Let's Marry Harry (2026) s01e07 Episode Script

["Where Do We Go From Here" by
Alex Condliffe, Noah Booth & Isla Wolfe]
Where do we go from here? ♪
Where do we go from here? ♪
I came in really hopeful
to this meeting today.
I was excited to meet Sam's mom.
Her mom is really sweet,
but I really don't know
where she stands with us.
And I don't really know
if she likes me at all.
I'm thinking about how that would
affect that relationship with Sam.
Lost the trust
But we're still in love… ♪
[Harry] I need to know where she's at
and how she feels about stuff.
Where do we go from? ♪
Where do we go… ♪
Yo.
- [Sam] Hey.
- [Harry] Hi.
- How you doing?
- [Sam] Good, how are you doing?
I'm so good.
How was, uh, it seeing Mom?
It was so nice. I needed that.
- Yeah.
- I didn't realize it.
Was she worried
about your whole experience here?
- [Sam] Absolutely.
- I'll bet.
She was in a protective stance
of me, obviously.
She's just like,
"Are you sure this is good for you?"
"Like, make sure you love him for him
and vice versa."
She's got your back
and is asking the right questions,
and also protecting you as well.
Yeah. I'm a lover girl. It's easy for me
to put on those rose-colored glasses.
- [Harry] Yeah.
- And ignore things.
And I make excuses for people,
and that's just me as a person.
And I'm trying to make sure
I'm being vigilant
and really seeing things as they are.
You know, obviously, in the past,
I think I've given so much of myself,
and it's just hard when you realize
it's one-sided after so long.
And I'm like,
"I spent so many years doing this."
I don't want to relive that, you know?
Obviously, I'm really excited about you,
but I think it made me be
more of a realist for a second.
I was like, "Wow, this is very serious."
And marriage is--
I only want to do this once.
- You know?
- Same.
I'm not here to be like,
"This is the Harry Jowsey I see now."
This is not Let's Marry Harry,
and Then In Two Weeks, It's Different.
Like, I don't want that.
Like, I just want more of you.
Like "real" real you.
- I don't know, where's your head at?
- [dramatic music playing]
I get it. I fully understand.
But I hope that… you being this far
shows that I'm really serious about you.
And the thing is, you even said,
it was never a question.
You were always confident
you were gonna stay on.
So I think you know
that I feel really strongly towards you.
- [Sam] I do.
- But you just need to hear it?
No, I feel reassured in that way.
I'm like-- I know what we have.
It's more so just, like…
Do you feel by the end of this,
like, you are, like, locked in for life?
'Cause that's, like, a big deal.
[dramatic music continues]
I feel that I'm absolutely ready for this
and destined for this.
And, um, I guess that's 80% of it,
is you just have to feel
like you're ready.
And the other 20 is just doing it.
Mm-hm.
I would hope this is the real you.
I know you give a somewhat PC answer
for cameras in a way, but--
No. Really?
[Sam] Maybe not. I don't know.
- I can't imagine-- I don't know.
- Okay.
- No, don't take that the wrong way.
- Well…
- Yeah, it's kind of unfair.
- I'm sorry. Maybe I phrased that wrong.
You think I'm different
for the cameras. It's kind of crazy.
- No, that was kind of-- That's unfair.
- [Sam] I was saying…
You know, with the idea cameras are there,
whatever, like at least five percent,
like, maybe two percent, I don't know,
is conscious of that.
- Is that not a fair assumption?
- Sure.
- "Sure" or "yes"?
- Yeah, sure.
"Sure" or "yes"?
It's the same thing.
- Sure is like, "Sure, yeah, whatever."
- I'm listening. I'm hearing you out.
Okay.
- So, what do you want to do, then? 'Cause…
- [Sam] Yeah.
After this, then I'll go.
I just don't want to get lost
in the physicality of things tonight. Um…
- For sure.
- [Sam] Yeah.
And I just want to be like--
This is more pressing right now
for my brain and where I'm at.
And I don't know, I don't want
to feel like it's a lust thing.
- Um, it's entirely your choice.
- I know. I was spiraling with that.
I was going back and forth in my head
for the same reasons.
- [Harry] Okay. Easy.
- So, yeah.
I didn't want to take him up to my room
and have that, you know, night together
because I feel like we have
the intimate parts, like, good,
but I just wasn't in the place
where I needed that quite yet.
I think there was just more things
I wanted to talk about.
I wanted more deep convo,
and to know more about him
before that was
even a possibility, you know?
And that's what I just tried to do,
and I didn't get that.
All right. Well, then I will head
on off to my hotel.
["The Weight of Your Words"
by The Venice Connection playing]
- [Sam] Have a good night.
- Good seeing you. The best.
Bye.
I can't fall asleep… ♪
Him walking away like that makes me think
that whatever deep convo
we were trying to have,
it didn't really seem like
he was about it.
And that made me feel… unheard.
And I think my future husband
would have reacted very differently.
[voice breaking] I want the understanding,
the partnership, and…
from what I've seen so far,
I'm like, I don't think that's it.
I keep falling into… ♪
Meeting my mom,
it made it feel very, very real,
and I was hoping
that it was going to go so well, but…
I don't want to force something
that's not right.
That really sucks.
'Cause I'm ready. I'm so ready.
I just want to be loved.
[laughs emotionally]
[song fades]
["We Don't Talk" by Beth De Bacci playing]
Started out like a movie ♪
Like we were made to last ♪
Shoulda known nothing's perfect… ♪
[Sam] I woke up this morning,
and I feel like I was just replaying
the conversation from yesterday
over and over.
I think after the whole Amber
shower situation
and the way that he dealt
with that conversation,
my intuition, in that moment,
was like, "I don't know about this."
It just didn't sit well with me.
I really thought about it,
and I was like, well, I could reiterate
what I'm feeling to his face,
but I don't think he'd give me
an answer I'd even want.
Falling hard, break apart… ♪
I think last night with him
walking away on me,
like, that was plenty.
I think that was our goodbye.
Just accepting my truth
and, like, what I… feel I need to do,
listening to my intuition,
and respecting myself enough
to be like, "This is not for me."
I really want to find my husband,
and it's hard to find that person
that has, like, all the qualities
you're looking for, without sacrificing.
I feel like I found a lot of myself
and, like, leaving today
just on my own terms
is respectful of myself, in a way.
- [knocking on door]
- [music fades]
- [producer] Can I come in?
- [Harry] Yeah.
[producer] Sam has decided to leave.
She was just like,
"I don't feel like he's my husband,
and I think it's time for me to leave."
[melancholy music playing]
I wish I handled it a little bit better.
I wish I was a little bit softer.
I wish Sam and I had a chance
to clear the air,
but she chose to leave.
And now we don't get a final goodbye.
- [downtempo song playing]
- Honey, just messed me up ♪
I like to say I'm doing all right ♪
But that's okay, it's just a half lie ♪
I guess I had a couple long nights ♪
I've been saying that a long time… ♪
[gasps]
- [laughing emotionally] I'm gonna cry.
- [Alex] Oh my God. Hi!
Alex Cooper has been my big sister
for maybe five years now.
She's really taken me under her wing
and is one of my best friends.
Oh my God.
[Harry] I feel a little bit guilty
about Sam.
And today I've called her to help
navigate this next step of this experience
and where I go from here.
The last time I saw you,
we were in my backyard.
We were like, "Are you ready?
You're going to get married."
And now we're what? Down to final…?
Three. Well, two.
Okay, tell me what's going on.
The reason why I called you
is because this morning,
Sam, one of the final three girls,
decided to leave and end our relationship.
And that's why I wanted
to call you and sit down.
You're the one that keeps me accountable.
You're literally the person
that will check me
whenever I'm doing something naughty,
and I really value your opinion.
Okay, well, rewind. What happened?
There was a bit of a situation
that had happened.
When I was having sex
with one of them, this girl, Amber,
Sam walked up,
and… she thought something was going on.
- And Amber was like, "Hey."
- Which it was.
- 100%. Gut instinct was 100% right.
- [Alex] Yeah.
Amber was like, "Hey,
I don't want anyone to know about this."
So in order to protect one fiancée,
I had to lie to another fiancée.
And that really upset Sam.
- And she could tell that I was--
- Lying.
Yeah, ever since that point,
something was off and something was wrong.
And I got a little bit frustrated.
Okay, but pause on that,
just to keep you honest with yourself.
I get why you were probably like, "Okay."
"I want to be truthful and honest
to what Amber is asking me."
But you can't lie to someone else.
So I get why Amber asked you to do that…
But it's a--
…but it's messed up that you didn't--
You weren't honest with Sam.
But it's hard, right?
Like, so, say I'm honest with Sam,
and then I break Amber's trust.
She's like, "I told you to not say that.
Why are you telling people we hooked up?"
I just think that it's a…
it's a hard situation to be put in.
Listen, I'm not here
to, like… be mad at you.
I think I have been so lucky
to get to know the real Harry Jowsey
that is kind and honest.
And yes, you make mistakes,
and yes, you're still growing up,
but where you went wrong
with the Sam thing is, like…
not being forthright
when she did ask you point-blank,
"So, have you slept with someone?"
But to get up and leave
and not have that final conversation
is what really hurts me the most.
But Harry, you're missing it.
She has had a feeling
that you have not been being honest
about having intimate relationships
with another woman.
I get that you're upset, but so was she.
And I know it's not the perfect ending,
but… you can't let that now taint
the rest of your experience.
Because today was the opportunity
where I was gonna do it.
Don't you think Sam would have been like,
"The perfect opportunity
was when I asked you,
and then you lied"?
Yeah.
My advice is don't let
what happened with Sam
happen again, right?
You know, sometimes you need to hear
a different perspective on the situation
to help navigate it moving forward.
I could have handled it
a little bit better,
and I could have sat and tried to talk
through things a little bit more.
It's just a hard one to navigate.
There is no perfect person
that can walk into this experience
and be like, "Oh my gosh,
I'm not gonna mess up
with all these 20-plus women
that I'm dating."
No. Of course there was gonna be missteps.
And now you need to move forward
and be like,
"I'm gonna give it 100% honesty,
and I'm gonna take accountability
when I do mess up."
This isn't the last time you'll mess up
in this experience.
Not the last time you'll mess up
in a marriage.
But you're also getting down to the wire
with these two women.
So it's like, what do you want?
Who do you--
actually in your heart right now?
Amber's good…
but I don't know.
She's a little bit chaotic.
And I just feel like Dannelle,
she's at a real fascinating crossroads
with her life and what she wants.
And I think the conversation
with her mom was the best one I had.
- Okay.
- Her mom was just so protective.
But even with Dannelle,
her guards are still up.
[Alex] Harry is his own worst enemy
in a lot of moments.
And I always tell Harry, like,
"You're being an idiot.
You're acting like an ass."
And that is a part
of Harry's charm, though.
I think the right person
is going to fall in love
with those little quirks of Harry's
where he's like, "Oh my God, I'm sorry.
I messed up, and I didn't know."
That's who Harry is.
I want the best for him,
but Harry's gotta get out of his own way
and just let himself be
in these relationships
and see where that takes him,
instead of continuing to self-sabotage.
When you look at the altar,
when you look at that wedding,
when you think of yourself
and you're laying in your bed
and you're closing your eyes,
you will know exactly whose face it is.
Because it's real.
You're getting married. This is like--
You're nervous because you have to decide,
and this isn't an easy decision,
but you know the right decision
in your heart.
I really believe that.
You know, half of me wants to shut down
and kind of go into my shell a little bit
and retreat from this experience
after being hurt
and feeling sad from the Sam situation.
But seeing Alex reminded me
why I'm doing this, why I'm here,
and to kind of give me a new lease
of taking charge
of this next step in the next couple days.
I can't stop ♪
Sleepwalking into your arms again ♪
Keep wanting you to come back to me ♪
'Cause the memory is all I have ♪
'Cause every time my eyes close
I'm right back ♪
- Sleepwalking ♪
- [Harry sighs]
Today, we are flying to New Zealand
where I get to take Dannelle and Amber
back to meet my sisters and their kids,
which I'm really excited about
because I don't think
I've ever done that before.
I know Rose has met, um, Georgia,
and that's the only girl I think
my family's ever met that I've dated.
But I'm also really nervous
because this is the first time
I've gone home since my dad had passed.
And it's also the first time I'm seeing
my sisters since our dad had passed.
And it's going to be difficult
because I believe
maybe the reality of him being gone
will set in, or whatever else.
And I'm just a little bit scared
of-- of that possibility.
Hopefully they love New Zealand,
hopefully they love my family,
um, and hopefully I can hold it together.
["I Still Believe"
by John Coggins playing]
But there is a light coming
To carry me home ♪
There's still some fire running
Through these tired bones ♪
There is a hope holding onto me ♪
There is a light coming ♪
I still believe ♪
There is a light, oh ♪
Oh ♪
Oh ♪
[woman on PA] Welcome to Nelson.
- Oh, oh, oh ♪
- There is a light ♪
- Oh, oh ♪
- There is a light, yeah ♪
There is a light ♪
[song fades]
Left side of the road,
left side of the road…
[emotional music playing softly]
It's kind of weird.
A weird feeling being here.
It's just like a weird… dream.
There's so many layers to it.
Like, hey, back to where your dad passed,
but also, you're going
to marry someone in a few days.
[sighs] It's kind of… [chuckles]
It's, like, so bittersweet.
It's kind of crazy
because the weather, this rain…
oddly just reminds me of him a lot
because we… whenever we'd be
driving in our blue truck--
We used to have a blue truck
that we'd take over to Collingwood,
where we had our house.
Just reminds me
of being in a truck with him,
and it was just always cold.
And so is New Zealand.
It's really special.
I think just the biggest thing that's…
[sniffles] …making me feel everything
is just what it's gonna be like
to see my sisters.
[voice breaking]
And knowing that last time we were…
It's just kind of us three.
I feel like we really bonded
over that time,
and able to take shifts
taking care of Dad.
Just so he was never alone.
[exhales, sniffles]
Oh, man.
[exhales]
All right, we're good.
[sniffles]
- [Harry] Hello.
- [boy] Oh!
Ah, what's going on?
- Oh my God!
- [Harry] What's going on?
Can I have a hug?
Give me a hug.
- Oh, hey.
- [woman] How you doing?
- [Harry] Hey, little man.
- [heartwarming music playing]
[Rose] Hey, sweetie.
- [man] Hazza's in the house.
- [woman] Hazza's in the house.
[Rose] Welcome home.
It's overwhelming to see my sisters again
and to feel their energy,
and the fact that it's all come
back to this,
and I'm able to come back
and be with them is really special.
- How you doing?
- I'm good. So good to see you, darling.
I feel at peace and at ease.
- [Dan] Emotions! Emotions!
- [Lucia] What are you doing?
- [Dan] Hey, big fella.
- Hey, buddy.
[Dan] What have you created here?
- Sonny, come here.
- [Sara] Harry's on a mission.
- Now you're as tall as him, nearly.
- You're as tall as me.
- What's going on? What'd I miss?
- What's going on with you?
- What have we missed?
- [Lucia] What have we missed?
[Harry] Oh, good.
[Sara] Oh, Harry, it's so good to see you.
- [Harry] You as well.
- How are you feeling?
[Dan] You've got some explaining to do.
What's going on?
[all laughing]
- [Lucia] How many chicks?
- [Dan] What's going on?
We started with 20 fiancées,
so now we're down to the final two.
It's been a really tough experience
this whole time.
[Lucia] Now you've got your family
with you to help.
You guys gotta make a big decision.
I don't want to make a decision.
- It's up to you.
- Hang on a minute.
- It's you guys.
- Our decision. A lot of pressure.
I know that Dad wanted him
to get married and have children,
and I think that's a really strong voice
in Harry's head.
Harry has always been
so fearless and adventurous.
Seeing him meet his wife
through this process,
it's a really intense way to do it,
but it's exactly who he is.
I'm so excited for him.
No, the final two are really good.
So there's Amber,
you guys are gonna meet today.
She's Māori.
I met her mom, her brother,
but they lost--
She lost her dad, as well,
when she was nine.
He was a, um,
a water photographer in Hawaii.
She's epic,
and she's probably as tall as you.
- [Dan] Primo.
- Yeah.
- As tall as you!
- As tall as you.
What do you have in common with her?
I just really appreciate
her… her outlook on life.
- She's very free-spirited.
- Nice.
The reason why I think--
This might be a bit crazy.
But the reason why I think
she's super important is…
The whole time I was telling everyone
about how important bees are for me.
- Oh, yeah.
- With Dad.
It was the thing me and him'd talk about,
and I never saw any bees any time.
[Dan] Yeah.
And we're at a penthouse in LA,
like so high up.
And a bee flies and lands
right in front of us.
- [Rose] No way!
- A high-altitude bee?
Literally flies up and then--
Yeah. I was like, "I don't know how
that happened or why it would happen."
Then, "Maybe I'm overthinking that,
but maybe that's Dad's pick."
We'll take all the signs
we can get, honey.
Yeah, then there's also Dannelle.
So Dannelle's a little bit more, uh,
I guess, like,
perfect on paper for me, I think.
Like, she's 33.
She started this whole thing
a little bit guarded,
but she's always handled everything
with, like, elegance and class.
When the girls are having drama,
she stays out of it, doesn't care.
That's a quality.
She's, like, really sweet and soft.
But with Amber, I've noticed with myself
that I've been more playful
and can be a little bit more silly.
With Dannelle, she makes me
want to be a better guy.
So it's a weird combination.
I just really hope Dad would like them.
I think he would.
We were thinking how beautiful
it would've been for him
to know that we're all getting together.
- Your coming back.
- Yeah.
- [Sara] I feel like he's around.
- Yeah, he's around. He's everywhere.
Yeah, it's just so nice to see you guys.
And I was crying on the way here
because I just… can't believe it.
- [Rose] It's so good to see you.
- [Harry] Yeah.
We didn't know you were gonna come back
with a wife when we were like, "Bye!"
- Me neither. [laughs]
- "We'll see you soon." And then… [laughs]
[Sara] I love being here for Harry.
Like, I like it that he… can come home
and just be Harry Jowsey.
You know, well, "Just be Harry Jowsey."
Big statement.
So he can come home and just be himself.
He's not famous at home, you know?
He's… he's just relaxed,
and the children, uh, climb all over him,
and my kids love him, and he's home.
Pretty crazy, huh?
[Sara] Yeah.
Actually, sometimes
when Rio sees you on film,
he goes, "Mum,
is Harry in a different world?"
- Like, actually thinks--
- I think so.
Yeah. "He's in LA, a different world."
But coming back into this world
and bringing the ladies with you…
- Pretty weird.
- [Rose] Wow, that's quite wild.
- Yeah, it's pretty crazy.
- Surreal.
[Rose] Oh, it's just so beautiful
to see family,
especially after a year of not seeing him.
And we've been through such a big change,
and he's been going
through so many changes,
and, um, he's not really brought
a lady home to see us.
So I'm a little nervous for him,
but excited. Very excited.
I just hope he feels like he can make
the right decision wholeheartedly
and not be too stressed
about making the wrong decision, you know?
- You're so cute. How you doing?
- [Amber] Good.
- They're so excited to meet you.
- I'm so excited.
I'm a little nervous,
but I'm more excited.
It's really crazy to…
be around someone's, like, tribe
and their favorite people,
but I feel like the most special thing
about marriage
is bringing two worlds together
and merging two loves together.
I told the kids
you're the same height as them too.
- Stop.
- Okay, here they are.
- Wait, do we take our shoes off?
- No. Come on in.
- Hello. Everyone, this is Amber.
- Hi, guys. Hi.
- [Harry] These are my sisters. Rose.
- Hi, Amber. Nice to meet you.
[Amber] Nice to meet you.
- It's so good to meet you guys.
- Welcome!
- [Amber] Hi.
- [Harry] Sara.
- [Sara] Hi.
- Amber, nice to meet you.
- How are you?
- [Harry] Are you guys nervous?
- [Rose] No!
- [Harry] Be friendly.
Nice to meet you. Welcome.
Anyone that brings their fiancée
or future love to meet their family,
it's always going to be a bit daunting,
but it's always like,
"Hm, what have we got here, then?"
kind of thing from a sister's perspective.
But it's just important that he's happy.
- [Amber] This is amazing.
- My niece and nephew.
- Hi!
- [Louis] I'm Louis.
Amber, nice to meet you.
[Rose] Gorgeous.
- Hi.
- [Lucia] Hi! How are you?
We do the Māori greeting,
which is the hongi.
Noses together, ready? And sniff in.
[both inhale]
- [all laughing and cheering]
- [Lucia] Yes! That's the one.
Oh my God, you're so beautiful.
- [Amber] Oh, so are you!
- She's so little.
You guys look like my cousins.
- Like seriously. Yeah.
- Really? That's good.
[Rose] Would you like a drink?
Should we sit down, have a drink
and a chat? Come on, let's do this.
- I want to sit next to you.
- Cheech, pass me my coffee?
- After you, Harry.
- [Harry] Okay.
- Okay.
- Oh, wow.
[Louis] Smells pretty…
Were you nervous about coming here today?
- Maybe more excited, actually, you know?
- Yeah, good.
[indistinct chattering]
- [Harry] Rio!
- [Lucia] This is Amber.
This is Dan.
- [Dan] Hi, nice to meet you.
- Hi! Amber. Nice to meet you.
[Harry] You ready? Here we go.
- Hey, nice.
- One more.
- Ano.
- [Harry] One more.
Ano.
- Hey, buddy.
- [camera shutter clicks]
- Wow. So cool.
- So cute.
Oh wow!
[all laughing]
[indistinct chattering]
I was telling them
you didn't talk to me first two days--
- You were asleep?
- [Amber] What?
- Oh my gosh! Are you saying good things?
- I was saying nice things.
But I was like,
the first couple days, she was asleep.
- You guys have to understand--
- Tell us why you were tired.
[Amber] Well, the process is a bit crazy.
Like, you're thrown into a house
with 20 other girls, or 19 other girls.
It's a lot of energy.
I do my own thing, usually.
So that was just a big adjustment.
[Lucia] Independence is very attractive.
[Amber] Thank you.
- Go, Cheech. Time to shine, baby!
- [Amber] She gets me.
[Louis] Deep answer.
Am I wrong?
She understands. She gets me.
Have you been married before?
[Amber] Yes.
And how'd that go? Obviously, not well.
Obviously…
Well, you know, I grew up--
My mom raised us Mormon.
And when you're raised that way,
they expect you to be with someone
that's gonna lead and guide your life.
They're very serious about that.
- And that was the expectation.
- That's a lot. How old were you?
- Um, I was 19, turning 20. Really young.
- Yeah. Wow.
[Amber] My mom was
really, really protective of me.
Um, she wanted to guide
my life really badly for me.
So I got married pretty young
and then realized
I don't think it was for me.
And that's when I had to have
a talk with her about that.
The reason that we split
was I no longer felt
like I could really be myself
being Mormon.
And I really wanted him to be
with someone that would give him
the life that he wanted.
You know,
he was really involved in the church,
and I was kind of a little bit more
open-hearted and free-spirited.
I wanted to get to know myself
on a different level.
You know, I just felt like I wasn't
the version of myself that I could be,
and I had to leave the church
in order to learn who I was.
And that came with a divorce.
[Harry] And the ring. Sorry.
- Wow. That's crazy.
- [Amber] Pretty, huh?
- It's one of two?
- [Harry] Yeah.
I want them to see this.
Sorry to interrupt, I forgot to show them.
- [Lucia] That's really pretty.
- Yeah, that's really pretty.
- What's your star sign?
- Aries. What's yours?
That's great. Same as Harry. I'm a Gemini.
- Oh, really?
- Yeah, I like closets too.
[all laughing]
- I-- I had to tell them.
- Why?
- [Harry] It's so funny.
- [Amber] It is.
Well, here, look, I'll take the boys.
We'll go outside, hang with the kids.
- You can chill with the girls.
- Okay.
[Harry] So then you guys
can have unmonitored chat.
Shall I come and sit with you, Rosie?
- Sure, sounds good.
- Whatever's comfortable.
[Lucia] What do you like about Harry?
Harry possesses
so many good qualities that I love
that I think a lot of men lack.
[Lucia] Mm-hm.
[Amber] I feel like he's so unique
and so on his path.
He's so aware.
I'm really drawn towards that.
I like a really adventurous spirit.
- He's an adventurous guy. He is.
- Yes.
But I'm a pretty, like, chill girl,
you know?
How are you feeling about next week,
about the wedding happening?
Maybe if you're the chosen one?
Yeah, I've felt calm this whole process.
Like, I've always felt calm.
I always felt like there was
a knowing and this understanding
and this, like… just this pull, so…
It'll be so nice for Harry
to have a companion, I think.
Because being in LA,
um, he's got really good friends,
but I've always felt like, you know…
Sometimes I worry
that he gets lonely a little.
So it'd be really nice for me to feel
like he was walking
alongside someone in life.
- That companionship is really important.
- Yeah. Good friend.
- Yeah, life is better shared.
- That would be nice for Harry, yeah.
Coming home and being here
is just another reminder
of why I started this whole thing,
started this whole process.
It's so special and important
to me to have a family.
The past week, I've been waking up
just really unsure about this decision.
And after today, I can definitely see
Amber becoming my wife.
You know, this all just made sense.
All right, guys. Well, we are gonna
continue on with our day and go on a date.
So we're gonna love you and leave you.
- So say goodbye to everyone.
- Exciting. Bye!
- [Amber] It was nice to meet you.
- So nice to meet you.
I definitely feel closer
to Harry after today.
After meeting his family and his people,
that really showed me a lot.
Like, they're so special.
They love each other so much.
That would be
such an amazing family to be a part of.
- [Rose] She's lovely.
- [Sara] She's lovely.
Gosh, man, she was really relaxed.
I would have been so nervous.
- [Louis] Yeah, she was just composed, eh?
- [Lucia] Yeah.
She's been through a lot
to get to this point.
Meeting Amber today, she was really lov--
Like, just straight off the bat,
really warm and comfortable,
and it felt natural,
sitting around the table
and having a chat.
Just felt kind of relaxed, actually.
And meeting Amber today,
Dad would have loved meeting her.
She was less nervous than I thought.
She was pretty at ease, which was lovely.
- [Harry] Aren't they the best?
- [Amber] They're so cute.
- You're so lucky that's your family.
- [Harry] I know.
- I love them. They're so sweet.
- They're so cool.
You're gonna love the rest of my family
and friends too. Like, they're cool.
They're really cool.
[Harry] Today's already been so special.
And I feel like
we're getting closer and closer
to falling deeper for each other.
I think my dad would love Amber.
Do you wanna go on a tour of New Zealand?
[upbeat music playing]
[Amber laughing] Oh my God.
[both laughing]
- What?
- Nothing.
- Are you nervous?
- Yeah, I'm nervous.
- Why?
- Oh my God.
I can't wait. This is amazing.
So we're gonna go on a tour
where I grew up, so it's pretty crazy.
[Amber] We're so lucky
we get to fall in love like this.
Wow.
We are. Come on.
Say it out loud ♪
Today was a heavy day to start off with.
I had a lot of emotions going into today.
And I think that, this afternoon,
she really gave me that levity
and that light that I needed today,
and the silliness that I needed
to go through today.
- This is crazy.
- [Amber] I love it.
Wow.
She keeps reminding me
that things will be so fun together.
And she's locked in on me,
and I think I'm locked in on her too.
[Amber] Are you recognizing anything yet?
[Harry] This small town over here
is called Nelson.
I got my first ever tattoo
on my bum over here.
- That's where you got that tattoo?
- The elephant. Down there.
- There's a tattoo store.
- [Amber] Wow.
This is amazing. We go on some sexy dates.
We've been killing it.
I'm good, you're good, it's all good… ♪
[Amber] So much green.
So beautiful.
[Harry] That's so cool.
Can't pull me out ♪
It's not that complicated ♪
There's no better way to say it ♪
Can't pull me out ♪
[Harry] Oh wow.
Can't pull me out ♪
[Amber] I can't believe we got a rainbow.
- We're lucky.
- [Harry] What does it mean?
- Because I'm from the Rainbow State.
- Oh!
[Amber] What a place to grow up.
It's so many emotions,
because we're feeling things
for the first time together.
And to know that he's bringing me
home to his family
and we're doing really special things,
it feels so right.
It feels like home,
and I feel like
that's what we have with each other.
[Harry] The reason
why this is so important
and why I wanted to take you to a beach
is 'cause, when I was young,
my dad and some of my sisters and stuff,
we would walk on the beach,
and we'd dig our heel in the sand,
and we'd pull up cockles and pipis,
and we'd get buckets full.
Um, but it'd be so nice,
'cause we'd be at the beach all day.
Because like, how could you not?
But I've never brought anyone ever here.
- Really?
- No, no one's ever come here.
- This is special.
- It's really special.
And this part of my life
is kind of sacred.
- I feel so special to be here, then.
- Do you?
Yeah.
[Harry] Obviously, it's kind of
a bit of a crazy experience.
It's really special.
I'm glad that we are doing it.
But on the other hand,
there is a big decision
to be made in a couple of days.
[Amber] Mm-hm.
[Harry] I want to know,
you have to be honest…
You have to tell me how you feel.
Tell me everything that you're thinking.
And be honest.
And don't stop yourself from anything.
Why don't you go first?
Why don't you share?
Because you can't answer a question
with a question.
- That's the rules today.
- Yeah, but I have that same question.
And I need the same answers.
You want to know how I feel?
It was a lot, like a big, overwhelming…
[sniffles] …day for me,
because first time coming back in a year
since we watched Dad pass.
And then being excited
about seeing my siblings,
but then being excited
about them meeting you,
so I think I was kind of…
My-- My brain was
all over the place today. Um…
There were a few things about me
that was worried about this whole trip
being about trying
to figure that out and navigate that,
and being like, "All right,
will my feelings and things
be pushed to the side
and kind of be triumphed
because I'm emotional?"
But you brought the levity of the day
and the lightness, what I needed,
and the rainbow…
[Amber] Mm.
…which was really special. Um…
- Yeah, the rainbow was my sign.
- Yeah.
[Amber] 'Cause you've had signs,
a bee and all that.
The whole time we've had
this whole experience,
there's been no bees around anyone else.
Anyone else, there's been no other bees.
- Really?
- No one else, there's been a bee around.
And I was telling my sisters,
like, "Is that Dad making his pick?"
But, no, I, um…
know that…
in a few days, I'm gonna marry someone,
and I have really, really good feelings
about you.
And I definitely am falling
in love with you.
I'm falling in love with you too.
[hopeful music playing]
Falling in love like this is so beautiful.
It's such a blessing to be able
to open up ourselves to each other.
I felt really safe, because I'm not just
gonna give my heart to anyone.
To be able to be here
and find each other is so special.
Like, I know that it was meant to be.
I know that this is something that…
could be meant for me or is meant for me.
And I'm just-- I'm really leaning in.
Like, I feel really good
about getting married.
[voice breaking] Yeah.
I think… I learned--
You learn so much with love.
And I never--
I've felt so much pain with love, but…
[sighs emotionally] You have to be ready
to… welcome it back into your life.
You know, I get really emotional
because we don't wanna lose
anyone that we love, so it's hard.
This is huge for me.
- Okay, let's go.
- [Harry exhales]
- ["Mind Reader" by Guesthouse playing]
- So if you want me, tell me ♪
'Cause I'm not a mind reader ♪
Oh ♪
Today's a beautiful day.
The sun is shining.
The birds are chirping.
And I'm more confused
than I ever was in this whole process.
I need some clarity,
because yesterday with Amber
was so incredible, and we had so much fun.
You're supposed to close my door.
[Harry] And it's hard to imagine
someone getting along with my family
as easily as Amber did.
But I'm bringing Dannelle home today,
and hopefully by tonight,
I get some more answers.
I'm learning how to be a husband.
Yeah. [laughing]
[Dannelle] I'm feeling happy.
Meeting his family
is obviously a big deal,
and I feel like it's a big step
in the right direction.
Okay.
Hi.
Hi. I'm so excited.
- Are you? Are you nervous?
- Yeah. Nervous and excited.
I couldn't imagine us getting married
and me not meeting anyone in his family.
And it's just like
it's all becoming more real now.
You know, it's days away at this point.
And it's important, you know, for…
us to obviously have good communication
and trust with each other.
I am, you know,
trying to be more vulnerable.
So I think the more open I am, the better.
- [Harry] Um, I really like you a lot.
- [Dannelle] You do?
[Harry] Yeah.
I, obviously, really like you too.
And I feel like,
'cause I'm gonna meet your sisters,
it will probably come up.
[Harry] Yeah.
And I feel like
I'd rather say it with you first,
I guess, rather than with your sisters.
But I love you.
I love you too.
- Do you? Mm.
- Yeah.
["Suyopa" by T-Sean & Kekero playing]
That's what I was thinking
when I saw you in there.
- Aww.
- I was like, "Oh wow."
When did you want to say that?
Like, I don't know.
Yeah, I just wanted to, like,
say it with you first,
rather than, like,
explaining that to your sisters,
and then being like,
"Hey, sorry I haven't told you that yet."
- You gave me a heart flutter.
- In a good way?
- Yeah.
- Okay, good.
Wow.
[Dannelle] Aw.
- Here we go!
- Okay.
- Are you excited?
- Yeah.
Okay, cool.
You can be my lover ♪
Away, away ♪
- [Harry] Ready?
- [Dannelle] Mm-hm.
The time has come… ♪
There they are.
[Sara] Oh, hi.
- [Harry] Hello.
- Hi, Harry!
- Hi, guys.
- Hi.
- Hi.
- [Harry] This is Dannelle.
- [Rose] Hi, Dannelle.
- This is Rose.
Hi, it's nice to meet you.
I've seen him
in such a different environment
for so long in this experience,
so to see him now in this…
You're so cute.
How he interacts with the kids
and how he's so close with his sisters,
I was just like, "Oh, that's so cute.
He's gonna be such a good dad."
[laughs] It does make me love him more.
- [Sara] How you feeling today, Harry?
- Good, good. I'm excited.
It was a bit of a build-up.
We hadn't seen you for so long.
- Yesterday we were--
- "You need to come home more often."
- You've missed him, I'm sure.
- [Sara] Are you coming back for Christmas?
- One step at a time.
- [all laughing]
- I gotta get through the wedding first.
- [Sara] Yeah.
- Yeah.
- You're gonna come for the wedding?
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
- [Dannelle] Right? Good.
- Oh yeah.
- Yeah, are you gonna be there?
- I hope so.
[all laughing]
- I sure hope so.
- Yeah.
Oh yeah, we're-- It's exciting.
Oh. Oh yeah! I haven't shown
you guys the ring yet.
- [Sara] Goodness.
- [Dannelle] Yeah.
- [Harry] She's got a second one too.
- [Rose] A second one?
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
- This one right behind it.
- Because I…
[Rose] Oh, that's really sweet.
…gave it to her. But it was, like,
um, a sneaky thing I did.
[Rose] Can I see the second one?
See? It's all the rage,
having two engagement rings.
No, 'cause the little one-- I thought
it'd be funny to come on this show
and be like,
"If I'm about to marry someone,
does she want me for my money
or actually love me?"
This one fit her perfect.
So I was like, "Well, it's meant to be."
[Dannelle] It was meant to be.
You know, he talks about you guys so much,
and I know you guys are
so important to him, so…
It's a big deal for me today
meeting you guys. Yeah.
[Sara] How's it been for you so far
from the beginning to now?
[Dannelle] It's been a rollercoaster.
Yeah.
You've been chilling. You've been fine.
You think so?
What do you mean?
- No, in the beginning…
- She's been all good.
…there were, like, 20 girls
in the house, right? So I'm like…
[inhales deeply] It was just a lot,
'cause I live by myself.
Like, I'm not used to having
so many people around,
so that was a big adjustment too.
And then, of course,
everyone's fighting for his attention.
- How'd that go for you?
- It was a lot. I'm honestly--
[all laughing]
I was like, "I'm not going to be
this crazy person that I'm not,
just to, like, get his attention." Um…
Do you feel that he's open enough
and authentic enough
and vulnerable enough for you?
Like, our first conversation
was super good.
Like, I felt like I opened up right away,
you opened up right away.
I feel like we learned
a lot about each other.
And then, like,
we've just progressed so well with, like--
I'm a slow burner, but I feel like now,
like, I can tell him anything,
and I feel like
he can tell me anything too,
and we're very, like,
good with communication.
- That's cool. Yeah. Wow.
- [Harry] Yeah.
Dannelle is very well-spoken
with how she feels.
It's taken her a while to trust me enough
to talk about that stuff freely.
But now, importantly, she's talking
about it in front of my people,
my sisters,
and that's really important
and really special.
[Dannelle] How are you guys doing?
Um, 'cause I know it's a year
since your father passed, and it's hard.
And, of course, having Harry back home too
must feel good that you guys can…
It's good to come back together.
Being together is what gets us through.
[Dannelle] Yeah. You guys need each other,
rely on each other.
Yeah, and to see each other
is really healing.
- [Dannelle] Mm-hm. Yeah, good.
- Yeah.
He's such his dad's son
in his charisma and his…
You know, Dad was so funny and charming,
and Harry's got those beautiful strengths.
- And his mother's beautiful smile.
- Yeah.
[Sara] He's such a lovely man, isn't he?
- [Dannelle] Amazing.
- [Sara] Yeah.
- Hi, buddy.
- [Dannelle] You have your Band-Aid?
- Can I help you put that on your owie?
- She's really good. She's a nurse.
- Yeah.
- She can help you with it, sweetie.
I just think, you know,
they're seeing her around the kids
and seeing her around the family.
Does that feel better? Yeah?
[laughing]
And I can just see her
fully fitting into this environment.
[Sara] Tell us about your family.
Yeah. So, growing up,
it was me, my mom, my dad, and my sister.
Um, and then they split up
when I was, like, 15.
Um, when I was 15, my mom told me
that my dad wasn't my real dad.
So that was, you know, kind of crazy.
And then…
- "Kind of crazy. "
- Kind of crazy.
- [Sara] Crazy.
- It's pretty up there.
- It's identity crisis kind of stuff, eh?
- [Dannelle] Mm-hm.
- Wow.
- [Dannelle] Yeah.
So, yeah, by the time I was 17,
then I wanted to, like, find my real dad.
I knew he was, like,
a cop in Yuma, Arizona.
So I call the police station
and tell them that I'm looking for my dad
who doesn't know I exist.
And they're like, "Sure."
- [Lucia] Feels like a movie. Crazy.
- Yeah, right?
- Yeah.
- [Dan] What happened there?
And then my dad called me.
And he was like,
"I heard that you're my daughter."
And then, so he flew me out to Dallas.
We did a DNA test,
and I met all my family on that side.
So, I have a younger sister.
- And then--
- [Lucia] And that was all at 17 years old?
- Yeah, yeah.
- [Lucia] Wow.
- [Harry] Heavy, huh?
- Wow.
It's a pretty mad thing to go
at such a young age.
Wow.
For a long time, I was still in denial.
Like, "Oh, I don't really
have any trauma." You know?
And then I just, like, as of recently,
I'm like,
"Actually, that's really messed up."
And I feel like that's where
all my trust issues kind of stem from.
'Cause I was best friends with my mom.
I thought that I could trust her,
but also part of me thinks too,
like, maybe she did it to protect me.
It's something I'm aware of
and working on and… Yeah.
But I have a really good relationship
with my real dad now.
- [Sara] Wow. Well done.
- And her mom.
- And my mom. Yeah.
- [Rose] Amazing.
How did you find
introducing Harry to your family?
[Dannelle] Um, so he met my mom.
She had a lot of questions for him,
but for all the right reasons.
Yeah. Of course.
As long as he doesn't move you
to New Zealand.
- As you said.
- Exactly, yeah.
She was worried about him
stealing me away,
but, um, she knows too,
I need to live my life.
[Harry] Yeah.
Have you thought about having children?
Yes, I want children.
- [Rose] You do?
- Yeah.
When I was younger, I wanted five kids.
- Same. I still do.
- Yeah.
Lucia's like that. Like, "Bring it on!"
- [Dannelle] Yeah.
- Baby Town.
Um…
- [Lucia] You want two?
- What it wants, up to you, I guess.
- [Dannelle] You have a say.
- You can have the conversations together.
- [all laughing]
- Whatever happens, happens.
[Sara] We've got a really big family.
It'll be great.
- The more, the merrier.
- Yeah.
The wedding's pretty soon.
Are you guys in love with each other?
Yeah.
- Yeah. We are.
- [Rose] Aw.
- Yeah.
- Yeah? That's good.
You know, like, I've just been
looking for my person.
- Right?
- [Rose] Yeah.
And I feel like when we had
our first conversation,
when I walked away from it,
I was like, "I'm scared."
'Cause I just felt, like…
I just felt such a pull towards him.
And just, like, he's so easy to talk to.
- So funny, of course. [laughing]
- Yeah.
And what else?
- [all laughing]
- [Dannelle] Um…
No, just somebody, you know, that does--
They feel like they complete you.
You know, someone that feels like home.
- Sure. That's nice.
- [Sara] That's sweet.
[Dannelle] Yeah.
[Sara] And the crowd went, "Aw."
- 'Cause home's not just walls, is it?
- [Dannelle] Yeah.
- It's a place where you feel…
- [Dannelle] Yeah.
[gentle music playing]
[Rose] It's quite a contrast
to having met Amber yesterday.
They're very different.
Completely different, you know?
- She's a little more fun and…
- Full opposites.
- [Harry] Yeah.
- [Rose] Yeah.
And like, last time Amber spent the night,
after that whole date,
and we had just had so much fun.
And then it's just really tough,
'cause I have so much fun with one person,
forget about the other one.
Then with the other one,
I forget about the first one.
Today, we were driving. I was so excited
to show Dannelle everything.
"You get to see my family.
This is so good, such a light day."
'Cause yesterday was quite heavy.
And I'm like,
"This is great. Everything's good."
So I don't know, seeing her with the kids
and how she talks to everyone,
she seems more of a wife and family type.
Right.
With Amber, she's just like,
"Whatever happens, happens."
I actually forgot to ask Amber yesterday
if she wanted to have children.
Completely slipped my mind.
I thought I'd get a chance to later on.
- [Harry] Yeah.
- [Rose] And I didn't.
It just seems like she's
more certain of what she wants.
- This one?
- [Harry] Yeah.
But I got to hear it from you guys,
who grilled her.
- She's lovely.
- [Harry] Yeah.
She's lovely! She's beautiful.
She's really quite humble as well,
and gentle.
- I like her.
- And sweet.
[Sara] Yeah. She's really sweet.
Um, you guys said you were in love
with each other. That's massive.
- [Harry] She said it on the drive in.
- To here?
She said, "I didn't want
to say it in front of your sisters
without saying it to you first."
I thought that was really special.
'Cause I do feel it.
Like, I feel so much peace with her.
- That's beautiful.
- Yeah. I feel like--
She said she feels at home with you.
Do you feel that way?
Yeah, everything just feels
too perfect and too nice.
I guess I'm used to relationships
having problems from the start.
- So I don't know.
- With an expiry date.
[Harry] Yeah. Knowing that,
"This is going to be good, and done soon."
- I always knew it was going to be her.
- Yeah.
Amber, I was always a question mark.
Okay. How do you feel today?
- Question mark with both of them.
- Okay, cool. This is good.
This is where you should be.
It's only two days till you get married.
- Couple of days.
- Yeah. I don't know.
- Yeah?
- [Rose] It's all pretty wild.
This is all pretty crazy.
Yeah. We're choosing a girl.
Yeah. I don't know anymore.
- How are you going to sleep tonight?
- I'm not.
Well, with Dannelle. So I'll be good.
You said you were in love with Dannelle.
That's major. Your question answered.
If you're in love with Dannelle,
that's your lady.
- [Harry] But I could be with Amber.
- That's right.
Who would Dad like the most?
Dannelle. Yeah.
Really?
I think so. Don't get me wrong,
he'd love Amber too--
Fuck, he would love Amber.
- He'd love both of them.
- [Sara] I think Dad's a traditional man.
Yeah, he's traditional.
She'd be a traditional wife.
If I ask you to pick one,
who's the first name you think of? Go.
And no wrong answers.
- They're both great.
- I just feel--
Go, you're not thinking quick. Go, say it.
- I think Dannelle.
- Okay.
The first name that came--
- Go! You picked Amber.
- Amber.
Yeah. That's what I thought.
That's what I literally said.
I was like, "You're gonna like Dannelle,
you're gonna like Amber."
Your energy was way more spicy yesterday.
It could've been because you arrived.
But energetically,
I think Amber's a match. I really do.
I think this whole process
has been very strange and fascinating,
and to be at a point where I could--
I'm in love with two women,
and I could imagine
my life with both of them.
- Lots to think about.
- [Rose] We love you.
Love you guys. I'm gonna go.
Take her on a date.
[Rose] So we'll see you soon.
- [Sara] Enjoy the date.
- [Harry] Yeah.
[Sara] We're proud of you.
I thought from the start,
I knew it was Dannelle.
I knew I was gonna marry her at the end.
And now after these past few days
with Amber,
I was pretty, pretty certain
that I was gonna marry Amber.
And now I'm back to Dannelle,
but now I'm also confused
because I really have good feelings
with Amber.
- [Dannelle] Thank you.
- See you, sweetie.
[Dannelle] It was so nice to meet you.
It's just… it's just such a weird thing
to think about.
Like, this would never happen.
I'm grateful that I'm in this position.
I'm grateful that I have
two incredible women that love me
and give me the… the opportunity
to be their man.
- Ciao!
- See you, guys.
But that makes it harder.
[Lucia] What do you guys think?
[Rose] I just think she would be wanting
to have a family,
which might be more appropriate.
It doesn't feel like Amber wanted
to have a family right away,
and Harry wants to have kids.
I don't know.
They're both beautiful, but they--
- So different.
- [Lucia] So different!
He was right, yeah. Yeah.
If I was him, I'd be like, "What?"
Well, he is. He is like that.
You know?
- [emotional song playing]
- It's not too soon ♪
To say you make my heart beat ♪
Run away without me ♪
You ♪
[Dannelle] So how was your talk when you
went and just spoke with your sisters?
They…
loved you. Like, a lot.
- [Dannelle] Mm.
- Like, adored you.
[Dannelle] Can you imagine if they didn't?
This would be
a really awkward car ride home.
- [Harry] Yeah.
- [Dannelle laughing]
[gentle music playing]
Any idea what we're doing?
Um…
Petting some nice cows?
Petting a cow?
We drove all this way to pet a cow?
- Maybe, I don't know.
- Interesting.
No, we're here for the sheep.
Okay, what are we gonna do
with the sheep, you think?
- I mean, what do you do with sheep?
- You can shear them.
- Okay.
- You can wrestle them.
[gasps] I would love to see you do that.
[Harry] Anyway, let's get in the…
Let's get in this.
[Dannelle] In the Gator?
[Harry] Let's go see
what we're doing in the Gator.
[engine turns over, splutters]
- Oh God. [laughing]
- Let's lock in.
Let it rip!
[upbeat music playing]
- Babies there.
- Babies!
- [Harry] They're little terrors.
- [Dannelle] Oh my God. They're so cute!
- Look at them.
- Oh my God.
- [Harry laughing]
- I'm actually dying.
[Harry] They're so cute.
- [Dannelle] They're so cute.
- [lambs bleating]
Okay, I want one.
- Oh my God.
- [Harry] Wow.
[Dannelle] Oh my God.
- [Harry] Should we get in, say hi?
- [Dannelle] Yeah.
[lamb bleating]
[Harry] It's dinner time.
Come on, children.
- [Dannelle laughing]
- Parents are here. Good boy.
- Good boy, Diego.
- [Dannelle] Oh my gosh!
Where's Carlos Junior?
So when you feed them,
it has to be pretty low to the ground.
Here they come.
[Dannelle] When they run, it's so cute.
[Harry] Hey.
So you keep it low to the ground,
and you don't want it to get near empty,
because if they get air in it,
it's not very good for them.
- Look at them go.
- [gasps] Oh my gosh.
- [Harry] Is this a big guy? Here you go.
- [Dannelle gasps]
- [Harry] This is crazy.
- [Dannelle laughing] Oh my God.
- This is so cute. Look at the tail!
- [Harry laughing] Look at the tail!
[both laughing]
[Dannelle] This is what it's going to
be like when we have four kids.
[Harry] There we go.
- All right, guys, we're done.
- [Dannelle] That's it.
- You guys have had enough.
- [Dannelle] Oh my God. Okay.
[both laughing]
[gentle music playing]
The thing is, I grew up on a farm.
It's a bit different in Australia.
- [Dannelle] Mm-hm.
- We just had a ton of animals and stuff.
- And now my mom has 150 acres.
- Wow.
In Queensland, and it's a big part
of my upbringing.
And I think that's what I'd be hoping for
when I have a family.
- [Dannelle] Yeah.
- Is to give them connection to animals.
- And… raising stuff and responsibility.
- [Dannelle] Mm-hm.
I feel like the life out here,
like, it's so much better
for, like, raising a family
and having kids,
because it's like
they're connected to, like, nature.
Me personally, like, I want to have kids,
and I would love to be a stay-at-home mom,
at least until they go to school.
I can definitely see us having our kids
and bringing them here
and, you know, just being with the family,
all together.
And it'll be really special.
Honestly, I think that's a little bit
a part of me that I'm yearning for,
is I want that family
that I wanted when I was growing up.
It's really special to be here,
and, you know, I'm just--
I'm really thankful to be here with him.
Seeing you today with the little kids
was super cute.
You know, I could really see you
as, like, being a dad.
[Harry] No.
[Dannelle] And it just
made me really excited.
- [laughing] No.
- [Dannelle] Aw.
I can see you as a little mamacita too.
Mamacita?
[Harry] Yeah.
No, they were having fun with you.
And seeing how you took care
of Rio was so nice.
- [Dannelle] Oh, yeah.
- [Harry] He's a nugget. He's so good.
Yeah. No, he's really cute.
[Harry exhales heavily]
- You okay? Are you okay?
- Hm?
Yeah. I'm exhausted.
Yeah, me too.
Well, today's been fun.
- Yeah, no.
- It's been special.
Really happy to be here with you, though.
You know, and, like, see you…
in, like, your environment
and where you grew up a little.
- [Harry] It's a lot.
- [Dannelle] Yeah.
[Harry] I came to New Zealand
to find clarity
and just know exactly
who I was going to pick after this,
'cause I'm marrying someone in a few days,
but all I've got is confusion.
I have to make a decision.
Dannelle's perfect.
She's been so sweet and comforting
throughout this whole thing,
and just a gem.
But Amber has really opened up to me,
especially the last couple of days.
Honestly, I'm just-- I'm so confused.
I… I don't know what to think.
I feel like today was a good day.
I know it was really hard for you, though.
You know…
A lot of emotions coming up
and feelings and talking
about things. It was a lot.
But you're doing really good.
Yeah, you're doing great too.
- Appreciate you.
- Yeah.
This has been a big couple of days.
Um, it's been difficult.
This is the most difficult thing
I've ever had to navigate.
And it's coming up on a year anniversary
of watching my dad pass away.
It's been very overwhelming experiences,
bringing all this back here,
being constantly reminded
that I'll never see this guy again
and I'll never know
his opinion on these people.
Maybe it's all just hitting me right now.
I'm just so exhausted
and so tired and so sad.
["I Feel a Change" (feat. Harry Baymiller)
by Katie Hargrove playing]
It's a new a day ♪
Coming my way ♪
I feel a change in the air ♪
[song fades]
["Find My Way Home" by Katie Hargrove,
Sarah deCourcy, & Fired Earth Music plays]
I need to pack up my hotel room.
Everything's everywhere.
Getting back to LA will be amazing.
It's wedding week,
so that's kind of a crazy feeling.
Life has been such a fun journey lately.
I'm so grateful for all of it.
[Dannelle] I feel like I can go home
feeling really good about this trip.
I saw a different side of Harry
that I hadn't before.
It was important to see that side of him,
and then just having a different
experience together too was special.
I'm gonna find my, find my way home ♪
Taking the madness and letting it go ♪
[song fades]
[plaintive piano music playing]
["Catch Me"
by Rupert Pope & John Robertson playing]
[Harry] Waking up this morning,
I'm a little bit out of sorts right now.
I'm drowning ♪
[Harry] I feel like I started this…
I'm not flying ♪
…experience to find a wife.
Just falling ♪
[Harry] I think I've gotta find myself.
I don't know, I think it was just
a little bit heavier than I anticipated,
and coming back to this
and how I felt this time last year
has really triumphed
what is going on with the girls.
So they're both great options.
They'd both be amazing wives, but…
but now it's like, I still have
so much work to do on myself
to figure out who I am
and what makes me happy,
because the one thing
I thought made me happy, being back,
hasn't done that.
I'm drowning ♪
[Harry] The last thing I wanna do
is waste anyone's time,
and they went through all that for what?
For me to not pick anyone?
It's a confusing, conflicting headspace
because I don't know
if I could marry either of them.
I want to take us higher ♪
[Harry] It's so unfair to bring
someone into this trauma.
Looking down from way below ♪
There's just so many things
that I feel like this--
I'm undeserving
of what they have to offer and…
Really just got to find myself
and figure out…
Looking down from way above ♪
…who I am and what I am.
- You say there is no reason ♪
- [Harry sobbing]
I don't have an answer.
I don't have one today,
I didn't have one on the first day.
I won't have one until the day, I guess.
Ooh ♪
[continues sobbing]
Catch me ♪
[Harry] I'm here, in a predicament,
with two of the most amazing women
I've ever met.
And it's a little bit daunting.
I love you, and, like,
I'm excited for, like, our future.
I really, really love you,
and I want you to know
that, like, I feel so deeply for you.
Say I go to the wedding,
I pick no one. What happens?
No one, to not even continue
seeing at all?
No marriage, no nothing.
There should be zero pressure on you.
Just say, like,
"This ain't the right time."
[Harry] I'm really anxious.
Tomorrow is the big day.
Are they right for me?
Am I right for them?
Or am I even right
for this whole experience?
[dramatic music playing]
Whatever happens, whatever you choose,
we all support you, and we love you.
Honestly, it's a really weird feeling
to know if you're gonna
go through, like, a severe breakup
or walk down the aisle.
This man better come correct today.
[woman] Oh my God! Unreal.
[Dannelle] There's a chance
that I'm not going to marry Harry,
and that's devastating.
[dramatic music continues]
Now, I just-- I don't even know
if I am ready for this.
[music fades]
["Love's Got A Hold"
by Neon Echoes playing]
It's measuring my heart
Staring in my soul ♪
Dancing through the crowd ♪
Electric in the dark
You glitter like it's gold ♪
But you fell on me, losing control ♪
'Cause your love's got a hold
Yeah, your love's got a hold ♪
Yeah, your love's got a hold on me ♪
'Cause your love's got a hold
Yeah, your love's got a hold ♪
Yeah, your love's got a hold on me ♪
Love's got a hold, love's got a hold ♪
Love's got a hold on me ♪
Love's got a hold on me ♪
[song fades]