AND I'VE HAD A LITTLE
PEEK INTO WHAT SHE DOES
WHEN SHE HAS MORE
TIME ON HER HANDS.
AND IT'S, IT'S NOT PRETTY.
IT SCARES THE BEJESUS
OUT OF ME, ACTUALLY.
LIKE, MY MOM PUTS
SO MUCH PRESSURE ON ME
TO LIKE, WRITE
AND WRITE POETRY.
AND I LIKE DOING THAT STUFF,
BUT I WISH I LIKED IT MORE.
I DON'T KNOW,
I JUST WANT HER TO
BE LIKE, PROUD OF ME.
I MEAN, THERE'S STUFF
THAT I KNOW CORRUPTS ME.
THAT DOESN'T MEAN
I DON'T WANT TO HAVE IT.
LIKE FACEBOOK.
I MEAN, FACEBOOK IS
LITERALLY LIKE 30% MY LIFE.
AND IT SHOULDN'T BE.
THERE'S A PICTURE OF ME
IN MY BRA ON FACEBOOK.
IT'S STILL UP THERE.
IT'S ON OLIVIA'S PAGE -- LIV.
I'M NOT GONNA DO IT
AGAIN, I PROMISE YOU!
I'VE NEVER--
NOPE. NO.
I'VE HEARD THIS BEFORE.
NO YOU HAVEN'T!
OH, YEAH, I HAVE.
I, I, I MEAN IT!
I MEAN IT, PLEASE.
YOU'RE NOT GETTING
FACEBOOK BACK RIGHT NOW. NO.
CAN I HAVE FACEBOOK BACK?
Ken on phone: UM, NO.
IF YOU SAW YOUR KID
SHNARFFING DOWN A BAG
OF POTATO CHIPS,
YOU'D SAY "HEY,
NO MORE POTATO CHIPS!"
FACEBOOK'S NO
DIFFERENT REALLY,
BUT IT'S JUST HARDER, IT'S
HARDER TO LEGISLATE.
BECAUSE THEY HAVE COMPUTERS,
THEY HAVE PHONES,
AND THEY CAN GET ON
IT WITHOUT YOU KNOWING.
TEACH ME HOW TO DOUGIE
ALL THE BITCHES LOVE ME
Woman: WHOO!
ALL MY BITCHES LOVE ME,
ALL--ALL MY BITCHES LOVE ME
ALL MY BITCHES LOVE ME,
YOU FUCKING WITH MY DOUGIE?
THE WAY I SEE SOME
OF YOUR FRIENDS
ENCOURAGE MYRTLE,
TO ME THAT IS ON
THE BORDER OF
EXPLOITATION.
YOU MADE ME
DEACTIVATE MY FACEBOOK.
BECAUSE OF THAT?
WHAT ELSE?
GUESS WHAT I GET
TO DO NOW ALL DAY?
GYMNASTICS.
YOU KNOW, YOU SHOULD
TAKE THAT AWAY, TOO.
IT'S LIKE HORRIBLE,
FACEBOOK IS A BEAUTIFUL PLACE
AND I CAN'T HAVE IT!
LOST IN THE WORLD,
FETAL AND CURLED,
AND NO WAY OUT.
LIGHTS OUT. COLD.
OH MY GOD, THIS
IS LIKE, HORRIBLE.
I NEED SOCIAL NETWORKING!
WHEN I FIRST STARTED
TELLING MY STUDENTS
WHO HAVE KIDS,
YOU KNOW, THE WHOLE
PLAN OF KIDS
AND IT'LL HAPPEN
WHEN IT HAPPENS,
ALL OF MY STUDENTS,
FOR SOME REASON
EVERY SINGLE ONE OF
THEM HAS TOLD ME
TO DO ACUPUNCTURE.
THERE WAS ONE AROUND
HERE THAT I REALLY FELT.
AT FIRST, AND THEN--
I AM SCARED THAT I
CAN'T HAVE A BABY.
I TRIED FOR MANY YEARS.
I'VE HAD A MISCARRIAGE.
ALRIGHT, THAT'S IT.
I FEEL LIKE IT'S
THE NEXT LEVEL
OF MY RELATIONSHIP
WITH MY HUSBAND.
AND I AM SCARED THAT
IF WE CAN'T REACH
THAT NEXT LEVEL,
WHERE OUR RELATIONSHIP
IS GONNA GO.
AW MAN.
IT SAYS, UM,
"I FULLY UNDERSTAND
THAT EVEN THOUGH
THE ANESTHESIOLOGIST
WILL SPEND ALL OF
HIS OR HER TIME
DURING THE SURGICAL
PROCEDURE ENSURING
MY SAFETY,
ANESTHESIA DOES BARE
SOME RISK OF A POSSIBLE,
POSSIBILITY OF
EITHER INJURY,
ALLERGIC REACTIONS
OR RARELY DEATH.
I GUESS THEY'RE COVERING
ALL THEIR BASES.
THIS REMINDS ME OF
WHEN I WENT WITH HEATHER
FOR HER TO GET
HER BREAST IMPLANTS.
DID YOU GO WITH HER?
MMM-HMM.
THAT WAS A GOOD FRIEND.
DID SHE HAVE TO SIGN
STUFF LIKE THAT TOO?
THESE ARE COOL SHOES.
ARE THOSE LITTLE SHELLS?
JUST A LITTLE DESIGN.
ARE YOU CRYING AGAIN?
YEAH, I'M JUST, I'M JUST--
I SHOULD BE
THE ONE CRYING.
I'M JUST NERVOUS FOR YOU.
DON'T CRY, YOU'RE GOING
TO MAKE ME NERVOUS!
READY, CAROL?
[MONITORS BEEPING]
THERE IS
A PERFECT-SIZED PIECE,
JUST LIKE IN HER PICTURE.
I HAVE A LOT OF YOUNG GIRLS
THAT'LL CONTACT ME
THAT'LL SAY "I HATE 'EM, I'M
GOING TO CUT THEM OFF!"
AND I SAY "MAKE SURE
YOU'RE NEAR A HOSPITAL,
BECAUSE THEY
CAN REALLY BLEED."
(GROANING AND CRYING)
THIS IS WHAT IT
FEELS LIKE WHEN
YOU HAVE A KID?
PROBABLY NOT.
WORSE?
NO.
NO?
NO. I DIDN'T HAVE
ANY PROBLEMS AT ALL.
WANT ME TO SIT THERE NOW?
YEAH, GO.
THAT LITTLE GIRL IS
SO FRIGGIN' ADORABLE.
Dave: NO OFFENSE TO HER,
BUT WE DIDN'T MARRY
EACH OTHER JUST
TO BE TOGETHER.
NO. IT WAS TO BUILD
AND DEVELOP A FAMILY.
SO WE GOTTA GET ON THAT.
THAT WAS A STIPULATION
OF GETTING MARRIED--
DO YOU WANT KIDS?
IF I HAD SAID NO...
WE WOULDN'T BE MARRIED.
WE WOULDN'T BE TOGETHER.
IT'S PART OF THE PACKAGE.
YEP.
I DON'T LIKE CLICHES.
I CAN'T STAND CLICHES,
BUT WHEN IT'S MEANT
TO BE, IT'LL HAPPEN.
I HAVE 458 FRIENDS.
YOU HAVE LIKE 12.
OPEN UP.
STOP.
IF I DRANK ALL OF THIS,
WOULD I DIE?
NO, WINNIFRED.
STOP IT.
I'M JUST ASKING.
THAT'S LIKE 2 SHOTS.
YES, YOU WILL DIE,
BECAUSE I WILL KILL YOU.
THAT WAS GOOD!
YOU LIKE THAT?
(LAUGHING) THAT WAS GOOD.
WINNIFRED.
YEAH?
THERE ARE SO MANY COOL
THINGS IN YOUR HOUSE.
I WANNA GO DO
A PHOTO SHOOT.
CAN WE PLEASE DO
A PHOTO SHOOT RIGHT NOW?
C'MON LIV, PHOTO SHOOT!
AH! I LOVE YOU.
THAT IS SO PRETTY,
OH MY GOD.
WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH.
I LOVE YOU, TOO.
I SAID I DIDN'T HAVE
ANY ISSUES WITH
THE PICTURES YOU
ENDED UP POSTING,
I'M PRETTY CERTAIN--
YOU DID BEFORE
I POSTED THEM.
I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT
WAS GETTING POSTED!
HUH?
BECAUSE YOU DIDN'T
TRUST ME!
YOU WERE DOING A PHOTO
SHOOT WITH OLIVIA.
I'VE SEEN THAT
GIRL'S PHOTOS.
OKAY, BUT THAT'S NOT ME!
YOU DON'T TRUST ME
TO LIKE, MONITOR MYSELF?
LISTEN, WHEN YOU'RE
A PARENT,
YOU THINK YOU
KNOW YOUR KIDS,
BUT EVENTUALLY YOU GET
TO THE AGE WHERE
YOU'RE KIND OF SHUT OUT
OF THEIR PRIVATE LIVES
TO SOME DEGREE, AND
THEY HAVE SOME PRIVACY.
AND YOU KNOW WHAT?
WE TAKE A LEAP OF FAITH
THAT YOU'RE MAKING
GOOD DECISIONS,
BUT WE DON'T KNOW
WITH 100% CERTAINTY--
JUST BECAUSE I'M
HANGING OUT WITH OLIVIA,
DOESN'T MEAN THAT
SHE HAS ANY CONTROL
OVER ME.
WELL, I KNOW THAT.
AND I DO TRUST YOU.
BUT YOU TOTALLY DIDN'T
BECAUSE YOU SAID THAT.
YOU TEXTED DAD THIS
LONG-ASS THING ABOUT
HOW I'M LIKE, YOU
DIDN'T WANT TO SEE
ANY SLUTTY PHOTOS...
YOUR FACEBOOK PROFILE
IS NOT NECESSARILY
WHO YOU ARE.
IT'S MORE LIKE WHO
YOU WANT TO BE.
WE MAKE OURSELVES SEEM
LIKE WE'RE DOWN TO FUCK.
WE MAKE OURSELVES SEEM
LIKE WE'RE UP FOR ANYTHING.
AND LIKE, IN A WAY,
ALL OF THIS INTERNET
STUFF KIND OF TRAPS YOU.
YOU'VE STARTED AN ALTER EGO
THAT HAS TO BE MAINTAINED,
AND HAS TO BE REAL IN A WAY.
SO YEAH, IT DOES KIND OF
SHAPE HOW YOU END UP,
AND HOW YOU ACTUALLY
ARE IN REAL LIFE.
YAY!
YAY.
TAKE A LITTLE BREAK?
TAKE A BREAK?
OKAY.
Nichole:
I THINK DAVE THOUGHT
FOR AWHILE THAT HE
WAS BEING PUNISHED
FOR ALL THE BAD THINGS
THAT HE DID IN HIS LIFE.
I KNEW HE HAD GIVEN UP.
THAT'S WHAT THEY SAY.
IT HAPPENS WHEN YOU
LEAST EXPECT IT.
I WAS LIKE "CRAP,
I DIDN'T GET MY PERIOD."
DAVE WAS LIKE...
WOO HOO, JUST KIDDING.
SO WE WAITED 3 MONTHS.
UNTIL WE WERE OUT OF
THE FIRST TRIMESTER.
3 MONTHS BEFORE
TELLING ANYONE.
LITERALLY, RIGHT AFTER
WE HEARD THE HEART BEAT,
HE WAS ON THE PHONE
WITH HIS MOM.
OH YEAH.
IT WAS GOOD STUFF.
HE CRIED.
SHUT UP.
YOU CRIED.
SHUT UP.
YOU CRIED.
DID NOT.
YOU CRIED.
I LOVE YOU.
I'VE ALWAYS CARED
DEEPLY FOR EVERY
PERSON IN MY FAMILY.
BUT I HAD THAT WALL BUILT UP
SO THAT I COULD KEEP
THEM AT A SAFE DISTANCE
SO THAT I DIDN'T
HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT
THE JUDGMENT OR
THE DISAPPOINTMENT.
WHEN DAVE CAME INTO MY LIFE,
A LOT OF THAT WALL
WAS BROKEN DOWN.
ALRIGHT, YOU GUYS READY
FOR THE COOL STUFF?
WE'RE GONNA GO INTO 3-D.
DUDE.
THAT'S SO COOL!
HERE, WE'LL DO THIS.
AW! BABY ROCCO!
I LOVE THAT NAME.
MY CHILDREN ARE
NOT GOING TO BE
ALLOWED A COMPUTER
IN THEIR OWN ROOM.
IT'S GOING TO BE
IN THE LIVING ROOM
WHERE EVERYONE CAN SEE
WHAT THEY'RE WATCHING.
I CAN'T AS, YOU KNOW,
A FORMER ADULT FILM STAR
TELL MY CHILDREN THAT
SEEING EXTREME PORN
ON THE INTERNET
IS NOT ACCEPTABLE.
JUST THOSE CAN'T BE
YOUR FIRST EXPERIENCES.
YOU HAVE TO TAKE IT
A LITTLE BIT SLOWER THAN THAT.
Woman: ALL RIGHT,
SEE YOU LATER.
Winnifred: I WAS SO GOOD,
I DIDN'T GET IN TROUBLE
LIKE ONE TIME.
UM, YOU CAME HOME
WITH WHAT APPEARS
TO BE A HICKEY
ON YOUR NECK!
WHICH OF THESE SCRAGGILY
LITTLE BOYS IS IT?
AS LONG AS YOU DIDN'T
INHALE WINNIFRED,
IT'S OKAY.
OH MY GOD, YOU'RE SO
FULL OF CRAP.
GLAD TO SEE THERE
WAS ALL TYPES
OF INAPPROPRIATE CONDUCT
GOING ON ON THIS SCHOOL TRIP.
OH TRUST ME,
YOU HAVE NO IDEA.
WAIT.
THANK YOU!
OF COURSE, THERE YOU GO.
YOU'RE THE STAR, OKAY?
THANK YOU!
WHO WAS THAT?
SOME RANDOM GUY.
LOOK AT THE GARDEN,
THERE'S BEAN SPROUTS!
SHE'S NOT INTERESTED
IN BEAN SPROUTS ANYMORE.
NO REALLY, MOM!
I'M INTERESTED.
I'M NOT DRESSED LIKE
A HO BAG, OKAY?
I'M KIDDING. LISTEN
HONEY, IT'S YOUR BODY,
YOU CAN DRESS THE WAY
YOU WANT TO.
THAT SMELLS REALLY GOOD.
CAN I WEAR THAT?
YEAH.
DID YOU NOTICE THAT
I COLORED MY HAIR?
NOW THAT YOU
POINTED IT OUT.
NOBODY HAS NOTICED.
BUT IT'S BLACK NOW.
I'M COMPLETELY HAPPY WITH
THE RESULTS OF THE SURGERY.
I THINK THAT MY SEX
LIFE WILL BE CHANGED
DRAMATICALLY.
I UM...IT HASN'T HAPPENED YET,
BUT I'M ANXIOUS FOR IT,
AND I FEEL EXCITED
TO JUST SHOW OFF MY BODY NOW.
"YOU HAVE CHANGED
MY LIFE FOREVER.
"I WILL BE INDEBTED
TO YOU FOREVER.
"I JUST WANT YOU TO KNOW
"HOW THANKFUL I AM
FOR CLIPPING MY WINGS.
"I LOVE MY NEW LIPS.
"ON BEHALF OF WOMEN
I'LL NEVER KNOW,
THANK YOU FOR IMPROVING
THEIR LIVES."
I MEAN, IT SOUNDS LIKE
I'VE CURED CANCER.
"SHE CHECKS
HER FACEBOOK PAGE.
EVA'S PIC IN THE SHORTS
APPEARS ALONG WITH A COMMENT."
ANYBODY CARE TO READ
MATT'S COMMENT?
I'LL READ IT.
OOH, YEAH.
OKAY, OKAY, GOT IT, GOT IT.
"DAYUM, LOOKIN'
HOT AS HELL, SEXY.
NO WONDER OLD DUDE HIT ON
YOUR ASS. SEE YOU TONIGHT?"
SHE ADDS A COMMENT
OF HER OWN.
"THAT'S MY GIRL.
YOU'RE SO FUCKING HOT,
"I'M ABOUT TO PUNCH YOU
IN THE FACE, BITCH.
STOP BEING SO DAMN SEXY.
LOL. LOVE YA."
THAT IS VERY GOOD.
IT'S AMAZING, IT'S
SO SIMPLE AND YET
VERY POWERFUL.
AND IT SHINES
A DIFFERENT LIGHT ON IT,
LIKE HOW YOU WERE
ALL SAYING BEFORE.
WATCHING THIS PLAY OUT,
IT MAKES YOU
REALIZE MAYBE HOW
YOU'RE BETRAYING YOURSELF
SOMETIMES IN YOUR ACTIONS.
DOES THAT MAKE SENSE?
THIS GIRL'S NOT FINDING REAL
VALUE IN WHO SHE IS.
ALRIGHT, EVERYONE'S DONE.
THAT WAS LIKE...
THIS WAS THE BEST WORK
YOU'VE DONE SO FAR.
EXCELLENT, EXCELLENT.
WILL YOU PLEASE
KEEP PRACTICING.
[BARKING]
WHY ARE YOU FREAKING
OUT, BEATRICE?
I WANNA TALK ABOUT
THE WAY YOU DRESS.
WHAT DO YOU WANT TO SAY?
I'M WORRIED ABOUT IT.
WHY DO YOU WEAR SHIRTS
THAT SHOW YOUR BOOBS?
I DON'T WEAR SHIRTS
THAT SHOW MY BOOBS.
WHY DO YOU WEAR
SHIRTS THAT LIKE,
YOU CAN SEE THE SIDE...
THE SIDES OF MY BRA?
YES.
BECAUSE I THINK
I LIKE THE SIDES
OF MY BRA,
AND I LIKE LOOKING AT IT.
SO YOU DO IT FOR
YOURSELF, OR IS IT LIKE--
IT'S NOT LIKE A
SEXY WAY TO DRESS.
THERE'S A DIFFERENCE
BETWEEN DRESSING
LIKE A WHORE AND DRESSING
THE WAY I DRESS.
THE WAY I DRESS,
IT'S MORE STYLE-BASED.
SO YOU'RE NOT DRESSING
BECAUSE YOU WANT BOYS
TO BE ATTRACTED TO YOU
OR THINK THAT YOU'RE,
LIKE, SEXY? THAT'S NOT
WHAT YOU WANT?
BUT YOU UNDERSTAND
THE WAY YOU DRESS...
WELL AT LEAST I DON'T
ACT LIKE A WHORE.
MAYBE YOU SHOULD BE
WORRIED ABOUT THAT
VS. HOW I DRESS.
[DOG BARKING]
OKAY. SEE, THIS IS
NOT THAT BAD.
OF COURSE JUST BECAUSE
YOU DRESS IN A SEXY,
PROVOCATIVE WAY,
IT DOESN'T MEAN THAT
YOU'RE DOING THOSE THINGS.
I GET THAT.
UM, IT'S TRICKY, YOU KNOW?
SO...I DON'T KNOW.
I'M LOOKING AT YOU
WITH A MIXTURE OF STRESS,
ANXIETY, HORROR
AND REALITY CHECK.
YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL THOUGH.
THANK YOU.
SO, YEAH.
Winnifred:
I THINK THIS IS THE SAME
WITH EVERY TEENAGER.
YOU'RE GOING THROUGH SO
MANY CHANGES THAT LIKE,
IT'S SO FREAKING CONFUSING
TO FIGURE OUT
HOW YOU WANT TO
PORTRAY YOURSELF.
AND THERE'S A LOT OF
GIRLS JUST EXPLOITING
THEMSELVES TO BE
AND PUTTING THEMSELVES
OUT THERE TO BE
JUDGED BY GUYS
AND OTHER GIRLS.
BUT, AT A CERTAIN POINT
IF YOU DON'T WANT
TO BECOME A PROP IN
SOME GUY'S LIFE,
YOU HAVE TO FIND
A GOAL AND A PATH.
AND I DO WANT TO
CHANGE PEOPLE'S LIVES.
AND...
AND I'M NOT GOING
TO DO THAT BY BEING SEXY.
I'LL COME PICK YOU UP
IF YOU DON'T HAVE A RIDE.
ALRIGHT?
ALRIGHT.
IS THAT OLIVIA? LIV!
Dave:
THIS IS OUR LITTLE ROCCO.
THIS IS MY PRIDE AND JOY!
HI DADDY!
YOU'RE NOT GOING TO
BE MOMMY'S FAVORITE NO MORE.